I had one of those synthetic hair piece before.
Once my boyfriend complimented me on it, I ended up getting the real human hair piece and yes 100% looks better and feels better.
It’s just I feel weirded out just because I’m wearing someone else’s hair plus what if this person was forced to grow hair…
Is there any brand that follows a good guideline as to how they get real hair?
My symptoms are getting too excited, jumpy, hard to focus, feel like floating around etc.
It’s not as bad to the point I need medicines.
I want to calm it down… what’s the best way? Lately I thought I may try this paint by number?
Anyone can give me tips?
I’m traveling Warsaw for the first time and excited.
I have a couple of questions
I have US credit card. Do I have to have cash? Or get around with credit card and would contactless like Apple Pay would work most of the places?
I’m a small Japanese woman… should I be concerned about racism?
Are there many pickpocket incidents? I was pickpocketed once in Paris and ever since I visit Europe, I get so paranoid about it.
Any cultural tips you can give? So I don’t come across as someone rude?
I’ll be visiting late Oct and I would think it will be cold where I would need a patted jacket(?)
I just started going to SoulCycle. I find myself going everyday. Then I consider myself my work out for the day is done. I’m concerned about lack of weight lifting.
Do you also do weight lifting on top of SoulCycle?
I used to masturbate a lot (everyday or twice a day sometimes) in my 20/30s. However, never really reached orgasm with my exes. It was always lack of sex that was a problem. I would masturbate even when I was in a relationship. I can get off myself but I just can’t get anything from real sex hmmm.
Now I’m over 40, I’ll say I masturbate 3-4 times a week. But I’m so afraid I just don’t like it with another person. I’m dating this guy and we haven’t had sex and I’m afraid this will be a problem. I really do like him.
Perhaps it’s because I don’t know where my clitoris is? I mean I can get off means I know where it is.
I just want to love sex just like normal people ugh. Sometimes I feel like I might as well just stay single. Not having to have sex is a huge weight lifted off but then I’m lonely. I want a partner. I Met someone who is similar to me and we dated for 3 years (literally no sex. I just masturbated). I believe he has ED or something which I didn’t care much. We broke up for other reasons.
Any tips?
Also any tips for dryness?
How do you know that your date is very much into you and what do you appreciate things your date does for you?
Like be specific. Text you everyday or holding hands or etc.
I’m 9 month post op and 99% back to normal.
I’m debating if I should take the hardware out at 1 year mark or not…
It’s giving me no issues. I’m just very afraid it will start causing issues after I take out the hardware.
Can you share your experience?
I’ve seen two people so far said they walk just fine and now they are in pain :(
I’ve been on 6 dates with this guy over a span of a little over a month.
I really like him and it seems like he does like me as well.
I want him to be my boyfriend but we haven’t had this chat yet. I normally have this chat before sex. We haven’t tried it yet.
When do you know you want him/her to be your boyfriend or girlfriend?
I read it somewhere that for guys, it’s within a few weeks he already knows if he wants her to be his gf or not. Is it true?
Here is the background.
I was supposed to pay $140 additional deposit as the rent increased.
The payment is thru clickpay (payment system).
When I made a payment initially, I paid it to “rent” instead of “deposit” so I immediately cancelled and paid it correctly.
A month later, the management said I owe them $25 because the bank charged the management of NSF fee. I just don’t get the situation. So I called clickpay and they said they don’t charge such fee and that I should call my bank. And my bank said they don’t charge such fee when my account has enough fund.
I’m confused so I emailed the management fee to call the bank to find out what happened and I’m waiting to hear back.
The management won’t waive the fee btw.
Honestly $25 means nothing but I’m upset mainly because the charge doesn’t make sense.
I think it upsets me when things don’t make sense and I’m forced to act on something that makes no sense but I understand that it’s also part of life.
I need to learn to let things go…
I even got irritated talking to the management and clickpay because the charge made no sense. Honestly I regret being so irritable at them… just couldn’t help it.
Ugh I should just pay and move on right?
I don’t have sex unless we are in a committed relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend). It has been my personal boundaries.
I have slept with this one guy I absolutely liked.. and later learned that he never intended to be in a relationship with me. Yes it hurts.
Now I found this man I really like and I want to keep my rule. We went on three dates and so far so good. Physical chemistry is strong as I want to touch him/kiss him which don’t happen that often.
This time I do want to have the conversation when the moment comes. I think if he really cares about me as a person and want to build future then he would be ok with it. What do you think?
This guy set up a date for today two days ago.
I haven’t heard back. The date is 6pm.
If I don’t hear back from him by 3pm, I want to consider it cancelled. Is it reasonable? Or should I message him first if the date is still on?
What do women normally do?
I have had incident where I did follow up and men confirmed but didn’t show up or he basically cancelled 20min before.
I posted both of them on “are we dating the same guy” so other women can watch out.
I don’t mind the date being cancelled but that’s just straight up rude so…
Edit - I followed up saying “are we still on for this evening” and he responded yes. So we shall see if he still shows up. I’ve had a few incidents where guys don’t show up even after they confirm. See I’m already traumatized by these assh***. Oh well.
The reason why I followed up is that I didn’t want him to be there saying “I’m here” then I’m still in the office and say oh I thought it was cancelled. Didn’t want to be that person. So it’s either on or off.
Edit 2 - I just came back from the date. He wasn’t what I expected. I don’t think I’m going on a second date. He isn’t a bad guy but I wish I didn’t go on a date…
I went on a first date with this guy. He wasn’t my type but I wanted to focus on men who like me instead of chasing what I like…
We went on a first date… I didn’t feel physical attraction but he seemed nice so I went on a second date but I just couldn’t kiss him when he tried… I just couldn’t. He is a nice guy… I sent him a “kind” rejection text and he of course gently accepted it. Honestly I feel like sh**. I hate it.
Should I have walked away after a first date? Or should I have given him more dates to see if my feelings would grow? Or I did the right thing to say no after two dates?
Has anyone watched Hope Gap?
This is about this couple who is in an unhappy marriage for a while. The husband ended up cheating with one of his students parent. Her husband died.
The wife here has a very strong personality and sort of control freak(?). The husband almost looks like he is defeated and there is nothing he can do about the relationship. Eventually he left but it came as a surprise to the wife.
There is a scene where the wife is asking the husband if they are doing anything on their 20th anniversary. The husband said why? Do you want to do something? Book a restaurant?. Then she goes no. Then he was ok then I won’t book a restaurant. So she gets mad that how much he doesn’t give a f… by then he is already a year into the cheating.
I find it is so unfair to her. I get that she may have an unbearable personality and may have abused him unintentionally… but at least he could’ve given her a chance that if she doesn’t fix it, then it’s divorce.
He kept avoiding conversation when she wanted to discuss the issues. Probably because he is already cheating. I find it so harsh… and clearly he doesn’t give a f. I guess it could’ve been his last punch in the face to her…
What do you think?
I think it’s so f up when a person already cheating and blame the other saying it’s all her or his fault that I was withdrawn from the relationship and now it’s over.
I went on a first date with this guy but he looked like he didn’t shower or wash his hair… his clothes smell like sweats meaning his clothes aren’t washed. Given he has two cats, you can only imagine how awful his place is… He is asking to go out again and I kind of want to ask him to shower/wear clean clothes so he doesn’t smell when he is out with me. He has a masters degree and in finance consulting.
Or it’s not worth it and just either ghost or say I’m not feeling it?
The reason I’m hesitating here is 1. He seems like a kind person 2. I want to date someone anyone.
You know when you were young in your 20/30s, you see this person in the office who always stays late or he/she even comes to the office over the weekend to work (it is busy season but people do work from home) and you sort of wonder his her life must be so boring and he she has nothing at home that they come into the office…
Yes I became that person.
The office is shut off for the entire week. It’s busy so people are working here and there… but here I am working 8hr a day in the office just because I have nothing much else to do…
No friend or plans. I don’t want to stay home… at least I get to walk when I’m out. In my 40s no partner no kids. I get that I have freedom. It’s just sad that some who try not to work because they have other plans but here I am just working like it is a normal day…
Nothing excites me anymore. I did a lot in my 20/30s. Done all the traveling sports etc. I was into workout but even that doesn’t excite me. I just do it for my health. I play piano but just do it for 10-15min then I get bored. I don’t know how I’ll live thru 40/50/60s…
Just venting today. I’ll stay in the office until 8pm then I’ll walk home and come to the office again tomorrow… oh well.
No kid. In my 40s. No partner.
I max out my 401k, mega 401k, Roth IRA etc which adds up about 80k per year contribution.
Currently I have 1.4mil in investment including 401k. 600k in cash. Always thought of wanting to buy a place but it never worked. I’m thinking I’ll rent for the rest of my life. I do not want to leave a dime. I want to spend all.
I will get around 1mil when my parents pass away.
I make 250k and I’ve been pretty frugal. Naturally frugal. But I want to see if I can spend all my paycheck every month and let my asset grow.
I’ll probably splurge it on nice hotel or restaurant.
Do you think it’s doable? I bet I’ll also get social security if 4-5k a month if I continue to make this much until 65?
Any thought?
I feel like I’m always all over the place.
I can’t seem to focus at work. This has been going on for a few years now. I’m 44F.
Lately I can’t even stay in the moment. For example, I went to Musial today and the whole time I had to try very hard to stay in the moment otherwise my mind is elsewhere like thinking about something else. And most of the times there are thoughts from my anxiety or inner anger or worries(?).
Is this ADHD? Or some kind of anxiety disorder?
I’ve known my ex for 2 years before we decided to date for 3 years then we broke up/kept in touch for 4 years.
We are not seeing each other which doesn’t mean we want to get back together. At least I think he doesn’t want to.
The reason for the breakup was me moving back to the states not wanting a long distance relationship and him not wanting to move to the states with me.
After a while, I was hoping that we would get back to gather and lately I have this strong desire to want to get back together but I have this feeling he doesn’t want… I’m willing to relocate as well.
I decided that I can’t keep in touch with him. It’s a torture in a way since I want more than a friendship.
After the conversation, I want us to really sever our contact and go separate way.
Is it a right thing to do? I think this should’ve been done a long before. Or am I ruining the friendship?
I’m bearing doing the following things everyday…
Gym
Work
Try to eat healthy
Hygiene (shower, brushing teeth, etc)
Study for hobbies
I do all that but bearing. Every time I’m dreaded yet I still do all of them.
The truth is I just want to lay in bed and rot by eating all the snacks and sweets I like… and I think often about giving up. I’m mentally beaten up. Not sure what to do. Not sure how long I can go on like this. I try not to think but This unsettling feeling comes and goes frequently throughout the day.
My ex and I were friends for 2 years and lived/dated for 3 years. Then we broke up as I had to move back to the states and he wanted to stay in the UK.
We have remained as friends for 4 years now.
I miss his company. I didn’t like London at all when I lived there and wanted to be back to NYC so badly.
Honestly now I’m willing to relocate.
We both didn’t meet anyone in the meantime. I want to ask him if he wants to reconsider having us back together. Or should I just shut up and save face from embarrassment? You know the gut feeling. My gut feeling tells me that he has moved on. 😅😭