Herding dog breeds are not pets

I have yet to meet a heeler/shepherd/collie or any herding dog that didn’t bite and nip at heels constantly, have boundless energy, and just an overall neurotic mess.

These dogs aren’t happy and fulfilled unless they have a JOB. They need to be constantly engaged and working on a task. Border collies especially, get so bored and destructive without constant mental challenges.

They make great service and competing dogs, but they are horrible pets. I know regulating breed restrictions is impossible; but in (my) ideal scenario, these breeds should require a license with a designated job for these animals.

It’s not like I’m from the outside looking in either. My parents had an Australian shepherd growing up, and it breaks my heart as an adult to think how bored that poor dog was, he became an escape artist and became a notorious harasser of the neighborhoods cats.

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 1 day ago

Niche bouquets along the coast? (Close to Newport ideally)

I’m taking a trip to my fathers grave in Newport from Portland later in August, I want to bring him his favorite flowers ideally (dark pansies), aside from the general grocery stores like Freddie’s and Safeway.

I plan to stop at the farms on the way but is there anywhere to get more rare/niche flowers in the coastal area? I’m willing to drive up or down the coast to get them. He’s worth driving down to as far as Florence or Astoria if I have to.

My papa was one of the most caring and exemplary men I’ve ever seen. Even if he’s gone, there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for him ❤️‍🩹

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 23 days ago

Zoologist! Love it? Hate it? Tell me!

I’m obsessed with this brand, I haven’t been able to smell any yet but it’s so enticing even to read about them. I’m getting myself a sample of practically every scent they have when the money I have coming in finally comes through.

Which ones have you smelled?

Which ones are the ones you think are most approachable for newbies?

Is there one you took one whiff of and wanted to throw out the window?

I love to hear how different people interpret the same scent. Gimme your opinions 💖

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 29 days ago

Tracks with lyrics about retribution for SA?

Measured Twice from Catsclaw (I know it’s metalcore not deathcore but still) & Bloodlust from The Last Ten Seconds of Life are perfect examples of what I’m talking about. The Purge from Abbie Falls also gets that feel from me even if they never explicitly mention retribution for someone who’s suffered harm.

As a victim myself, having such strong music focusing on the righteous fury with predators that bind women and children on their bellies to shout how much better they are than us (paraphrasing a quote from this video essay with that) is something that’s been really cathartic for me. The fury for the way wealthy and powerful abuse those who need protection; is so comforting in a hard to explain way, but I’m sure if there’s anywhere that can pick up what I’m throwing down, it’s the metal community 🖤

Thank you in advance!

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 1 month ago

Roger’s creativity pursuits

The Smith children might not appreciate Roger’s talents in the visual arts, but his art tickles me aeriola pink

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 1 month ago

Are there any ateliers in town?

I took some drawing and painting courses at PCC a couple years ago to supplement over a decade of self guided learning, got amazing critiques and direction from the instructors, but it was online and didn’t feel like what I was looking for at that point.

I can’t join one immediately, but I’d like to have a head start on places to chat with when I do have the means to attend.

tysm in advance 💖

Edit/PS I have checked google, and while I did find one or two, I wanted to ask the community as well 🙏

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 2 months ago

What do the Hårga women wear? 🌞💐

Not the vibe of the movie per se but moreso I’d love to hear thoughts from actual brands they might wear to theories on scent notes they’d make and use themselves to stay isolated from the outside world.

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 2 months ago

Struggling with prep fatigue.

By the time I’ve poured and set everything up, I lost my traction. I can have the workaround of taking a break after, but that’s another aspect of the problem.

I have two cats and both of them are Velcro kitties, naturally, they are super curious of all the smells, and what is demanding my attention; despite playing beforehand. If I’m not in the same room or in reach of my oils, they get put away. I wish this was because of paranoia but they’ve been convicted guilty without a shadow of a doubt in a court of kitty criminal law.

So every break, even bathroom breaks, involve sealing the gamsol, putting everything in cupboards, refreshing my rags, etc.

Hopefully you see my problem, it feels like I end up doing more prepping and moving my stuff than actual painting.

I hope it’s clear I am fully aware cats are gonna cat as they say, the back and forth of moving my things has just a hurdle I’ve been struggling with <3

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 2 months ago
▲ 620 r/Frugal

Equipped with old glasses, swimming goggles and a dream.

I want to go diving in tropical waters more than anything in the world, my eyesight makes me nervous at the idea. I didn’t want to buy prescription goggles and contacts are out of my budget, but I found a solution with what I have on hand~

All you really need is an old pair of glasses and a snorkeling mask

I popped the legs off an old pair and stuck them right in, I tested them out in a pool the other day (edit- bottom of the 6 feet deep section) and they seal beautifully and now I can see clearly underwater!

I haven’t seen anyone online suggest this before, I’ve only seen folks recommending brands of prescription goggles, but I like my alternative so far and didn’t need to buy any new equipment~ 💃

Edit to add some information I realize I left out/unclear in my original caption.

I’m not going to tropical areas anytime soon, hence it being a dream. I’m making the most with what I have, and that’s some beautiful but frigid bodies of water and some makeshift visual aides to enjoy what’s available to me now.

I have a very different prescriptions in each eye with severe astigmatism, contacts are out of the question right now and finding a snorkeling mask with such a custom rx is going to be an undertaking, this is my alternative until I can invest in a more reliable/conventional alternative.

Thank you to the comment bringing up the pressure at deeper depths messing with the seal!

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 2 months ago

How would you alt-ify this dress?

It gives Easter Sunday church service but I KNOW it can be styled differently.

I already lean to kinderwhore and grunge adjacent fashion, so my immediate thoughts are a chunky belt and some docs, but I’m drawing a blank on other things I can pair it with to make it edgier for lack of a better term 😭

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 2 months ago

Hope this is allowed. Please stay safe.

If you need help or support for sexual abuse of any kind

RAINN national sexual assault hotline

800.656.HOPE

SARC Oregon resource and support hotline

503 640 5311

Both numbers accept phone calls and text messages.

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 2 months ago

Buckle appreciation post

I know I know I know

He started out as a wild man trying to kidnap Hayley, but I’ll be damned if his line delivery doesn’t send me every time

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 3 months ago

Bro won’t leave me alone, ladies 😭

Former fwb of mine has been hitting me up again lately, last time we stopped talking it was because I was dealing with a literal crippling injury (sciatica so compressed I couldn’t dress myself) and my late cat getting very sick and crossing the rainbow bridge.

I thought I was being unfair in my decision to not hit him up anymore before so I tried hanging out with him again w/o sex and I immediately remembered why I don’t like this guy anymore.

He’s pushy, so self centered he can’t go passed a “sorry Charlie” (word for word) when I’m dealing with my stuff, he offered no help during my back injury when I really needed it.
But he starts dealing with something hard and he starts hitting me up again practically every day calling me hot stuff, pushing to hang out same day, and just only talking about himself when I do.

Hanging out and the activities that followed were fun at the time, but he’s so insufferable to me lately I just want to block him, but feels like I owe him an explanation why I don’t wanna hang out anymore

Girl dinner contents include cherries, Brie and blackberry spread, mini waffles, fontina and string cheese, and French bread

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 3 months ago

Does A Hunt Without Violence Feed Anyone?

Wanted to share my quick sketch painting of lil miss Lottie my love 🥹 done with gouache on hot press paper 🖤

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 3 months ago
▲ 17 r/Mirena

I’m taking this thing out today I’m so sick of this

I’ve had it since March and it’s made my pain miles worse when it’s supposed to help.
The cramps and bleeding literally hasn’t stopped for a single day, I knew it wasn’t going to work but the “localized” hormones were supposed make it better? I smelled bullshit a mile away and I’ve wasted two months of my life in agony entertaining these dimwit doctors who think it’s the miracle device that’s going to solve every women’s painful periods

The denial and gaslighting from these “specialists” has been an absolute fucking joke

Update
I needed this thing out weeks ago, I wish I did this sooner, it was unfortunately far from a standard removal.
I went to PP and they couldn’t find the strings but still charted they did for some reason. I called the office that placed it in the first place and the phone nurse was already trying to talk me into waiting it out even longer until I started sobbing and screaming I don’t care, I want it out, it’s making me want to kill myself and I need it out immediately. Then she booked me an appointment with a surgeon without the guarantee we’ll be able to get it out.
so I drove to the other side of town to meet with him, he sorted out the misunderstanding with PP, gave me a double cervical block (fucking ouch) and then had to go into my uterus with the forceps to “tease out the strings” as he put it. It took almost ten minutes of searching and I will not lie, that was the most painful experience of my life. Ten times worse than the actual placement. If we didn’t get it out soon I was going to black out from the pain, but I NEEDED it out.
He was very kind and empathetic while I was blubbering and sobbing on the exam table, the nurse/chaperone was very sweet and encouraging; let me squeeze her poor hand until it turned white.
When he said he found the strings I immediately started desperately begging him to take it out. He did in the middle of my desperate pleas and showed it to me as proof before tossing it in the biobin.

I’m never getting an IUD ever again, I don’t want to scare anyone out of getting one but I’m not going to just pretend it didn’t happen because others have had great luck with theirs either.

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 3 months ago
▲ 54 r/dippens

Trying to get a feel for filigree with dip pens

As much of a pain as they are, they’re so fun to draw

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 4 months ago

I love that this sub is just everyone quoting episodes it’s so delightful to scroll through. On that note

💃✨I’m gonna keep my Tristen ✨💃

u/AffectionateWar4857 — 4 months ago
▲ 16 r/portlandtrees+1 crossposts

Title says it all lmao. I’ve heard good things about THC suppositories for pelvic pain, has anyone seen or bought some from a dispensary in town? I’m willing to travel to Clackamas or Hillsboro or whatever to get some, I’ve been absolutely miserable for almost two months now

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u/AffectionateWar4857 — 4 months ago