u/Aggravating_Cycle538

I live in WI, been here my whole life and I'm honestly done. Done with the culture and the winter and the laws.

Where would be the best option to move if I'm looking for

Warm weather all year around or at least no snow

Blue/progressive state

Medical and recreational marijuana legal

Public transportation/walkable from apartment to work to activities

Beaches are a plus but I can live without it.

Also to add on good low income/ disability friendly areas as I use a wheelchair and plan to get a new job but I make around 45,000/yr

Does anyone have recommendations, I don't really have much money to get tattoos but I have a lot of scars I'd like to "spruce up" and be able to wear less long sleeves.

I've heard of people doing these cover ups for free, anybody know of any in wi?

My partner and I are both disabled but very young (usa) so neither of us have been able to get disability and I can only work part time while my partner cannot at all.

We both grew up in similar abusive environments getting kicked out at 17 and now we live barely scraping by renting a crap apartment and have nothing. I immediately went into the workforce and went from 70 hrs a week to 30, It was never easier making so much more money and I'm just exhausted with the economy and the political climate, all I ever wanted was a place to call my own and it seems impossible.

Here's the tea though my partners parents who are very back and forth with their relationship are very well off, like could buy us a house easily well off, and I want to ask them for help so bad but I don't even know what the reaction would be. I don't care how broken down it is or even if it's just a crappy van I just really wish we could live in privacy and without the restriction of having a rental.

Idk this is mostly a vent but if anyone has ideas, I've looked at habitat for humanity and waiting on a disability application but it feels like nothing will happen

Me and my boyfriend are both disabled, him a bit more severe than me so I'm working part time and he doesn't work at all while he applies for disability.

The thing is I do all of the financial things in the house, I take care of all his bills and mine through my accounts- his phone is in my name ect.

We want him on disability partly to help with bills so I can work less and eventually apply myself, we accepted that we can't marry or have joint accounts.

So I guess I'm asking how it would work for him to give me money to spend on us?

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I know ssdi is more flexible with cash being taken out but what if he is getting both SSI/ssdi? Would he have to have an able account or can I put it in my savings to grow for us? We want to save for emergencies or a house and we are dirt poor right now..

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Please give any advice for this we don't even know if he will get approved this is like the 3rd time he's applying.

Diagnosis

Me/cfs, Heds, migraine, anxiety &depression, autism, ADHD, IBS, dysautonomia

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Hi I'm 23 and diagnosed with Heds a couple years ago, alongside that mild scoliosis, fibromyalgia, autism/ADHD, possibly me/cfs and pots

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I have a couple spots in my back that I am 99% sure are ribs dislocating (or whatever the proper term is I don't honestly know) I do not have pain in the front of my chest or sternum, very rarely I'll have sharp pain in the front underneath ribs but it's usually lower and more to one or the other side.

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There is one consistent spot on my left side that is in some kind of pain 24/7 sometimes it's really loose, I can feel and hear it pop in or it will sound crunchy. Sometimes it's so tense and all the muscles around that rib are super tight and sore, and the rib will be stuck in the "out" position. You can literally feel it out of place on my skin.

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I've talked with a few doctors and pt's and gotten some advice on putting it back into place- albeit painfully. But nobody told me what was going on or what I can do to help it, one pt said me wearing a binder probably helps (I'm ftm) but I feel like it's not.

This has been going on for YEARS. I'm so tired! Has anyone been experiencing this specific issue and solved it? I have so many other issues going on in my body but like this is constant all day everyday, it's stiff then lax then sore then popping all the time.

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😭 I just don't wanna feel alone in this guys

I want to do a zebra tattoo on my arm but can't figure out if a large piece with one zebra or like a herd of them would look better. I really like the patchwork tattoos so no crazy shading or realism

So I tried and tried to figure out my financial situation and I don't have any way to obtain insurance right now, outside of enrollment and qualifying events and I don't qualify for care credit.

I emailed numotion and they have some financial assistance options but my script and assessment was with NSAM

Would my doctor need to resend everything?

I need a new wheelchair.

I make 1,700 a month, so just above Medicaid limits but I'm also too poor to afford health insurance. Cool apply for financial aid at the hospital so I can go to my appointments, the wheelchair vendor doesn't have financial assistance. I look at notawheelchair chairs, more affordable but I don't qualify for care credit.

Keep looking for assistance options in WI but apparently there's none??

Feeling angry and lost, I don't have any savings to pay for this and Ill just have to be in a chair that's falling apart for the foreseeable future ugh!

I have been in PT on and off over the last few years, PT's who didn't know what Heds was and ones who that was their specialty. I also tried pool therapy and cupping+myofacial massage, they were nice but just going to the place is exhausting and it always depletes my energy and increased pain.

I can deal with the soreness from doing the exercises, I really want to get in shape but I work 25 hrs and I'm baseline a 6/10 most days, and 8/10 very often.

I have to come home from work and lay down for hours, it takes me forever to do chores and I need like a day to recover after. I even get my groceries delivered now because it's exhausting thinking about going to one more place than work.

I think I'm just really tired and in pain right now, and frustrated that I don't know how to advocate for myself or even what I should be asking for. Nobody has explained Heds to me other than my own research and my doctor seems to need me to baby him through the process. As well as grieving/learning how my life will be from now on.

I work a desk job and I'm sick of useless pockets and hot bunchy fabric.

Does anyone have any good professional pants recommendations? I want to wear sweatpants but it ain't happening and I hate these khakis

Hii im 22 Ftm, and am interested in surrogacy. For multiple reasons I'm not going through an agency and prefer to find parents looking for a private, maybe open surrogacy?

I would obviously be off testosterone and am pre surgeries.have not had children before I want to offer help to a family and be able to experience this without having a child as I'm not ready to raise my own yet, I would like to offer breast milk and have a good connection with potential parents. And I don't need much compensation, besides medical bills I want to meet the parents where they are so we're both happy.

Preferably a lgbt couple or someone open minded, I do pass as a man but comfortable with femininity and think the experience is magical regardless.

Any advice for places to look for parents?