How can I ever trust a nanny or babysitter?

I’m a parent to a toddler and CSA survivor (older brother). I’m low/no contact with most of my family and only have daycare as a “village” for me and my family. My husband and I are desperate for a date night but I struggle with thinking about hiring a nanny or babysitter. The daycare has cameras and multiple people around so it feels safer to me. The thought of leaving my child with a single person feels overwhelming - no matter how much screening or interviewing, how do you ever really know you can trust a person? I feel like only other survivors would understand :(

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Top Daycare/Preschool with Cameras

Hi! We are relocating to NYC in 2027 and looking for recommendations for a private daycare or preschool that has parental camera access. It’s quite common where we are from (Toronto) and it would help with my anxiety in relocating. Thanks!

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Is Canada Day Kid-Friendly?

We have only been to jr jays with our 18 month old but babysitting fell through and we are bringing our toddler to the Canada Day game. Any tips? We are in section 110.

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u/toasty_cinnamon_roll — 13 days ago
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Nutrition plan for active moms - recommendations [ON]

Does anyone have a recommendation for a coach/dietitian/nutritionist who can prepare a custom meal plan for an active toddler mom? I’m overwhelmed by all the info online about how much protein/fibre I need etc. I just need someone to tell me what to eat lol

Any recs would be much appreciated!

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u/toasty_cinnamon_roll — 27 days ago

New to stationary culture - any gift recommendations?

I know my husband follows the stationary awards every year and works in corporate, so I thought about getting him something for Father’s Day from the winners list - any recommendations?? This is all new to me lol

FYI - he typically goes for pens and notebooks

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u/toasty_cinnamon_roll — 29 days ago

Anyone with ND recommendation? [ON]

Struggling with feeling sluggish, looking puffy etc since postpartum - bloodwork is all normal but hoping to work with someone more closely who is knowledgeable about postpartum hormones. Does anyone in Ontario have a recommendation?

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u/toasty_cinnamon_roll — 2 months ago
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Moving into a newly created manager role with direct reports. The new role will also expand my portfolio to include broader in-house compliance responsibilities. Its a blank canvas and I'm still working through with my manager what this new role could look like. Any advice on how to set myself up for success?

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u/toasty_cinnamon_roll — 2 months ago