Hey! I’m 26, genderfluid, born male, and I have a skinny build and a youthful appearance(like 18yo). Most of the time I present as a guy, but whenever I feel feminine, I like exploring that side of myself privately and in my own way.

you can check my pics here: mypics

Disclaimer: I have a male body, present as male most of the time, and I’m only interested in girls. I’m hoping to meet someone who’s open-minded and accepting of both sides of me. ❤️

A little about me: I’m a huge Swiftie, so if you are too, tell me your favorite Taylor Swift song! 🎶 I also have some nerdy hobbies—Rubik’s cubes, Minecraft, anime—and I’ve recently started getting into reading books.

I’m hoping to find someone I can genuinely connect with, have fun conversations with, and eventually go on cute dates with. I’d love someone who accepts me as I am, including both my masculine and feminine sides.

If we click, maybe we can grab coffee or go on a date this weekend. 😊

Tell me your favorite Taylor Swift song when you message me so I know you read the post!

Hey I'm 26(looks 18) genderfluid(sometimes a girl sometimes a boy, but born as a boy). I have so many hobbies like anime, football, listening to taylor swift and many more.

Looking to go on a date with cute girl on this weekend.

Hit me up and see where this goes.

I’m Genderfluid(born as male, but heavily lean towards feminity). I’m more girl than a guy but not entirely girl. And I’m into women and maybe someone fem leaning.

I want to post pictures, share thoughts and stuff with my girlies. Am I allowed to post??

I'm having stuffed nose. Can't sleep so looking to chat with someone.

Just to clarify I'm genderfluid(amab) if that's an issue for you

Hello,

Does anyone wanna chat I’m really bored. I’m 26(looks 18) btw, childish. Any topic works except for religion and politics.

I have seeing a lot posts from this subreddit and community in general, where people are saying they are not able to find someone to date. Do we need such platform on reddit?

If yes we can create one. There will be obviously some kind of verification check.

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Hi everyone,

Please don't skip this post, I really need some advice!

The Backstory

I (M26 fem leaning genderfluid, virgin) matched with a girl (21F) on Tinder. She looked cute and mentioned she matched with me because she’s never been with a "feminine guy" before and wanted to try it out. She initially asked to meet up the very same weekend we matched (likely for sex), but I declined because I felt it was moving too fast.

Instead, we chatted for a week. Our routine was usually me texting her in the morning, her replying by the afternoon, and then us texting back and forth for about an hour.

The Date & Sudden Shift

We finally met up this past Sunday. The date went well, we even kissed (I’ve detailed the story below), and we even chatted for hours after the date on Sunday night.

However, yesterday her energy completely changed. She didn't reply until nighttime, and when she did, her texts were incredibly dry.

I’m really confused. What should I do? How do I proceed from here? Should I keep texting her, or just wait for her to reply?

⚠️ The Full Date Story

We decided to meet at a metro station and walked around looking for a random cafe. Because I was clumsy and she was worried I might get hit by a car, she held my hand while we crossed the road.

Once we found a nice cafe, my shyness kicked in. She was cracking double-meaning jokes and flirting a bit (she was wearing a push-up bra). I was a little dry and awkward, but I managed to keep the conversation going.

After brunch, she wanted to wash her hands (she’s a bit of a germophobe). The cafe didn't have a dedicated hand-washing area, just a small restroom on the next floor. We went up there, and as I stood by the door, she asked me to come inside. A few seconds later, she asked, "Why aren't you closing the door?"

While lathering her hands with soap, she said, "Do you know why they made this bathroom so small? Maybe for kissing?" I just said, "Maybe." She let her hair down, and I washed my hands too. When I finished, she asked, "Aren't you going to gargle?" so I did.

Then, she started checking herself out in the mirror, getting close to me, leaning on me, and pressing her backside against my body. She stepped away and just stared at me—probably wondering why I hadn't made a move yet. After about 30 seconds of awkward staring, I finally asked, "Do you wanna kiss?" She asked, "Are you sure?" and I said, "Yeah."

We started kissing. I originally just wanted a quick, normal kiss on the lips, but she introduced her tongue and kept it going (to be honest, tongue kissing felt a bit weird since it was my first time). She took my arm, placed it on her ass, and we kept kissing for over a minute.

Afterward, we walked for about an hour and then headed back to our respective places.

What do you think?

Given how intensely into it she seemed during the date, I don't understand the sudden radio silence. Any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated!

Hi everyone,

Please don't skip this post, I really need some advice!

The Backstory

I (M26, virgin) matched with a girl (21F) on Tinder. She looked cute and mentioned she matched with me because she’s never been with a "feminine guy" before and wanted to try it out. She initially asked to meet up the very same weekend we matched (likely for sex), but I declined because I felt it was moving too fast.

Instead, we chatted for a week. Our routine was usually me texting her in the morning, her replying by the afternoon, and then us texting back and forth for about an hour.

The Date & Sudden Shift

We finally met up this past Sunday. The date went well, we even kissed (I’ve detailed the story below), and we even chatted for hours after the date on Sunday night.

However, yesterday her energy completely changed. She didn't reply until nighttime, and when she did, her texts were incredibly dry.

I’m really confused. What should I do? How do I proceed from here? Should I keep texting her, or just wait for her to reply?

⚠️ The Full Date Story (Can be skipped)

We decided to meet at a metro station and walked around looking for a random cafe. Because I was clumsy and she was worried I might get hit by a car, she held my hand while we crossed the road.

Once we found a nice cafe, my shyness kicked in. She was cracking double-meaning jokes and flirting a bit (she was wearing a push-up bra). I was a little dry and awkward, but I managed to keep the conversation going.

After brunch, she wanted to wash her hands (she’s a bit of a germophobe). The cafe didn't have a dedicated hand-washing area, just a small restroom on the next floor. We went up there, and as I stood by the door, she asked me to come inside. A few seconds later, she asked, "Why aren't you closing the door?"

While lathering her hands with soap, she said, "Do you know why they made this bathroom so small? Maybe for kissing?" I just said, "Maybe." She let her hair down, and I washed my hands too. When I finished, she asked, "Aren't you going to gargle?" so I did.

Then, she started checking herself out in the mirror, getting close to me, leaning on me, and pressing her backside against my body. She stepped away and just stared at me—probably wondering why I hadn't made a move yet. After about 30 seconds of awkward staring, I finally asked, "Do you wanna kiss?" She asked, "Are you sure?" and I said, "Yeah."

We started kissing. I originally just wanted a quick, normal kiss on the lips, but she introduced her tongue and kept it going (to be honest, tongue kissing felt a bit weird since it was my first time). She took my arm, placed it on her ass, and we kept kissing for over a minute.

Afterward, we walked for about an hour and then headed back to our respective places.

What do you think?

Given how intensely into it she seemed during the date, I don't understand the sudden radio silence. Any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated!

I’m a fem leaning man 26 ( but I look 18). So I’m mostly interested in thrifting female clothing and hangouts on weekends. So anyone from around 20-26 works.

Dm me if anyone is interested.
only looking for hangout buddies.