u/sugarcoochie

▲ 3 r/ADHD

such difficulty stringing along uninterrupted complex thoughts :/ i feel intellectually nerfed

i'm gradually beginning to abandon engagement in complex critical thought because of how taxing it is on my brain. i don't mean normal taxing, i mean like it takes an hour to write a meaningful paragraph for something, & i'm depleted afterwards. ESPECIALLY since i began taking stimulants last year.

it's always been difficult at baseline so no there's nothing wrong with me medically. meds have made it worse, but not enough for me to warrant stopping them because i need the focus for college/my mental health.

i've never been able to have a conversation without stuttering, forgetting words/my place, trailing off. i try not to talk too much outside of scripts with strangers/acquaintances because my risk of fucking up the social interaction is too high.

idk if it's low iq, lingering social anxiety, or what. i have the capability, but if it's so hard to access... is it even there to begin with? thinking is like walking through a thick fog, knee-deep in mud. makes me not want to care anymore and just submerge myself in short form content forever.

i worry that i'll never be able to participate in intellectual discussions because of how hard it is to reliably recall words and mental connections. it takes me an unimaginably long amount of time to string a series of thoughts together that i've all but given up as a participant. i find myself envious of others' ability to articulate things that would take me centuries to get to. it feels like half of my brain's neurons have to rebuild associations whenever i want to express them. like the ground is crumbling from behind me with every new thought and i'm rebuilding connections that will only crumble again once i've gotten past them.

i want to work in the mental health field, i know how much value and insight i could bring to the table, but i don't trust myself to get it out.

:( pls tell me someone can relate

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u/sugarcoochie — 6 days ago

omg i CANNOT get a grip. i need to be bullied into studying atp

can y'all PLEASE hound me in the comments for not studying?? i need some TOUGH love because finals are next week, and i've done NOTHING. the anxiety isn't intense enough yet to push me into action but i can't wait :/

i've just been fuckin around all week & being as useless as i possibly can! my vyvanse is being wasted away on social media & games, AND i pay for that shit out of pocket ....

you know those study videos on youtube where a soldier or a mexican mom with a chancla comes in periodically to check on you [threateningly] & make sure you're staying on task? need that but irl

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u/sugarcoochie — 7 days ago

EDIT: i'm shocked by the people assuming the worst of my intentions and throwing insults in the comments. i thought it was a silly relatable post about how annoying talking to professors about accommodations is. i'd tag it as #funny to indicate unseriousness but there wasnt an option 🥲

this just happened today and after a couple hours i thought back to it like, wait.. she doesn't normally write so much in her emails.. and why is it formatted so crisply... then i remember the time she told us that she used chatgpt to sign a card for a coworker 😭

it stands out all the more when you know her first language isn't even English, lol. certifiably one of the more insane college experiences i've had

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u/sugarcoochie — 21 days ago

i'm seeing a new therapist and this was on a form they sent me to read and fill out before our first session.

i've never seen this anywhere in my previous therapists consent forms lol, but am i crazy that i thought it was a little weird to bring up? maybe its just the wording?

i don't know, maybe i'm overthinking lol

u/sugarcoochie — 22 days ago

this is gonna be a bit TMI, so you've been warned...

since i've gained weight these last few years, its made it harder to do things like shower (so much energy exertion scrubbing down my whole body 🫩). i'm pretty medicated so fortunately the body image/weight gain stuff isn't a problem lol, its just the stuff that comes *with* it. i started new meds last year (vyvanse) and my god.. i sweat like a BEAST 🤢

if i'm damp for whatever reason, i need to stop moving & sit naked in front of a fan for what feels like 20 minutes. all the folds and chub retain moisture, so the entire showering/after process takes me like 2 HOURS.

i've resorted to avoiding activities in my day to day life as to not break a sweat... but then the dreadful shower day comes and i have to pull the trigger. i need to study for 2 exams tomorrow, but i can't since i just hopped out of the shower. i have underboob sweat that won't go away, need to T-pose for 10m for my pits to dry, and i cant put underwear on yet otherwise i'll be damp all day 😭😭

i just want to get out of the shower and have all the moisture sucked off my skin so i can go about my day. someone get me a leaf blower, this is a nightmare yall. idk how i'm gonna make it sharing a dorm when i transfer 🥲

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u/sugarcoochie — 24 days ago