u/AgreeableAd8687

so earlier me and my friend (17f) were at work and she said she was going to the gym after work and asked if i wanted to come. even though she got out an hour earlier i said sure and she said she would go home to eat then wait for me to get out then go over. she finished her shift and i finish mine before i leave work she asks me if i can send her her schedule for the next week which i do.

then im home about a half hour later waiting for her to tell me she was on her way and i texted asking how much a day pass was and she goes i have no idea but find out for yourself im working out right now. i was very confused since i didnt even know she had left for the gym and she had said she would wait for me, so i go why didnt you tell me when you were leaving? and she said that just because we are there together doesnt mean we will be working out together? (i had assumed we would be doing our separate workouts but starting them at the same time after meeting up at the same time, which seems like the normal thing you do...)

so i tell her i thought we would at least be meeting up together and start our workouts at the same time, and i told her she said she would wait for me and she said no i didnt? but had apparently said that she was going to go at 7... and then said it's "important for me to be able to go by myself" and so it doesn't matter that we are starting at different times, like no shit i usually work out by myself but what's the point of going together if we are staggering our workout start and end times... then i couldn't even work out because they were closing in 15 minutes and since i hadn't gone earlier due to not knowing she was already there then i missed out on a short workout. does anyone know why she would do this, i genuinely don't understand her?

i have a few friends and we seem kind of split on this, i had to identify someone in our school i didn't know the name of, so i said "oh it's the black girl" (we have literally ONE black girl in our school and everyone knows and likes her) and my friends said ohh ok but then like 2 of them went wow that's racist and their explanation was "you're making it sound like them being black is their only characteristic" as if saying "oh the woman" is any better and since i don't know her well i don't know anything else about her. most of my friends didn't see how it was racist though but why is this considered racist if it's not a race correlated insult or derogatory??

i'm in southern ct and i'm not sure of any good place to ask besides here but does anyone have 17 inch or larger working crt monitors or a surplus at their workplace they'd be willing to give or sell? or does anyone know where i could get some? thank you

i know this is heavily location dependent but everywhere i go in maybe like a 20 mile radius of home (middlesex county) for cell service i get usually lte or lower speed 5g, but i went to west virginia like all across the state and reliably even in small rural towns i could get 5g uc and a couple times got speeds over a gigabit in the middle of the woods in a town that only had 10 houses and a church. might be bias but all across where i go in ct ive never seen cell service like that

I have about 30 hours in matches since I started playing in January (only played with my friend from january to march then stopped and started playing just by myself in may so 15 of those hours are recent) I usually play widow or s76 depending on the map and with both characters my aim is alright but in aim trainers i can aim pretty well and hit consistent headshots on widow, but in game and deathmatch i keep whiffing shots, like it takes 3-4 tries to hit someone standing still sometimes when thats an easy first headshot in the same situation as aim trainer (i use vaxta) why does this happen? when i play soldier my aim is pretty much the same between in game and vaxta but not widow.

my test is tomorrow but my car kinda shakes when it's going parking speed (stick shift and it's a kinda shitty car) it gets the job done but it shakes will that be enough for them to fail the inspection