u/Academic-Ad5737

Why are you interested in other's sexual affairs?

Let's do some dissection.

First of all scarcity of sex has always been a situation for men throughout history but in the modern age where the ratio of men who put effort in becoming men vs women is too unbalanced that if we let nature take its course there probably only be 8 men who would be having sex out of about 700 million Indian men.

So how do the rest of them get sex?, manipulation, arranged marriage and by seeking sanctuary in industries that use sex as leverage.

Manipulation in the name of romantic love, "You give sex, I give companionship". Classic Romantic Love that has all kinds of questionable "consent to sex".

Arranged marriage. "I support your life stability legally, you give sex". Another questionable consent to sex.

Highly promising future. "I give you the opportunity for stardom, you give sex". Again Questionable consent to sex.

So, except for the earlier 8 men, the rest of sex have always been transactions.

For gossipers, the former two transactions are not a problem, because that's how "culture" has shaped them.

So who are these gossipers?. These are just outcasts who have never been on any list for "actions". Thus, they vent by labelling people who gain action through myriad forms of transactions.

So Vishayam Confirmed, Top Secret of Kollywood Audiences eh..

Long post alert.

Observing Kollywood I have learned that the industry is just a reflection of the audience.

Kollywood audiences are the most intellectually stunted and corrupted audience that I've ever come across.

They claim to be rationalists yet complete trash movies dominate the box office because all that matters to them is the camera focusing on the male star.

In a highly intelligent society, movies like Bison would have been making all the money due to how complete the movie was compared to nonsense like Goat but I have learned that you can't expect anything more from this kind of stunted society.

The whole society gets into victim mode or scarcity mindset or romanticization of the past the moment you start questioning the solution.

They tend to complain about how Kollywood lacks good actors, Kollywood lacks the budget (we know that's not the case when rubbish like Goat can attract investments of around 300 crores), Kollywood lacks good directors and they start lamenting about how prime Shankar was the goat.

Recently I came across a gossip that there's a discussion going on between Rajamouli and Surya. Following that, I was seeing multiple internet posts like "this could be Kollywood's first 1000 crores revenue movie".

Aren't these people aware of how f*cking embarrassing and humiliating it is? I learned Ivanunggaluku manam inam soodu sornam ethuvum illanu.

One of the oldest industries with a substantial overseas market with a large native TN population with humongous graduates in arts and filmmaking and you are telling that you need to import a director from the neighbouring industry to achieve a mere 1000 crores?. Do you guys realize how pathetic you look?.

We know for the most part the industry is just another lair for slightly rich ugly motherf*ckers to lure girls into sleeping with them in the pretext of making movies. In some cases they do end up making movies where the "educated" audiences clap at cameras zooming into the male star's scrotum and declare it as a great "Theaterical Experience".

The cycle continues in this intellectually stunted and corrupted society.

For the most part of history men successfully created a myth sorrounding women's sexuality.

1. Women having consensual $ex outside wedlock= whOre

2. Women who remain virgin till marriage = high morality

3. A woman was murdered = meh, a woman was sexually assaulted and murdered= worst crime.

4. Physically abusive ex-bf = hmm, Sexually abusive ex-bf = he deserves to burn!.

These are a few examples on how when $ex comes into the picture of women, the weight of the issue just increases multifold. Because "impure" women are worse than dead women.

Somewhere in the timeline liberalization of women happened, and those who saw it coming started to separate good women and bad women according to how far one exercises her sexual freedom.

The distinction was very clear and most men and quite a number of women believed that to be true until the boom of social media and gymnasium.

Social media and gymnasium revealed something that men are unable to grasp, that if the opportunity provides, when the environment is safe and conducive, most women want to expose their bodies and exercise their sexual freedom.

Now these men are stuck in a twilight zone, the myth that was supplying them with "pure" women has collapsed. They can't accept that the constructed distinction that they carried about women just doesn't exist.

They can see that women can expose their bodies, practice sexual freedom while also being morally good people. They are unable to process that moral and sexual freedom in women are not opposing forces.

Since the myth has collapsed where men are seeing that women don't see nudity and sex as something that matters much. It is just an activity, it is just another afternoon for them. They are unable to learn that It has always been that.

Now that men can never hold or control women under the pretext of "purity", they are very angry. They wait for women to make a slight mistake, so that they can jump of villainizing them. They are angry at women influencers, they are angry at men who become choices of these women, they want to use the word thevudia whenever they come across any woman who displays her sexual freedom or exposes her body.

You can see these briyani devouring, beer chugging angry men across the subcontinent on social media. The confusion, the loss of power..

The lie that you've been telling yourself:

Nature wants us to procreate, that's what we must do just like how animals procreate.

NOPE.

Nature has programmed almost every single being on earth to look for s3x relentlessly (both consciously and subconsciously). It also has designed the act of s3x to be the most pleasurable activity for almost all beings (except for a few).

Of course the intention is to reproduce but it's not for the beings to decide. You don't see dogs running around during mating season barking "I'm planning to have three kids with my wife". All they feel is this weird urge to have s3x and that's it, they don't know why their tummy is getting big and why it feels uneasy in their stomach for the next period of pregnancy till delivery.

S3x is the bait, Pregnancy is the Switch.

The wise Modern Humans are probably the only beings that understand the program of nature and act accordingly to not fall for the tricks.

The unwise ones are the ones who are still buying to program by applying countless self made definitions such as the "purpose of humans is to procreate" , "life is meaningless without children", "S3x is a need". No, you are just evolved to be H0rny and you have evolved with the brain to overcome it if you choose. It is okay to have responsible s3x but just don't paint it with something that it is not.

Note: Same drill as before.

This is the kind of conversation I tend to have, if anyone around KL is up for a real in person raw unfiltered objective conversations. Let me know.

Note : Not looking for relationship, friendship, buddy, fwb or anything. Just philosophical conversations with a stranger that you might not meet again.

So I had a conversation with a stranger. Since I am a solo person by choice and I have been actively avoiding connections that may lead to a romantic relationship.

Long post alert.

There was this hypothetical question on what would it take for me to be in a relationship. Pretty much impossible.

However, I was asked to list down the impossibles. Which is basically the opposite person has to be exactly like me, someone who reads a lot, especially non-fiction and philosophical materials, someone who is comfortable with her own existence, doesn't get excited about traveling nor concerts, doesn't arrange for weekend activities because she can be calm with her own mind, someone who has her own thing going, someone who isn't influenced by mainstream idea of romantic relationship, valentine's day, birthdays or anniversaries don't excite her, someone who is super comfortable with her self that she has no makeup kits.

Most of them are just by-products of enlightenment one gets through reading. Someone who always chooses to eat clean, someone who knows what to avoid, does not consume anything that is detrimental to health such as alcohol or sugar, fit but not an obsessed gym rat, someone who just moves to keep the body active. Doesn't smile just because it is nice to smile, always stoic, expresses authentic laughter. Someone who explores her artistic sides be it music or any form of artistry.

There will rarely be conversations, most of the communications happen through non-verbal communication that we are too familiar with, rarely expectations from both ends other than what we already are, there are no occasions nor hosting of people, no festivals to waste money, no babies nor relatives to entertain.

Silence is preferred and enjoyed, yet there's unexplainable closeness and comfort.

So I prompted AI to generate an image, this represents the visual message very accurately. Ignore the usual AI sloppy parts.

The image is accurate for how representative it is about me and her and the laid back comfort and stoic appearance of both. How there's no verbal communication with engulfing silence with indescribable intimacy.

A conversation that I enjoyed with this stranger.

When our loved ones are asleep, we avoid making noise, we let them sleep peacefully, we could see how free they are from any trouble and how at peace they are when they are in the comfort of deep sleep. We wish all the peace for them.

But when we are given the very CHOICE to keep our beloved children sleeping in the eternal peace where there is no illness, no cancer, no poverty, no heartbreaks, no murder, no menstruation pain, no war, no hunger, no accidents, no death. Why do we selfishly bring them here to face all the troubles above?.

Why do people pluck babies out of eternal non-existence? Just so they get to play with "cute" mini them as some toy for a few years and let them face all the rest of existence including old age and death?.

When there is no birth, there is no death. You are the only reason why your child has to face death.

Same drill as before:

This is the kind of conversation I tend to have, if anyone around KL is up for a real in person raw unfiltered objective conversations. Let me know.

Note : Not looking for relationship, friendship, buddy, fwb or anything. Just philosophical conversations with a stranger that you might not meet again.

Let's say you are a successful Bodybuilder, you've made the choice to eat clean, hit the gym everyday no matter what, sacrificed a lot of things by your choice. Finally you are a bodybuilding champion and now you are screaming "I crafted every single part of my life"

NOPE!!. NOPETY NOPE!

Let's rewind

1. What made you start ? Maybe an idol? Heartbreak? Did you invent the Idol? Did you ask for the heartbreak? Then how can that be your doing?. Now think about the version of you that didn't come across the idol, or the version that didn't go through heartbreak?

2. What motivated you? A YouTube channel? You read David Gogging's book?. Did you invent the Internet? Did you invent David Goggin?. Now think of a version of you that had no internet access nor library?. Think of a Timeline where personas like David Gogging didn't exist?.

3. Clean diet? Where did you get the knowledge? The internet? Did you invent the Internet?. Now think of a version of you without internet? Or someone who didn't come across the algorithm?

4. Natural Motivation? Something from the environment encouraging you, that could be from anything, that shapes your internals that in turn shapes your externals and vice versa.

The point is, everything and everyone functions according to what the environment has been coincidentally having. Whatever you call as choices and will comes from how the environment shaped you via randomness and coincidence that you had no role in establishing the existence of.

Same drill as the last post

This is the kind of conversation I tend to have, if anyone around KL is up for a real in person raw unfiltered objective conversations. Let me know.

Note : Not looking for relationship, friendship, buddy, fwb or anything. Just philosophical conversations with a stranger that you might not meet again.

The whole song is super relaxing.

The year around 1997, a lot of good things happened to you and this song happened.

This rare gem came to me when I was listening to a Telugu program and the Telugu version was aired and I was dead sure there's a Tamil version of it that I definitely listened to close to 30 years ago, searched and found it.