Husband looking scruffy
We have two kids and gross joint annual income of ca£200k excl bonuses. We both work full time. Husband says that he looks scruffy because it’s my choice not to iron his clothes and gets offended when I look scruffy and don’t make an effort. Willing to be downvoted here.
I know it sounds ridiculous but I would really welcome your thoughts on the debate in case I am missing something here.