Thinking about giving a chance
Salamualaykum , so ive know this guy online ( asked about subjects tips on a highschoolers group and we stayed in contact ots been 5 yrs , he re connected last year saying he wanted to get know me , then i expressed how im not open for it unless its serious .
Yesterday , he reached saying he is serious and needs only 1 meeting since he knows there is something towards me just meeting irl and then get family involved ( for me if i may give a chance i ll def involve my mother from the start ) .
1 - He said he nedds only 1 meeting and i panicked a while ( im not 100% self confident abt my looks / stability and i thought mayne i need to become the version of mysemf that i like before getting myself into a serious rs )
2 - Also im afraid of the part where to tell my mom he is an online person not a person from my daily life haha 🫠 ( girlies how did you tell your moms abt an online person and tur’ed out your husband maybe ? )
I wanna hear your opinions about it