the men who didn’t care a single bit about nuance in the case of clancy are suddenly very interested in it now …

the men who didn’t care a single bit about nuance in the case of clancy are suddenly very interested in it now …

im not really interested in debating the details of the cornell 7 with men who hand waved any discussion of clancy with “she killed 3 children, end of story.” they dismissed any woman who tried to say “this is a horrible case and shouldn’t have happened, but can we please talk about better support for mothers so this doesn’t happen again?” with saying “you’re just a violent bitch like her, aren’t you?” + they got extremely pissed at any woman trying to understand the details and evidence around the case itself. if you were a woman speaking about clancy in any capacity you were met with men mocking you and saying your rights should be stripped away.

now those same men wanna say w-w-wait wait let’s read the cornell case details, maybe they’re innocent!1! nah dude im not playing this game with you at all lmao, not in the slightest. **you don’t give a fuck about the victims in either of these cases, you only care about scoring your internet points against women**.

u/soryu0 — 11 days ago

men who act like “if you’re accused of rape your life is ruined” are so dumb

some fun statistics:

Reporting: Out of every 1,000 sexual assaults, only about 230 are reported to the police.
Arrests: Only about 49 of those 1,000 cases result in an arrest of the perpetrator.
Prosecution: Just 9 of those cases are referred to prosecutors for formal charges.
Conviction and Incarceration: Roughly 4.6 perpetrators out of every 1,000 commit the crime and ultimately face incarceration.

this means roughly 0.6% to 0.7% of all completed or attempted rapes result in the perpetrator going to jail or prison, meaning over 99% of rapists never see legal punishment.

and then after hearing all of this men still act like the biggest threat to mankind is being falsely accused of rape, lmao..

u/soryu0 — 25 days ago

the last week in a nutshell (clancy case for context)

men dgaf abt the dead children. if they did, they’d care about the hundreds of familicides men have committed. they just love hating women and are incredibly low iq and emotional about it

u/soryu0 — 1 month ago

males are whores; they create religions just so they can have multiple female partners

it’s actually crazy how much men desire to have multiple female partners at a time, throughout history and still to this day they are driven by their animalistic desires and nature. they want to fuck multiple women while said women are solely devoted to them.

joseph smith (founder of mormonism) had 30-40 wives, some of which were children. for years followers of his church also took up polygyny, i can imagine that was a big draw to the religion for men. offshoots of the church, most notably FLDS, still practice polygyny to this day, often with their own family members and the girls are married off before they even turn 18 🤢

i honestly don't know how muslim women cope with learning about Jannah (afterlife paradise). men are promised the hoor al-ayn, which is widely interpreted by muslim men that in heaven each of them will receive multiple young, pure, beautiful women for sexual pleasure. how do you cope with knowing your husband, when he gets to heaven, will be fucking a rotation of hot girls for eternity? and that most muslim men, even if they ‘love’ their wives, are very much looking forward to this. men will often shame women for being upset about this, telling them cope like “you’ll be content in jannah so there will be no jealousy,” and if a woman asks if she can get the same in jannah men just say “it’s natural for men to want multiple women. it’s unnatural for a woman to want more than one man.” ??

additionally online men adamantly say that they can’t be satisfied with just one woman. in many reddit threads you’ll see them admit that if they could have multiple wives, or have one wife with a rotation of gfs to fuck, that that would be the ideal life. the only things that stop them from having that are they aren’t hot/rich enough, or it being too much “drama.” the reason is never “my wife is enough for me and i don’t want anyone else.” or another reason they don’t want polyamory is because they can’t cope with their female partner having multiple partners. they want to fuck multiple women while their wife stays at home alone, only devoted to them.

honestly, why do men call women whores when they think and act like this? it’s such projection. even if women are “hypergamous” that’s better than males being polygynous. at least according to those two evolutionary influences women can love and be satisfied with one man. men will never want just one woman.

(of course the img here assumes hetero relationships, though if we look at polyamory stats for lesbians it’s very common that they also just want one gf/wife, whereas for gay men they have high rates or polyamory/open relationships so they want multiple male partners. men just can’t be satisfied).

u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

Took a family trip this past week. Looking for realistic advice on crowds for a trip next year

my fam and i visited gnp this past week and it was beautiful. great weather, great sights. didn’t hike or see as much wildlife as I’d like to so i’m planning on coming back with my partner next year to do more.

the one thing that put me off is crowds. i’m used to dealing with crowds at national parks especially being at the liberty of my family’s plans but want to plan better avoid them as best i can while on a smaller group trip. my fam isn’t huge hikers so we stuck to popular trails when we did hike (grinnell, avalanche) and not during the shoulder times, so we definitely encountered the worst hiking crowds for sure.

i’m just wondering how different it’d be to say hike something like piegan pass and start early-ish in the morning. according to what i’ve read it’d definitely be better but how much so? even if it was during late august or labor day week and not necessarily like in the true shoulder season. i was looking into that trail as well as doing gunsight pass as a 2-3day trip (reservation permitting of course). other hikes too that i’ve seen are less trafficked like cracker lake.

i’m just trying to keep my expectations realistic for what we’d experience and was wondering if anyone had stuff to share, thanks : )

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u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

a lot of pro-lifers dgaf abt embryos they just hate women “being whores” (having sex without them)

i don’t doubt that genuine pro-lifers exist, especially like religious women, or those who think fetuses should be protected past a certain stage/week of the pregnancy (reasonable and i think many people agree with that).

but SO MANY pro-lifers are men who aren’t even religious who want complete abortion bans, even for zygotes that are genuinely just a clump of cells (yet they don’t care about the millions of sperm they kill daily lmao).

they want to take away any and all contraceptive use. fr what is the point of that besides just trying to dissuade women from having sex? you can’t possibly believe that simply taking birth control is evil or some shit.

they just hate that women are out there having sex with men who aren’t them. this motive is especially revealed when they start using phrases like “she should face consequences for her actions” (why are we talking about a baby as a form of punishment?) and “she should just close her legs” (maybe men should zip up their pants?).

but see how fast they switch up when they accidentally knock up a chick they didn’t mean to 😂 suddenly “killing a baby” is permissible to them. (also not to mention these same dudes dgaf at all about supporting policies that help children after they’re born)

u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

men hate rape victims more than they hate rapists

it’s crazy the amount of hatred i see lately for female rape victims from men, they think you’re disgusting because another male violated you. they say “don’t tell us if you’ve been sexually assaulted, because we’ll hate you for it, for something you had no control over.”

males avoid any accountability, any blame for other males who do that shit, and their victim blaming against women is getting worse and worse.

u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

males get so pressed when women judge them back in the same way they judge women

i honestly dgaf when men cry about how “there’s nothing you can do to impress a woman nowadays, all she cares about is your looks, your height.”

as if men ever cared about shit beyond the way a woman looks & her body! they proudly and adamantly say that they’d prefer a “hot cashier” over a “smart, accomplished scientist.” honestly it’s so embarrassing for them, and i don’t feel bad for them when they get evaluated based on their looks right back.

u/soryu0 — 3 months ago

marrying males is a self harm

every male crying about Lamine Yamal’s girl because ‘she had the audacity to break up with her former partner for him’ i can guarantee doesn’t give a single fuck about the phenomenon of men ditching their wives for younger women. have you ever heard the term “starter wife?” marrying males is a waste. they don’t truly love

u/soryu0 — 3 months ago
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solutions for bad positional/orthostatic headaches?

this is my main symptom that bothers me. also have quickened heart rate on standing, nausea on standing, etc. but the painful headache is the worst symptom. it comes on immediately when i stand or sit up and gets worse the longer i’m up. lying down almost eliminates it entirely. but i’m practically bedbound because of it.

haven’t been able to get in with a cardiologist yet, but i’m curious if others who have this have things that work for them. like medications or other things. thanks in advance!

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u/soryu0 — 3 months ago

Bad flare up from doxepin/antidepressant

In 2021 I took a dose of mdma, my first time ever. For weeks afterwards I had trouble standing without getting faint. An ER trip and cardiologist appointment later I was diagnosed with dysautonomia and given propranolol. Thankfully, the symptoms got better on their own after a few weeks and my life went back to normal for the most part. Only occasionally over the years does it bother me, mostly when I’m standing in place for too long and it’s hot, I’m dehydrated, I’m sick, etc.

I’ve been having trouble with my sleep lately so my doc prescribed me doxepin at 3mg. I’ve taken a TCA in the past without issues (amitriptyline). I took my first dose last Thursday. On Sunday, I started having a horrible headache. Monday morning after laying down and sleeping it felt better, but then returned when I got up. It’s definitely a positional headache.

I quit the Doxepin on Monday but now as it’s Wednesday I’m still having the positional headache, as well as other dysautonomia symptoms like dizziness, nausea, fast heart rate. I can only imagine this is a dysautonomia flare triggered by that Doxepin. I’m writing this from the ER right now so we’ll see what they say, since my regular doc couldn’t fit me in. I see that Doxepin can cause symptoms similar to dysautonomia but I don’t see any cases where it’s caused a flare like this that lasts even when off of it 72hrs later. It was a small dose, taken only a few days, so it’s hard to imagine a meaningful amount is still in my system. Plus, the symptoms didn’t show until a few days into taking it.

I hope it goes back to normal because I can’t even sit up without getting dizzy and my head pounding.

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u/soryu0 — 3 months ago

silenor/doxepin headaches - do they get better?

i’ve been taking silenor a few days now at 3mg, and i think it helps a little. not a ton but it does do a bit to help me. i’d like to try 6mg at some point probably.

however, the past two days i’ve had horrible headaches for most of the day which i believe are from this medication. advil isn’t helping them much. is this a side effect that i can expect to subside? if not, then this med is not worth it for me.

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u/soryu0 — 3 months ago

even fat men insult fat women, it’s crazy the amount of vitriol men have if you’re not thin

u/soryu0 — 3 months ago

it’s actually so depressing how many men feel this way

marriage is just a means for men to get free labor and consistent sex. there’s no love

if they suddenly get rich and now they’re able to pay for a maid and “bang a bunch of young girls because they’re rich,” they drop their wives in a heartbeat, they never actually love their wives at all, or “care about family values” 🙃

u/soryu0 — 3 months ago