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For my husband’s birthday this sunday am planning a beach picnic, i just want to know if there are any places where it is calm without much crowd(not expecting an empty beach but a decent crowd is fine) but also safe, can’t afford to book any resorts with private beach.

Planning to buy 1800 sq ft apartment near navalur for 1.7 crore, main road near metro station, is it worth?

Looking to buy a flat in omr, considering dra marina 100 located behind marina mall.

Can you share for how much you bought an apartment and how much you sold, mention the year and city as well.

My baby is 2.5 months old, she started rolling one way 4 days back, now from yesterday she is constantly crying for no reason, she wants us to hold her and walk, she usually cries only for milk and if she is too much sleep deprived. I also feel like her milk intake has reduced and sleeping often in the day but night sleep is pushed to 2am but after that she sleeps for 10 hours with 2 feeds, so no problem with that. But i want to understand what could be the reason for this crying, is this some kind of phase ?, to calm her down i switched on the TV( feeling bad about it).

I (28M) am about 3 months postpartum and currently living with my parents along with my husband. We moved in when I was around 5 months pregnant.

My mother (52F) is a government employee. Growing up, she was always very focused on her career and education. After marriage, she completed her degree and postgraduate studies, and because of that I spent a few years living with my grandmother. I’ve always felt that my mother wasn’t as emotionally available as many of my friends’ mothers were.

Fast forward to now: after my baby was born, my mother took two months of leave, but she returned to work last week. The issue is that she is constantly busy. She prefers doing all the household work herself and refuses to hire a maid despite being able to afford one.

As a result, my husband and I take care of the baby all day. When my parents return from work, they spend maybe an hour with the baby before my mother starts preparing dinner. After work, she usually rests for a while and then focuses on household responsibilities.

I know this may sound selfish, but I find myself wishing my mother were more available—not just for me, but also for her granddaughter. When I see friends whose mothers are heavily involved in helping with childcare, I feel jealous and resentful. I’ve suggested things like hiring domestic help or even considering early retirement, but she isn’t interested.

To make things more complicated, she also expects me to help with household chores in addition to caring for the baby. On top of that, she’s currently studying for a promotion exam. Instead of feeling proud of her ambitions, I find myself feeling frustrated and angry that she continues to prioritize work, studies, and household responsibilities over spending more time with me and the baby.

I’m starting to wonder whether it would be better to move back to my own home. Am I being unreasonable here? How do I deal with these feelings of disappointment and resentment?

We currently own a flat in medavakkam which has total 6 flats, now recently our baby was born, which makes me think if living here is right like there is no much space for her to play or go for walk etc, so we are considering buying an apartment in a good gated community in omr but the prices are huge. Like min 1.5 cr for a decent 3bhk, so am thinking if i should buy apartment or go for villa community? Also please give some suggestions for villas with gated community.

My LO 8 weeks is resisting to sleep at night, but she sleeps well when put in the cloth jhula, but am worried that she might make that as a habit, we are also planning to do international travels from month 6, so people who depend on this for sleep how do you manage when travel/ in hotel rooms ?

From last week my 8 week old baby started sleeping from 10pm to 8am, she wakes up twice 2am and 5am to feed and goes back to sleep immediately, the problem is she is able to sleep but am not after feeding her, i tried everything not using mobile, avoiding afternoon naps, but after i wake at 2am it is very hard to go to sleep again, how do you guys do it ?

There is a situation
We are planning to buy a plot
But this guy owns an agricultural land he is yet to convert it to plots
He has no money for the approvals
So what he is doing is he is selling part of the land in the size of plots
But he will sign only sale agreement
Only after 6 months after the approval he will dk the registration
I have to pay the half amount of plot now itself
He is doing this bcs he doesn’t have money for the Approval and plot initiatives
Shall i trust this?
We are getting in discounted rate and we are very much keen on buying this area after he put plot but then the rate will be higher.
About this guy: we have common friend, he is actually lower middle class, this is his ancestral property which now values in crores, so it is trustable when he says he has no money for approval.
My question is if this guy cheats/doesnt get approval is it possible to get the money? Will i have any problem ?

We got married 3.5 years ago and dated for 10 years, in early marriage days we had sex 3 to 4 times a week we enjoyed, after a year or so it got reduced, but i have high libido i tried to talk to my husband and initiate a move but he always says he is frustrated bcs of work or something, sometimes i ended up in a fight so to convince me he will have sex in thenext day or so, during that time we hardly have 2 times per month. I got pregnant a year back and we completely stopped having sex, my husband told he is not comfortable to do it when am pregnant, i don’t want to keep on fighting on sex so i agreed, no i delivered 2 months ago vaginally and am completely healed. I tried to make a move today but he rejected i asked him okay when can we start doing again he said may be after 6 months, i was disappointed and tried to make him understand my desire so asked what is the reason, he was like baby is here, am not ready, you just had birth, am traumatised seeing you in labor room bla bla, honestly don’t know what is the real reason, but i always had a feeling that is he deliberately avoiding sex, we ended up in a big fight and he he is telling am not respecting his choice and feeling, i don’t know what to do, i don’t want ti fight but i want to have sex.
My husband is great man, he always stood by me and a great father too, but sometimes sex become a deal breaker for me and even thinking of cheating on him, i just want to hate myself for that.
Am not sure what to do now, talking to him is not an option

My parents bought me necklace haaram set weighed 144 grams 10 years back, i didn’t like the design of that, am not wearing it for any functions, now i don’t have much options to wear for any functions, i want to purchase new set but considering the gold rate that seems like a long road, but if i exchange am going to lose a lot wrt wastage, any advise what should i do and how much i might loose ?