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22f / SEA / 5’6 soft masc looking for my person (LDR)

It’s October, and I’m still waiting to fall in love in October. Hey! I’m 22, 5’6 soft masc based in Southeast Asia, and I’m looking to build a real, intentional, and monogamous connection with a woman between 21 and 28. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker for me: I’m actually looking outside my country, so I’m completely open to an LDR as long as the effort, communication, and emotional connection are mutual.

A bit about my vibe: Quality time is my main love language. When I’m relaxing, I’m usually gaming (mostly playing GTA V) or watching movies, especially queer cinema. I also like spending time outdoors when I want to clear my head. On a personal level, I’m not religious at all; I adhere to LaVeyan Satanism, which for me is all about individualism, logic, and self-respect. I’m straightforward, protective of the people I care about, and prefer genuine, unfiltered late-night chats over surface-level small talk.

Let’s skip the awkward introductions and jump straight in. What’s your ultimate, all-time favorite queer movie, or a game you can sink endless hours into?

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop a comment below or send me a DM with an intro! ✨

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 4 days ago
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22f southeast Asian/anywhere. Looking for my muse

Here's the problem.. I'm trying to be more creative as an English literature student but I'm really stuck and my life has been boring. I want to meet someone who I can show affection with, someone who's caring, mindful, kind, and all the lovely things.

I like to spend times with my loved one, online or offline. Or if we live so far away I would send u a letter once in a while. I like to do mundane small little things and be happy about it if we do it together. I like to share every little thing about me or what happened to me and I would love to hear from you too!

I'm a soft masc and I'm looking for anything if you're a masc or femme idc, I care about ur personality wise!!

If you feel resonate with this, feel free to leave a message! And getting to know each other! See ya 😉😉

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 1 month ago
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22f southeast Asian/anywhere

Hey everyone! I'm Leon 21f looking for someone in the age range of 20-30

Living in a not queer friendly area is really hard and I'm planning to go abroad, somewhere safe for me for being myself.

I like to watch films/series, especially about wars and queer films/series and I just finished watching the boys(applause for the property team). Sometimes I play games too like Roblox, Minecraft PE, Sims 4, GTA V, etc.

Also, I'm trying to read books!! And started to write too.

I like to getting to know people and I asks random stuff to a serious convos. I adore every little thing about someone, to get to know them better. I would love to chat and voice/video call.

Look wise I'm 170cm light tan dark short hair and dark eyes, mix between fem and masc.

I'm into someone who is kind, mindful, full of effort, adore every moment we do. And I'm open to Idr wherever you're, we might be the best duo! And I'm strictly monogamous. Also I'm not religious or into any spirituality stuff but if you do that's okay!

Feel free to drop into my DMs if you want to chat, trade recommendations, or just see where things go! Don't be shy and just hit my dm!

See you👻👻

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 1 month ago
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22f southeast Asian/online/anywhere

Hey everyone! I'm Leon 21f looking for someone in the age range of 20-30

Living in a not queer friendly area is really hard and I'm planning to go abroad, somewhere safe for me for being myself.

I like to watch films/series, especially about wars and queer films/series and I just finished watching the boys(applause for the property team). Sometimes I play games too like Roblox, Minecraft PE, Sims 4, GTA V, etc.

Also, I'm trying to read books!! And started to write too.

I like to getting to know people and I asks random stuff to a serious convos. I adore every little thing about someone, to get to know them better. I would love to chat and voice/video call.

Look wise I'm 170cm light tan dark short hair and dark eyes, mix between fem and masc.

I'm into someone who is kind, mindful, full of effort, adore every moment we do. And I'm open to Idr wherever you're, we might be the best duo! And I'm strictly monogamous. Also I'm not religious or into any spirituality stuff but if you do that's okay!

Feel free to drop into my DMs if you want to chat, trade recommendations, or just see where things go! Don't be shy and just hit my dm!

See you👻👻

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago

22f at my relatives place and got nothing to do

Let's have a chat and maybe we can be friends too. I'm an open book you can ask me anything but sfw only no weirdos pls, be respectful.

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago
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22f jakarta/online anywhere 😉

Hey everyone! Looking for everyone in the 20 - 30 age range

posting from Jakarta, I'm here looking for a genuine connection that could grow into a relationship with someone who values communication, curiosity, and good effort.

My biggest green flag is I'm full of affection.

Living in a not queer friendly area is really hard and I'm planning to go abroad, somewhere safe for me for being myself.

I like to watch films/series, especially about wars and queer films/series and I just finished watching the boys(applause for the property team). Sometimes I play games too like Roblox, Minecraft PE, Sims 4, GTA V, etc.

Also, I'm trying to read books!! And started to writing too.

I like to getting to know people and I asks random stuff to a serious talks. I adore every little thing about someone, to get to know them better. I would love to chat and voice/video call.

Look wise I'm 170cm light tan dark short hair and dark eyes, mix between fem and masc.

I'm into someone who is kind, mindful, full of effort, adore every moment we do. And I'm open to Idr wherever you're, we might be the best duo! And I'm strictly monogamous. Also I'm not religious or into any spirituality stuff but if you do that's okay!

Feel free to drop into my DMs if you want to chat, trade recommendations, or just see where things go! Don't be shy and just hit my dm!

See you👻👻

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago

Do humans need meaning to live

I don't have any meaning in life, just simply existing and surviving. I tried to search for meaning at first but it was just exhausting sometimes and why didn't I just live and enjoy the present.

But I do understand why people want a meaningful life, it's a great feeling. The feeling of being purposeful.

So what is your meaning? Or are you still trying to find one

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago

I'm so bad at socializing

I have low maintenance friendships with my best friends (they're only like 2 people) let alone having a relationship. Idk is it because of my personality or I'm just mentally ill. In some days I could be very talkative and fast respond and happy to chat a lot, having some good times, but there's also some low mood days where I'm gone and avoid socializing and it can take up to days.

I know it is frustrating for the other person, I'm trying to be better.

Do you think there's people who are willing to be in relationships with this kind of situation?

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago

This going to be my first tatto

My late friend drew this, I got no chance to ask him what the story was about behind the drawing. He's such a lovely friend and a kind soul, that's why I chose this to be my first tattoo. He died way too fast and was too young. Will always be remembered

u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago

Read martyr by kaveh akbar together

Anyone interested in reading together and sharing thoughts. I've started to read martyr but I would like to have someone to read together because I get distracted so easily and I want someone to talk to while reading.

I'm 21 pls be 20+

If you're interested pls dm me and send ur asl 😁

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 2 months ago

Anhedonia worsen

I've been taking my meds religiously but since about 4 days ago I've been experiencing anhedonia which is sucks, nothing excites me anymore; not even games that I love to play. I feel so weird

Is this going to be gone soon?

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 3 months ago

21f let's play Roblox

Looking for game buddy to play a chill Roblox game maybe like climbing some mountain while calling on discord

I'll answer you when I get back home

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 3 months ago

Game buddy

Heyaa I'm Leon 21f afab and I've been only playing Roblox rn because my other laptop is broken so if you want to play something chill on Roblox while having conversations on discord just hit my dm 😉😉

I'm trying to make friend or something more whatever happens will happens but let just enjoy each other company and memorable conversations. Don't forget to send me your asl and short intro and maybe what Roblox game we should play!!

I'm waiting for you 👻👻

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 3 months ago

21f [F4F] Jakarta

HII I'm Leon!! 21 and super queer

looking for early to late 20s, I’m from Jakarta

I’m looking for someone who can cherish my love bombing

I’m a good listener, and my memory for small details of the people I care about is exceptional. Also, I like deep convos about anything, and I adore silly, chaotic daily convos too!!

Something that makes me melt is when you're willing to spare the time, be present in the moment, share everything, and be genuine. 

Let me talk about my interests, series, and movies I’ve been watching: The boys, the pitt, 911 series, dexter, the pianist, boy in the stripped pajamas, the sheep detective, many queer movies and series, and please give me recommendations!!

For songs, it's a hard one; if I like that song, it's going to be on a loop for months until I find something new. But mostly Queen songs that I like the best

I try to read, you can send me your fav books!!

I like to play games too but currently I can only play roblox and minecraft bedrock

I don't mind how far you are, I’m down for ldr. And besides chat, I would like to voice chat too or maybe video call. 

Thank you if you made it until here, if you are interested, send me your asl and introduce urself!! Can’t wait to talk to you

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 3 months ago

Is this considered as restless legs?

Since I was I kid I experience this weird feeling in my calves, it's not hurt, not cramps, not numb, or else but feels empty and hollow just like the space.

How do I manage it is to feel hurt, when I put some pain on my calves it feels much better, then I can sleep or else I won't fall asleep

Idk if this is restless legs or something else?

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 4 months ago

21f accompany me while I do my assignments

Preferably an easygoing person and no creep pls and be around my age or 20 to 30

Voice chat on discord

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u/sinmonger-1221 — 4 months ago