u/vodkaandnimboo

hiii!! i'm 23F, and i've been planning on buying a couple of watches for myself for a while now.

i intend to buy one fancy, occasional wear watch offline, but i'm also realising that i want a watch i can wear everyday without feeling guilty about the price😅

i've never really worn watches (except for my G-shock phase in school) and honestly, i'm not a big smart watch fan. i just don't like how it looks and i do NOT want another screen on my wrist if it makes sense😭😭😭

but of course, i'm open to any and all suggestions, so please help me find a watch i can wear everyday, something classy enough for work and something i won't worry about if i wear it to the gym!!

thank you🩷

same as title. what products helped you, especially with handling frizz and dryness and repairing the damage?

and how do you style your hair if you absolutely do need to use heat?

hi all, i'm 23F, and the last year or so of my life has tested me in ways i cannot describe. it took a lot for me to start focusing on myself, even if that means sacrificing bonds that don't align with what i want anymore.

it hasn't been easy in any way, but things are getting better slowly but surely and i'm extremely grateful for it. however, i've noticed this thinking pattern and belief of mine that i cannot stop obsessing over and i would really appreciate some help with it.

everyday, i have myself convinced that one bad thing will happen to me. if i wake up happy, i'm convinced something is going to make me cry by the time i go to bed. and the worst part? something almost always happens. i just want to be focused and happy without the feeling of pending doom haunting me constantly.

has anyone been through this? what helped you? i try to stay as distracted as possible, i have work in the morning right till 5:30ish, and by around 6 i hit the gym for an hour and a half or so, followed by dinner and then usually bed. but WHY ISN'T MY MIND UNDER CONTROL? please please PLEASE help me out, thank you so much🙏🏻

hi guys please please please 🎶 help your girl out

i have these stubborn sebaceous filaments under my lip (on my chin kinda) and nO MATTER WHAT THEY REFUSE TO GO AWAY!!!!!!

the thing is, if i wear concealer, the texture makes my skin look terrible. the sebaceous filaments have caused this tiny patch of hyperpigmentation as well and NOTHING HAS HELPED.

i was on accutane as well for 6 months, but i feel likw post treatment they have gotten more visible.

i'm undergoing laser treatment for acne scars so i'm hoping in some way it might help (at least with the pigmentation), but if you have any magical solution for it please tell me🗣️🗣️🗣️

thanks🤍

hii 😭

i'm 23F and i absolutely hate my job and i despise it but i am very very grateful for it🤩✨

i just haven't been feeling okay mentally since a few days now and i called in sick today to give myself some rest and relax

the thing is noW IM FEELING GUILTY ABOUT IT? LIKE HOW COULD I SKIP WORK AND USE MY HOLIDAYS FOR MYSELF? HOW DARE I????

please help me feel better 😭😭😭y

hii 😭

i'm 23F and i absolutely hate my job and i despise it but i am very very grateful for it🤩✨

i just haven't been feeling okay mentally since a few days now and i called in sick today to give myself some rest and relax

the thing is noW IM FEELING GUILTY ABOUT IT? LIKE HOW COULD I SKIP WORK AND USE MY HOLIDAYS FOR MYSELF? HOW DARE I????

please help me feel better 😭😭😭

hii girlies✨💗

i've recently started getting into makeup (FINALLY, after a 12 year struggle with acne).

i have taken inspo from my mom and bought a few things for myself, but how do y'all really get those bold make up looks that aren't patchy or cakey or anything 😭

i had really bad acne so my skin does have pitted scars, so i'm not sure about how i should proceed. and every make up tutorial i come across, the artist has FLAWLESS skin🥲

please drop your best advice, suggestions and hacks, thank youuu💗

hii girlies✨💗

i've recently started getting into makeup (FINALLY, after a 12 year struggle with acne).

i have taken inspo from my mom and bought a few things for myself, but how do y'all really get those bold make up looks that aren't patchy or cakey or anything 😭

i had really bad acne so my skin does have pitted scars, so i'm not sure about how i should proceed. and every make up tutorial i come across, the artist has FLAWLESS skin🥲

please drop your best advice, suggestions and hacks, thank youuu💗

hii girlies✨💗

i've recently started getting into makeup (FINALLY, after a 12 year struggle with acne).

i have taken inspo from my mom and bought a few things for myself, but how do y'all really get those bold make up looks that aren't patchy or cakey or anything 😭

i had really bad acne so my skin does have pitted scars, so i'm not sure about how i should proceed. and every make up tutorial i come across, the artist has FLAWLESS skin🥲

please drop your best advice, suggestions and hacks, thank youuu💗

hi all💗

i'm looking for suggestions on where i can find cute and pretty backpacks for office. i have injury trauma and i can't carry the shoulder bags lol, but i'd love to buy a cute and pretty backpack that's spacious enough for a laptop, a lunchbox and a cup and some random things because i love romanticising office🥰

please do drop reviews and suggestions, thank you✨

hi all💗

i'm looking for suggestions on where i can find cute and pretty backpacks for office. i have injury trauma and i can't carry the shoulder bags lol, but i'd love to buy a cute and pretty backpack that's spacious enough for a laptop, a lunchbox and a cup and some random things because i love romanticising office🥰

please do drop reviews and suggestions, thank you✨

hi all. it's a weekend afternoon so of course it's time to overthink my shortcomings. i'm 23F and i'm an engineering graduate.

i struggled with unemployment and finally landed a decent job (contract basis) but i absolutely despise it because i keep feeling like i'm capable of so much more. the work isn't related to my field, the pay sucks, and i'm learning NOTHING.

i'm however very grateful for it because unemployment was really bad, but i really want to upskill and get a better job and earn better and work better but i don't know how to.

anyone here who's been through this? what should i do, where should i start? please help me out🥲🙏🏻

hi all. it's a weekend afternoon so of course it's time to overthink my shortcomings. i'm 23F and i'm an engineering graduate.

i struggled with unemployment and finally landed a decent job (contract basis) but i absolutely despise it because i keep feeling like i'm capable of so much more. the work isn't related to my field, the pay sucks, and i'm learning NOTHING.

i'm however very grateful for it because unemployment was really bad, but i really want to upskill and get a better job and earn better and work better but i don't know how to.

anyone here who's been through this? what should i do, where should i start? please help me out🥲🙏🏻

hi all, 2025 engineering graduate here. i had a really rough year straight out of college, as my internship didn't convert and the job market was HORRENDOUS.

i interned in a well known MNC, and then it took my 8 months to land a contract based job in another well known MNC.

i'm however not happy AT ALL. it's highly underpaying, and the work is nowhere related to my domain. i really want to switch, but i don't know where and how to even start.

i've always wanted to get into consulting and nothing super techie, so any advice and guidance as to how i can navigate myself from here would be appreciated. any sort of advice is welcome! thank you.

what do you read, do, study, write? what has CHANGED you & your perspective on life and made you confident

especially if you have strict parents who have no idea you're dating.

and how did it go, and how long did it take for your parents to be okay with it?

EDIT: and how did you bring up the roka/marriage topic with them?

hi everyone💗

i'm looking for joggers and track pants (very honestly, idk the difference) to wear to the gym.

i'm looking for something comfortable and loose, preferably a straight fit or a wide leg fit. i do find a lot of options online, but i'm 5'9 and finding pants that cover my ankles has been a pain.

please do drop your suggestions below, and also do let me know where i can find pretty compression tees and regular gym wear tops as well. thanks!