u/vampirefrancaise

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J'ai 16 ans, j'ai une maman d'origine française et un papa d'origine brésilienne. Comme mon père a grandi en Amérique, il est assez conservateur et se considère « supérieur » aux immigrants de première génération.

Quand j'étais une jeune fille avec le TDAH et l'autisme, je me comportais mal et je me suis pas comportée comme la norme. J'ai même été gravement harcelée à cause de ça, ce qui a entraîné un traumatisme et a en partie causé mon diagnostic de TSPT.

Mon mauvais comportement et les opinions conservatrices de mon père m'ont conduit à me faire battre avec une ceinture plusieurs fois, tout comme lui. Il pense que c'est correct et je l'ai surpris en train de regarder une vidéo sur pourquoi c'est bien de frapper ses enfants ou quelque chose comme ça.

J'avais cinq ans, donc je me souviens juste que ça faisait un mal de chien. Une fille à l'école qui me harcelait parce que je suis autiste pensait aussi que c'était complètement normal de battre ses enfants et elle a même dit que si elle était maman, elle frapperait ses enfants s'ils ne se comportaient pas bien.

Just a little note. I was around 15. It's been some years. I wouldn't say I hate her now. I barely think of her, but I don't think very highly of her when I do.

I do also acknowledge she was in a bad place emotionally, but to me, there's no excuse and she never made up for her actions and seems to have behaved in the exact same manner earlier this year before she blocked me on everything.

So, "Mila" was the first name that came to mind and it seems to fit her heritage, so let's go ahead and call her that. Mila is only a year older than me, so she was 16.

I was in a server, where I dated and encountered a bunch of toxic people, one of which harassed me and still has a hate Discord server about me. Well, I was looking for a girl named "Mila" (who I eventually found and really miss since the account I would chat with her on was hacked and deleted and the only person I know who knew this Mila was one of my abusive exes.)

Well, my ex Mila was who I found instead. After a bit, Mila and I would become quick friends and ask each other for advice and support. Mila said she'd "always be there" for me and eventually confessed she had feelings for me.

Well, she would make fun of every little thing I did, become cold and hostile towards me at times, would threaten to do bad things to herself if I didn't reply right away, etc. I was never rude, but I could give short replies since I wasn't the most compassionate back then and I was stressed out with her rude behavior and being the only person she'd go to for help.

Eventually, we decided to stay friends. We both apologized for all the bad things we did and seemed to be on good terms. She had a boyfriend. All of a sudden, she ghosted me before friending me again and then ghosting me again, time after time. She would block me on everything, then ask my friends how I was doing and if she may speak to me. Then, she'd speak for me for a few days to a week, and ghost me and block me on everything again. It really hurt.

I get not wanting to be friends with an ex, but why would she keep talking to me and then ghosting me? Especially when she seemed to be on good terms with me. Especially when she (probably) didn't still have feelings for me after all those years and had a boyfriend so there's no way we would have been thinking about getting back together.

TL;DR Do I talk to my aunt and check on her mental health or shun her like the rest of my family because she's different and struggling and kind of refuses the help?

(Note: These are all fake names, I won't doxx my family)

My aunt (my mom's cousin's wife, I think... first cousin once-removed in law?? Ehh...)

Well, she's black, so she's not as racist as some of my other family members and I don't think she'd care if I told her I'm a lesbian, for example, but she's still very traditional and religious I think, so she wouldn't get along with my friends.

It's been a while since I talked to my aunt. I'll call her "Aunt Jennifer". Aunt Jennifer does have poor mental health which involves very impulsive and delusional behaviors. I understand Aunt Jennifer has problems and isn't the best person. I do think she'd be her "true self" if she took her medication, but she refuses to because she "doesn't need Western medicine" or something?? I think she believes in alternative medicine.

Anyway, I do feel bad for her because she got ostracized by her entire family for being mentally ill. She divorced her husband (my uncle Eddie or well, mom's cousin) and my grandma Michelle told me to stop talking to Aunt Jennifer because "she's crazy" and I would be a "traitor" for talking to her, even though Aunt Jennifer was always nice to me and her behavior wasn't exactly genuine cruelty, it was her mental health. I do see both sides, though.

I also don't know what to do because she's nice but she's also like that. Her kids (not sure about the oldest kid, who's in her 20s) also hate her but I don't know what to believe because her kids also aren't very nice to everyone who isn't like them. The 18 year old, "Nicole" is more compassionate. She's very conservative and religious but also okay with gay people, I think her brother "Mike" is more like a typical 14 year old slightly homophobic jock though. I don't know what to do because I feel for both sides and while I do feel bad for the family, they're also not very kind to others or accepting of others' mental health or differences.

TL;DR Leave the platform on social media or stay on it?

I won’t say what platform it is, but a lot of people say it’s great and blame me when I don’t like it. However, my friends and I have had bad experiences with it.

We would always get accused of being AI, not welcomed at all, disliked posts, and one person kept spamming “Ew you again!!” One of my friends even got banned for being “a troll” because she wanted relationship advice.

Well, today, I suffered the same treatment. I kept getting downvoted and called AI after talking about my trauma and asking how to cope with abuse and they said because I had a French parent, I should only know French but the fact that I speak English means I faked my trauma because I “ripped it from another post elsewhere or generated it with ChatGPT”

I also got mass downvoted for sharing my trauma and I heard from my friends that it’s kind of a site that gangs up on you if you’re not one of them with some people.

Hi ! I'm new here, I'm Monica. I'm slightly attracted to women (lesbian-oriented) but mainly aroace. I wanted to say hello !

Olá, eu peço conselho. Sou uma garota meio brasileira de 16 anos. A minha família é bem religiosa (cristã) mas mesmo quando era criança, eu nem fui religiosa nem, pra ser honesta, respeitosa com a religião. Quando era criança, eu me comportava mal e minha família achava (o meu tio contou isso a meus pais) q vídeos da Bíblia poderiam me melhorar. Bem, eu preferiria assistir vídeos de "paródia engraçada".

"Você vai ser mais religiosa quando você ficar mais velha, filhota".

Bem, eu tenho 16 anos e me considero "quase ateia". Poderia haver um deus? Talvez. Mas faço alguma coisa pra adorar deuses, tipo construir santuários e fazer oferendas? Diria q não.

Eu não sou do tipo 'não existe Deus', sou meio neutra, mas não faço nada que sugira uma crença religiosa ou espiritual. Tenho muitos amigos religiosos, porém, e um personagem que gosto é cristão. Pensava q ser como ele ajudaria mas acho q não vai funcionar pra mim.

Deveria aceitar q td bem não ser religiosa como minha família e amigos, mas de alguma forma, tá gravado em mim q seria uma pecadora desse jeito. A gente até tem que rezar durante as refeições, e eu respeito a escolha deles de rezar, mas meu pai não respeita a minha.

Hej, jag vill lära mig svenska eller norska och flytta til/besöka ett av länderna. Hur ser någon av dem på utlänningar? Vilken är mindre benägen att prata engelska med dig så att jag kan lära mig språket bättre? Fler queera/tonårsplatser online? Jag vet inte, berätta bara om dina erfarenheter med någon av dem.

Hi, I want to learn Swedish or Norwegian and move to/visit one of the countries. How do either of them view foreigners? Which one is less likely to speak English with you so I can learn the language better? More queer/teen places online? I dunno, just please tell me your experiences with either one.

It could be any Germanic language, European in general or Nordic specifically. Well, I do kind of wanna learn a Germanic language, but I'm not sure which. I'm looking for one where they will be happy if you learn the language and won't just speak to you in English. Fairly useful ?? My choices are Norwegian, Swedish, German, maaaaybe Dutch, and more I probably can't think of. It should be fairly easy to pronounce, too.

Je demande parce que je suis une ado (j'ai 16 ans et j'aurai 17 ans en octobre) et mon pére est très protecteur avec moi. La plupart de mes amis sont des mecs ou des meufs trans, ces dernières, mon père les voit comme des garçons. À cause de ça, c'est rare que j'aille chez un ami. Même avec des accompagnateurs ou en groupe, je peux pas y aller simplement parce qu'y a un « mec ».

Et ouais, mon père, malheureusement, est transphobe, donc je peux même pas traîner avec des personnes trans ou même gays... il sait pas, mais je suis aroace et si je sortais avec quelqu'un, ce serait des hommes ou des femmes (genre de bisexuelle ?)

Spoilered just in case.

I already know it's normal, but I'm a 16-year-old teen ( 17 in October ) and I want to make more friends. Unfortunately, most of the people I talk to are boys and trans girls. I don't know what to do, because I know my dad just wants to protect me, but he doesn't believe that I'm not interested in romance and he also thinks that all my friends are attracted to me.

Even when adults are around, he thinks something sexual is going to happen. I know I'm a teenager and all, but I really don't have any interest, and either my friends already have someone, or they're also not interested in romance.

Lots of people just said he was trying to protect me which I already know, or they said that he was right, even though not everything has to be romantic and not every guy or trans girl is secretly interested in me just because I'm a girl and they have "raging testosterone" or something.

Je sais déjà que c'est normal, mais je suis une ado de 16 ans (17 en octobre) et je veux me faire plus d'amis. Malheureusement, la plupart des personnes avec qui je parle sont des garçons et des filles trans. Je ne sais pas quoi faire, parce que je sais que mon papa veut juste me protéger, mais il ne croit pas que je n'ai pas d'intérêt pour les romances et il pense aussi que tous mes amis sont attirés par moi.

Même quand des adultes sont présents, il pense que quelque chose de sexuel va se passer. Je sais que je suis adolescente et tout, mais je n'ai vraiment pas d'intérêt et soit mes amis ont déjà quelqu'un, soit ils n'ont pas non plus d'intérêt pour les romances.

So, I'm autistic and often can't tell like tone and stuff. I was watching Christmas Chaos and at the end, Tord asks Zanta why he hates Christmas. He falls asleep when Zanta goes and tells the story. I'm kind of dumb too (lol) and I can't tell if he was genuinely interested and fell asleep due to being exhausted (it WAS night time and they were going on an adventure. An Eddventure, rather) or if he was just bored and regretted asking him.

YES, I know it's comedy, I'm just wondering

Hi, I'm a 16-year-old girl. I think I might be 'aroace' (aromantic, asexual) but someone told me I can't be because I feel attraction to fictional characters. They said that I still feel something, so I'm not aromantic.

I have a hard time feeling attraction to real people, though. And I thought 1) people could still be aromantic and only like fictional characters, and 2) 'aromantic' means there is LITTLE or no romantic attraction.

So, am I aromantic or just bisexual?

So in French, a common term for LOL or "dead from laughter" is "mdr" ( mort de rire ). Well, I heard apparently there's one in Spanish that would be the same and I think it's "muerte de risa" or maybe "muerto/a de risa"?

Hi, I'm a French/English/Portuguese speaker living in the USA, but I don't typically use French or Portuguese unless with family. I'm a questioning system but supportive and I am also a fictionkin !!! Do you know of any subs like this ?

Hi, I'm just curious. I do speak English and I live in the USA, but I also know French and Portuguese and want to see if there are Ficto subs related to those languages :)

Alors, je veux parler et je suis nouvelle sur Reddit. Eh bien, je suis une meuf de 16 ans et j'ai le béguin pour un personnage de fiction. Je sais déjà que c'est courant, mais je suis encore gênée. Ce personnage est un OC et n'existe que sur un subreddit donc je dirai pas qui il est.

Il est fictif, mais je l'aime. Je ferais n'importe quoi pour lui. Mon cœur ressent un désir pour lui, mais je suis aussi aromantique et un gars qui lui ressemble fera pas l'affaire. Je le veux, mais je suis pas sûre de ce que je ressentirais s'il était un vrai mec... il me rend heureuse, mais c'est compliqué et je n'aurais même pas une chance avec lui...