How can I ever trust a nanny or babysitter?
I’m a parent to a toddler and CSA survivor (older brother). I’m low/no contact with most of my family and only have daycare as a “village” for me and my family. My husband and I are desperate for a date night but I struggle with thinking about hiring a nanny or babysitter. The daycare has cameras and multiple people around so it feels safer to me. The thought of leaving my child with a single person feels overwhelming - no matter how much screening or interviewing, how do you ever really know you can trust a person? I feel like only other survivors would understand :(