u/tetkaendzi

Hi everyone do you have any website reccommendation to find a flat in Paris? For 3 months only since it's an internship through Erasmus

Nothing major tbh, I got in a love triangle with a really shitty boy and his best friend. You know that moment 'but you wanted me first' and he turns out the worst person ever. It's a classic teen drama, but years after I can't forgive myself about bad things I said about them. Also nothing major just classic 16 year old girl cursing after being heart broken and being called out for it. They're also not the nicest people either. He's a bully that never grew up. My only regret is what I said about her, not because I didn't mean it, but because I was acting like a child, which I was. Years after they are still together, very popular people and I feel bad each time I meet someone they are ok with. I have weird obsession over people talking shit about me when I made one stupid mistake years ago... At the same time I don't feel worth it or important enough to be in such popular circles. Usually you can't get reaction out of me, but this was so out of character and it haunts me till this day. I've made another mistake in january and guilt eats me, again nothing big other than fact I once again reached breaking point... I don't know how to get over it

I have big problem about forgiving myself about even smallest mistakes I've done. Guilt of not acting calm is eating me out. I also have problems with how people see me. That's why I'm so obsessed over little things because I feel like when I make even small mistake people will paint me as horrible person. I was also bullied my whole childhood and I've been lonely and suicidal in high school. Is CBT right option or I should look into something else?

Nothing major tbh, I got in a love triangle with a really shitty boy and his best friend. You know that moment 'but you wanted me first' and he turns out the worst person ever. It's a classic teen drama, but years after I can't forgive myself about bad things I said about them. Also nothing major just classic 16 year old girl cursing after being heart broken and being called out for it. They're also not the nicest people either. He's a bully that never grew up. My only regret is what I said about her, not because I didn't mean it, but because I was acting like a child, which I was. Years after they are still together, very popular people and I feel bad each time I meet someone they are ok with. I have weird obsession over people talking shit about me when I made one stupid mistake years ago... At the same time I don't feel worth it or important enough to be in such popular circles. Usually you can't get reaction out of me, but this was so out of character and it haunts me till this day. I've made another mistake in january and guilt eats me, again nothing big other than fact I once again reached breaking point... I don't know how to get over it

I'm 23 yo f. As i wrote in the title I have a lot of friends but i feel lonely. Can't say that I have a friend that is my number 1 because I'm not someone else's number one. It feels like if I stop texting people they'd stop texting me too. People around me have the same problem... well now what is the deal here?? We can't complain about loneliness when we're all in the sam boat, but no one is changing that. Haven't heard from my life long friend in a week because now she has a bf. I felt so lonely to the point I've began to text people first again. What should I do to change this feeling, how to make a friend group and how to make my friendships stronger? I hate how everyone is so passive waiting for invitation, but I'm willing to be that person to text first and invite first, I just don't want to be alone in my best years. Also I have anxiety and depression diagnosis so I always feel like my fear will push people away like I used to. I just want casual hang outs and to feel included, give me examples of how you do it, because I'm lowkey scared I'll f up.

Thanks in advance 🫶🏻

I have big problem with what i said in title and i'm aware of it, but i can't accept it. I didn't make huge mistakes in my life that caused pain to others, but it haunts me how i let myself act in some situations. I said bad things about others and it haunts me for 6 years now, i made mistake recently and i regret it, said sorry a lot of times and that's all i can do. What is similar in those 2 situation are people that i wronged, they're really shitty people(bullies, gossip fanatics that would shit talk their own mom, etc.). Now i come to the part where i seek validation in wrong people, i have no idea why i'm obsessed with idea of them forgiving me. Maybe because i hate being disliked and they are biggest haters. How to brake out of this cycle and thoughts that are eating me up. Generaly speaking i keep my thoughts and opinions to myself and when i make poor choices people react badly because they'd never expect such behavior from me. I envy people who are not the nicest and make same poor choices like me, but they are forgiven, because that's who they are.

Any advice or opinion would be nice