Again as usual
I met a woman I thought was it. We had so much in common it was scary! I’m 60 and she’s 45. We had a connection that I thought was so strong.
She always told me the most perfect things. I was getting texts a lot checking in. I really thought she cared.
Then I saw how much she drank. That’s when the mean came out. I was blamed for everything under the sun the past 8 months. I “ruined” her life and I make her miserable.
I’d was called the most vile names, but “only because I deserve it”! “Stop doing those things and I won’t have to call you that”. Was told to shut the fuck up, grow up and check myself a lot. It made me feel lower than dirt. I could crawl under paper.
I was able to talk to the woman she was with before me. It was horrible hearing everything that was said to me, was also said to her. It’s like my ex uses a script on women.
She got in my head but good. All the weakness she knows about me she dug in extra hard. Gaslighting & narcissistic behavior.
Ruined my 10 day trip to Hawaii. Picked a fight the day before I left with my bestie. I felt sick so much of the time there. Then let me think things are fine only to land and be broken up with within 24 hours…by text!
She had all her stuff returned. She won’t give me back anything and will not have the common courtesy to respond to a text or a phone call I am so at a loss.
I’m a real person. Pic is me.