a lot of pro-lifers dgaf abt embryos they just hate women “being whores” (having sex without them)

a lot of pro-lifers dgaf abt embryos they just hate women “being whores” (having sex without them)

i don’t doubt that genuine pro-lifers exist, especially like religious women, or those who think fetuses should be protected past a certain stage/week of the pregnancy (reasonable and i think many people agree with that).

but SO MANY pro-lifers are men who aren’t even religious who want complete abortion bans, even for zygotes that are genuinely just a clump of cells (yet they don’t care about the millions of sperm they kill daily lmao).

they want to take away any and all contraceptive use. fr what is the point of that besides just trying to dissuade women from having sex? you can’t possibly believe that simply taking birth control is evil or some shit.

they just hate that women are out there having sex with men who aren’t them. this motive is especially revealed when they start using phrases like “she should face consequences for her actions” (why are we talking about a baby as a form of punishment?) and “she should just close her legs” (maybe men should zip up their pants?).

but see how fast they switch up when they accidentally knock up a chick they didn’t mean to 😂 suddenly “killing a baby” is permissible to them. (also not to mention these same dudes dgaf at all about supporting policies that help children after they’re born)

u/soryu0 — 6 days ago

men hate rape victims more than they hate rapists

it’s crazy the amount of hatred i see lately for female rape victims from men, they think you’re disgusting because another male violated you. they say “don’t tell us if you’ve been sexually assaulted, because we’ll hate you for it, for something you had no control over.”

males avoid any accountability, any blame for other males who do that shit, and their victim blaming against women is getting worse and worse.

u/soryu0 — 12 days ago

males get so pressed when women judge them back in the same way they judge women

i honestly dgaf when men cry about how “there’s nothing you can do to impress a woman nowadays, all she cares about is your looks, your height.”

as if men ever cared about shit beyond the way a woman looks & her body! they proudly and adamantly say that they’d prefer a “hot cashier” over a “smart, accomplished scientist.” honestly it’s so embarrassing for them, and i don’t feel bad for them when they get evaluated based on their looks right back.

u/soryu0 — 21 days ago

marrying males is a self harm

every male crying about Lamine Yamal’s girl because ‘she had the audacity to break up with her former partner for him’ i can guarantee doesn’t give a single fuck about the phenomenon of men ditching their wives for younger women. have you ever heard the term “starter wife?” marrying males is a waste. they don’t truly love

u/soryu0 — 22 days ago
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solutions for bad positional/orthostatic headaches?

this is my main symptom that bothers me. also have quickened heart rate on standing, nausea on standing, etc. but the painful headache is the worst symptom. it comes on immediately when i stand or sit up and gets worse the longer i’m up. lying down almost eliminates it entirely. but i’m practically bedbound because of it.

haven’t been able to get in with a cardiologist yet, but i’m curious if others who have this have things that work for them. like medications or other things. thanks in advance!

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u/soryu0 — 27 days ago

Bad flare up from doxepin/antidepressant

In 2021 I took a dose of mdma, my first time ever. For weeks afterwards I had trouble standing without getting faint. An ER trip and cardiologist appointment later I was diagnosed with dysautonomia and given propranolol. Thankfully, the symptoms got better on their own after a few weeks and my life went back to normal for the most part. Only occasionally over the years does it bother me, mostly when I’m standing in place for too long and it’s hot, I’m dehydrated, I’m sick, etc.

I’ve been having trouble with my sleep lately so my doc prescribed me doxepin at 3mg. I’ve taken a TCA in the past without issues (amitriptyline). I took my first dose last Thursday. On Sunday, I started having a horrible headache. Monday morning after laying down and sleeping it felt better, but then returned when I got up. It’s definitely a positional headache.

I quit the Doxepin on Monday but now as it’s Wednesday I’m still having the positional headache, as well as other dysautonomia symptoms like dizziness, nausea, fast heart rate. I can only imagine this is a dysautonomia flare triggered by that Doxepin. I’m writing this from the ER right now so we’ll see what they say, since my regular doc couldn’t fit me in. I see that Doxepin can cause symptoms similar to dysautonomia but I don’t see any cases where it’s caused a flare like this that lasts even when off of it 72hrs later. It was a small dose, taken only a few days, so it’s hard to imagine a meaningful amount is still in my system. Plus, the symptoms didn’t show until a few days into taking it.

I hope it goes back to normal because I can’t even sit up without getting dizzy and my head pounding.

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u/soryu0 — 29 days ago

silenor/doxepin headaches - do they get better?

i’ve been taking silenor a few days now at 3mg, and i think it helps a little. not a ton but it does do a bit to help me. i’d like to try 6mg at some point probably.

however, the past two days i’ve had horrible headaches for most of the day which i believe are from this medication. advil isn’t helping them much. is this a side effect that i can expect to subside? if not, then this med is not worth it for me.

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u/soryu0 — 1 month ago

even fat men insult fat women, it’s crazy the amount of vitriol men have if you’re not thin

u/soryu0 — 1 month ago

it’s actually so depressing how many men feel this way

marriage is just a means for men to get free labor and consistent sex. there’s no love

if they suddenly get rich and now they’re able to pay for a maid and “bang a bunch of young girls because they’re rich,” they drop their wives in a heartbeat, they never actually love their wives at all, or “care about family values” 🙃

u/soryu0 — 1 month ago

how men talk about us 😀

yea ok so we’re just disposable fleshlights so they can get ‘better at fucking’ for the girl they ACTUALLY want great thanks

u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

sensitive ass behavior 🤣🤣

i thought they were supposed to be the tough, unemotional gender 🤔

but fr they have websites dedicated to fantasizing about maiming, torturing, raping, and killing women simply because their crush rejected them one time in 4th grade. talking about how “we must disempower women so they’ll be beneath us and controllable again”; “women should not be able to choose what they want in life but should instead be assigned to men as slaves.”

but then when we have a sub calling out their behavior they gotta sit around with their finger on the report trigger every time a post comes through lmfao. losers!!

u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

how bad is my situation?

for the past 6mo i’ve been struggling to sleep. i can’t sleep through a whole night; i wake up 2-4 times. i never ever sleep longer than 4hrs at a time. i can typically fall asleep really quickly, so thankfully that’s not an issue. but at one of those wake up cycles i’ll be unable to fall back asleep. so sometimes that’s at 4hrs, sometimes at 6hrs, and only on some occasions will i get 8hrs (never longer than that, even when i’ve hardly slept nights before). i’d say i average 5-6hrs a night of broken sleep (i’m 24F for reference). i used to never struggle with insomnia

the cause of my insomnia seems to be chemical related due to mdma i tried 6months ago—since then i’ve never slept the same. seems something’s off in my brain as i also developed other negative cns symptoms from that mdma.

i was hoping it’d just wear off but it’s not budging. i’ve already tried trazodone which didn’t work and also further worsened it i think due to the serotonin system implication since it was already “damaged” i tried zopiclone too which didn’t help. i wonder where to go next. but i am in general worried about my health and envious of my bf who can pass out for 9hrs straight. man!

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u/soryu0 — 2 months ago

24F who’s underweight; a bit perplexed

went to the doctor for some routine labs and got this back, this is the first time i’m finding out i have high cholesterol

my bmi is literally like 16-17, i’m only 100lbs 💀 i’ve had this weight for years. unhealthy, i know, but at least the rest of my labs were fine save for some low iron

high cholesterol seems to run in my family a bit as my dad has dealt with it for years without being really overweight/unhealthy; he has to take meds for it. and uncle on my mom’s side has had it since he was young and lean.

ngl, my diet isn’t great and i don’t exercise much. i mean obv im not overeating but i could definitely eat better. i’m not a smoker though, and not an alcoholic. though the night before the test i’d been out w friends eating bad and drinking a lil so i wonder if that impacted the triglycerides score (test wasn’t fasted either)

my doctor just told me to eat better and re-test in some months. but i’m wondering if diet can handle all of getting my ldl down or if i’m going to need medication?

u/soryu0 — 3 months ago

getting trails in the daytime now too fml

i’ve had vss 5yrs and it’s been pretty much stable the entire time. but in the past 5 months it’s been much worse, and i don’t know why. i trialed a few doses of an ssri and then 2mo later my symptoms worsened so maybe that’s why? but i’ve had ssri’s in the past w 0 issue :(

i used to only get trails at night, off of moving lights or when i moved my eyes around. but now i’m getting them in the daytime too, off of people’s hands, anything with a highlight when i move my eyes leaves a streak, and now videos and games are really stutter-y/laggy like due to losing my smooth processing

i hate how fkn fragile this disorder is. that something so minuscule can make everything worse, permanently. i mean i hope it’ll go back to my previous baseline, but going on 5mo and never reading of others getting better is making me lose hope

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u/soryu0 — 3 months ago