Recently got accepted and I have no idea what to do

First off, I am going to apologize for the long post. I feel like to get proper advice I have to spill everything. So this also might be a little jumbled. I have 5 more days to give a yes or no. I hate that they only give a week to decide.

I moved from my home town a year ago and I love where I live now. If I go to the DCP, I will be moving back to my home town once I finish the program. Every time I am in my hometown I feel trapped. But it is the only place that offers the program I want to do (like college career program).

Now that that's out of the way, let's get to why this is hard. One of my friends has some pets that I have grown close with. The thought of saying goodbye to them and saying goodbye to my friends makes me want to vomit. I have cried so many times at the thought. I also have so many photography opportunities coming up and I enjoy my current job (the job and the photography go hand in hand). I also have many people asking me to do their graduation photos. And if I go, I'll leave in march which is before graduation.

But I also don't have many friends other than the ones who have the pets. I live in a college town and go to some events on campus and me and this boy go to the same actives. We talked for a little bit, but decided we were better off as friends. But now he has randomly unadded me, unfollowed me and I have no idea why. We saw each other on Tuesday and it was all normal. Planned to go fishing Monday, chatted like normal yesterday and then today I woke up and saw he unadded me and such. I truly have no idea since everything was fine yesterday.

Pros if I leave: meet new people, new opportunities, get to work at disney, get to leave all this boy trouble behind (but with this generation, the boy trouble will be over in like two weeks because everyone will move on).

Cons if I leave: Saying goodbye to the pets, friends, possibly losing photography opportunities, moving 11+ hours from home, and unable to see my therapist (I've gone to her for 4+ years), leave my job, leave the events on campus, and we don't know what position we will have till four weeks before we leave.

Pros if I stay: I get to see the pets, keep my current job and the photography stuff, see my friends, stay at my current place that I enjoy, keep going to on campus events.

Cons if I stay: boy problems, maybe feeling stuck.

I feel like if I knew what position I would be in, I wouldn't feel so scared.

Let me know if you have any questions and all advice is welcome!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 12 days ago
▲ 1 r/canon

Upgrading canon camera

I currently have a canon eos rebel t3i that my nana gave me. I’ve had it since 2023 but the camera is pretty old. I still love it don’t get me wrong! But I’m looking to upgrade. Should I get a mirrorless or get a newer version of what I have? I really want a touch screen. Are the lenses universal (aka could I use my current lenses on my new camera as long as it’s canon)?

My friend has a t6i and I loved it. But wanting options on mirrorless and such.
Open to any and all advice!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 2 months ago

apply and defer

hello! I have wanted to do the dcp for soooo many years now. I want to apply this upcoming period... maybe. I want to do it from like October '26 to march '27. I know that wouldn't be possible if I apply this time. but I'm scared of being rejected the first time and needing to apply next round. if I apply now and get accepted, can I defer it till next period or would I have to wait and apply all over again?

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 2 months ago

5-7 days to two weeks???

I’ve always been regular (19F). 5-7 days a month of heavy bleeding. Normal. Regular.

This month I had 5 days of “spotting” (like a light period so I’ve tracked it in my apps as such). And now 9 days of my regular period. So 14 days of bleeding (and I’m still actively bleeding as I type this). This is completely out of the ordinary for me.

I’m not active yet so I can’t be with child.

When should I go to a doctor?
Should I be concerned?

As far as life style, everything has stayed the same. I’m happier than ever, eating the same. I’m not sure what’s going on.

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 3 months ago

I’ve been on my period for 2 weeks

I’ve always been regular (19F). 5-7 days a month of heavy bleeding. Normal. Regular.

This month I had 5 days of “spotting” (like a light period so I’ve tracked it in my apps as such). And now 9 days of my regular period. So 14 days of bleeding (and I’m still actively bleeding as I type this). This is completely out of the ordinary for me.

I’m not active yet so I can’t be with child.

When should I go to a doctor?
Should I be concerned?

As far as life style, everything has stayed the same. I’m happier than ever, eating the same. I’m not sure what’s going on.

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 3 months ago

My period is randomly really light.

I’m 19(f) and I’ve had super heavy periods since my first period. This month it is really light. Like barely there. I can’t be with child. I haven’t had sex since March.
Is this something to be concerned about?
Thank you!!!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 3 months ago

Randomly light period

I’m 19(f) and I’ve had super heavy periods since my first period. This month it is really light. Like barely there. I can’t be with child. I haven’t had sex since March.
Is this something to be concerned about?
Thank you!!!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 3 months ago
▲ 3 r/period

Randomly light period

I’m 19(f) and I’ve had super heavy periods since my first period. This month it is really light. Like barely there. I can’t be with child. I haven’t had sex since March.
Is this something to be concerned about?
Thank you!!!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 3 months ago

My period is randomly really light

I’m 19(f) and I’ve had super heavy periods since my first period. This month it is really light. Like barely there. I can’t be with child. I haven’t had sex since March.
Is this something to be concerned about?
Thank you!!!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 3 months ago

Kroger or 7brew

I have a job interview at Kroger to be a grocery clerk and 7brew to be a brewista.
Pros and cons of each? Which would you take?
Any advice or stories are welcome! I hope to hear from both Kroger employees and 7brew! Thank you!

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 5 months ago
▲ 4 r/BowlingGreen+1 crossposts

I have 200+ bottles of type one plastic. Is there anywhere in bg where I can recycle it?

If not, I am willing to travel to Nashville TN, owensboro, Louisville, or Evansville IN.

reddit.com
u/stripped_pillowcase — 6 months ago