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So basically I discovered mewing in april or so, as well as facial exercises, and been doing them ever since. Today I decided to take some photos just to be slapped in the face by the fact that absolutely nothing changed. Im still recessed, my face is still flat, still have a giant droopy nose, I'm still ugly. While I thought I was seeing progress other people saw the same ugly face and side profile. Every morning doing those facial exercises, all the researching, all the perfecting the mewing technique, every measuring of the face length, width, thirds, gave me absolutely NOTHING back.

So please yall, if you could tell me what I'm doing wrong. I saw a guy say that he mewed for years, but saw no results, just to discover that his left tongue tip wasn't behaving the same as the right, and when he adjusted that, he saw noticeable results in less than a month. Now my tongue does point to the left when I stick it out, maybe that's the issue? Should I do exercises to make my tongue stronger?

Please, if the only thing you have to say is "oh but you're pretty" "I have it way worse so just enjoy life" "we are all beautiful" "beauty comes from within", then don't bother saying it, please, as I have already heard it.

Physical beauty is important. It determines how people perceive you and treat you, so it can influence your mental health as well.

ALSO TO CLARIFY IM 19 AND NOT A MINOR

u/Overall-Specific-575 — 3 days ago

Second opinion palate expansion VIVOS vs. MARPE, 19F- 29mm intermoral width

I’m 19F recently had a consultation with a holistic doctor for narrow palate, breathing issues, TMJ, jaw recession and tightness in body. I really need advice here. 🥲🥲

She measured my intermoral width did not use a CBCT. I can’t fit my tounge on the top of my mouth all the way, I also previously had braces and teeth extracted for crowding. She has said I had a tongue tie, upper and bottom lip tie. Incorrect swallowing pattern/tongue function, and a narrow palate.

Since she is holistic, she would not be using MARPE/MARSPE her plan would be myofasical therapy, myobrace appliance, VIVOS for expansion and maybe physical therapy. I have an upcoming Zoom to go over my 2d photos, and pricing.

I’m considering it, but because this could be pretty expensive, I really want a second opinion before committing to anything. I found an orthodontist near me that offers free consultations and says they do airway-focused orthodontics, so I’m planning on seeing them too. I’m going to ask whether they do MARPE or another form of skeletal expansion and whether they evaluate tongue ties.
I’ve also done a lot of research on tongue posture/myofunctional exercises and feel pretty confident that I could work on a lot of the tongue-posture stuff myself, so I’m wondering if paying for a large therapy package is actually necessary.

**I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who has dealt with a narrow palate as an adult, Vivos, MARPE, tongue-tie release, or myofunctional therapy.** Especially interested in experiences with what actually helped, what didn’t, and whether getting multiple opinions was worth it.
Especially since I’m only 19 and with limited parent help for financials.

u/PleasantHearing9629 — 3 days ago

Advice needed for toddler’s tongue constantly sticking out with mouth open.

My 2 year old constantly has her mouth open and tongue sticking out. She’s seen numerous dentists, OT, and ENTs and no one can give me an explanation to why her tongue sticks out except maybe she has a “large” tongue.

She already got lip and posterior tongue tie released and we did all the stretches for weeks. She has reflux/GERD, underbite, and is a thumb sucker. She has pretty bad tarter where I have to take her to get cleanings every few months. Her upper teeth also seem to be getting slightly stained but her dentist said it was fine…I noticed recently that she drinks with the straw pointed to the front of her upper teeth. She has also always been super sensitive when it comes to her upper lip/teeth area (even before the lip tie released). She can tolerate us brushing her bottom teeth but once we try to touch her top lip she hates it.

Btw we have already ruled out enlarged androids.

Does anyone know how we can fix her tongue and mouth posture? Which specialist can I see that can help us out? I am desperate for answers as we have already seen so many specialists and I feel like I am just going in circles.

u/ItsSoooooFluffy — 6 days ago

What kind of craniofacial changes are realistically possible through orthotropics in adults around 30?

I'm 29 and have been trying to understand what kind of structural changes are realistically possible through orthotropics/mewing after the main period of facial growth.

I previously tried mewing for a while but eventually stopped because I wasn't sure whether I was doing it correctly or whether I could realistically expect noticeable changes at my age.

More recently, I've become interested in this because my dentist recommended expanding my lower dental arch to address crowding, and there are also practitioners in my area who combine expansion with myofunctional therapy. This made me want to understand the distinction between conventional orthodontic approaches and the principles discussed in this community.

What I'm particularly interested in is what can realistically happen to the jaws, dental arches and overall lower-third development in an adult around 29–30 through orthotropics, proper oral posture, chewing and/or expansion devices.

For example, can meaningful changes in chin projection or overall lower-third development still occur at this age, or are adult changes mainly limited to dental/alveolar changes and posture? And how much does myofunctional therapy contribute compared with simply developing proper tongue posture and chewing habits?

I'm not asking anyone to assess my own face or tell me what treatment I should have. I'm trying to understand the potential and limitations of orthotropics in adults before deciding which approach makes sense for me.

I'd particularly appreciate experiences or before/after cases from people who started around their late 20s or 30s.

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u/Mansohorizonte — 8 days ago
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Update: “my ortho doesn’t think I need an expander”

So I had an appointment with my orthodontist today and this time they had another lady come in to explain (but more like discourage me) double jaw surgery to me because I had requested a consultation last appointment. In this consultation I asked about an expander once again and was told that it isn’t necessary since my top teeth overlap the bottom ones. Does anyone know if I can just wait until I’m older and pay to get everything done then?

Edit:
Important information
•I’m in the uk so currently it’s free
•I can’t get a different ortho without going private and I don’t have the money
•pallet is roughly 1.5 cm wide

u/OriginalBill7215 — 13 days ago
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I wanna rope!!

Ts is genuinely so fucking depressing I’ve been nose breathing all my life and I’m still so chopped, I’m still so chopped after soft mewing consistently, I’m now trying to hard mew but now I realise that I have a narrow palate and I bite my tongue, the hyoid muscle is inflated like a balloon everytime I hard mew, it hurts so much but not as much as being so chopped for the amount of time I’ve spent trying to looksmax.

I wanna rope, but the funeral pics would be chopped as well, no one would cry (but my family), the girl I think of day and night certainly wouldn’t, and doesn’t even consider my existence.

Anyway Imma continue hard mewing cus it gets better right?✌️🫩
(At least the base ain’t so bad)

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u/The_Last_6085 — 8 days ago

Should I stop wearing my retainers im 16 I had braces from beginning of 7th grade till beginning of 9th grade im going into 11th grade now

My palate is quite average I would say and I still have some teeth coming in at the top as u can see in the Pic I just dont want to make a bad decision

u/Illustrious-Plum2052 — 8 days ago

Mewing: hate the masseter, how to reverse it

Started putting my tongue on the roof of my mouth for over a year because mine usually rested against the back of my front teeth, and I read that this could contribute to diastema. So I technically started ‘mewing’ by placing my tongue on the roof of my mouth and not touching the back of the front teeth (not hard mewing).

 Problems:

  1. Ironically, I think it widened the diastema (I did read anecdotes on this as the palate expands, but I wasn’t sure which direction to go since my tongue was pushing against my teeth anyways). I wear clear aligners now (mild case).

  2. My bigger concern now is that my lower face looks wider/squarer in photos, and I also notice some asymmetry I hate. After looking at photos and reading other experiences, I started wondering if I developed masseter hypertrophy.

 

While trying to fix that, I noticed something: I have a habit of holding/elevating my jaw (rather than resting it and keeping the teeth separated) and combined with the tongue posture (which to my surprise was an easy habit to develop), it probably added more work to the masseter constantly. I hate the result though. I also then learned the existence of masseter botox and then wonder why would any woman want a wider jaw with mewing. Clearly, the botox is there in the market because women want the opposite.

Then, I realized that when I relax my jaw, the tongue naturally rests at the right N spot which made me wonder if the reason my tongue tends to rest on the back of my teeth is because I don’t release/rest my jaw. I feel like the tongue shouldn’t be the focus, it’s the jaw. People often talk about the tongue position, and that often leads to forcing the tongue instead of the jaw resting which naturally puts the tongue where it should be. I guess when you force the tongue, you unconsciously also stop relaxing your jaws and that combination exert constant force on your masseter and lead to the widened jaw result which seemed to not be what the original goal of mewing was. I'm no expert, but I read that one of the goals was to help with nasal breathing.

Now, I want to reduce this masseter ‘hypertrophy’ by practicing relaxing my jaw (so that the masseter is 'off') while keeping my teeth separated and my tongue away from my teeth.

Then, I ran into a contradiction. What is the correct mandible position in mewing practice? If it’s also a relaxed position, then I’m doing the Mewing steps again (correctly this time I guess with a relaxed jaw) while trying to do the opposite (I don’t want those strong jawline, I just want to reduce this masseter.

I’m lost and am absolutely confused.

 TLDR: How to stop using the masseter so that it is not overdeveloped. I honestly don’t care about mewing per se, my original concern was just my tongue touching my teeth. And now it’s the masseter being developed. Basically trying to reverse what others are (I assume) trying to achieve without letting my tongue going back to touching my teeth (wrong resting position).

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u/JunBInnie — 11 days ago

Tongue touches lower teeth

I have deep bite with overjet and gaps in my teeth and The underside of my tongue touches lower teeth when i mew

Should i continue mewing? Or it will worst the situation?

u/mewingisnotforme — 13 days ago

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

I've had a less than positive experience with mewing. I feel like my breathing has changed; I'm short of breath all day, and I also clench my teeth a lot when I sleep and have an annoying crackling sound in my ear. The doctors say I'm fine, but it's bothersome. I've been like this for two years

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u/Tjoss_TDI — 10 days ago

Everything informational about mewing seems unreliable

I'm posting this on r/orthotropics , r/Orthodontists , and r/Mewing . I have no clue what to do about mewing.
Everything good I hear about mewing comes from people who do orthotropics, and everything bad I hear about mewing comes from people who do orthodontistry. All the seemingly-scientific blogs say there is no scientific evidence, but never talk about adolescents or any non-study evidence of teenagers who have seen significant jawline improvement after mewing. One of my friends has been mewing on and off for a few years and his jawline is immaculate and his teeth are straight.

and it seems too obvious that orthodontists would disagree with orthotropics, because they'd lose money. but orthodontistry also seems to have a lot of victims that suffer from unreliable medical treatment, and orthodontists will refuse to address it, and still say mewing doesn't work.

so I'm tempted to believe both sides, but I don't know. what's your opinion on this? is mewing real? can it actually reform bone and facial structure, even just a little bit?

this post may be taken off of r/Orthodontists but I hope it won't because if they care about 'no pseudoscience' then they'd answer me.

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u/Nervous_Yam9467 — 13 days ago

How to avoid frustration?

I know this group is mostly to discuss about facial issues but I was also wondering, how to deal with the frustration of knowing that my parents could have done better with me when I was a child and they never corrected my mouth breathing, allowing my face to have recession, the frustration I have to them is quite annoying

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u/Nunez_Luis — 13 days ago
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Tips to slightly widen a palate naturally?

My palate isn't super narrow but my tongue is slightly too big and it wraps around my back teeth a bit and i think thats preventing me from getting a good suction hold. Any ways to do this other than fingerpulling? I'm skeptical and would rather hear a technique studied by the Mew Family.

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u/Alpinehill338 — 13 days ago