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Asking the Canadians, i wanna buy the airwrap id set (curly and coily), there is a dyson sale for 649$, is this the the lowest it can get or does it get lower during black Friday sale?

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I am a young lady who lives in the west. I was thinking recently to start a lifestyle instagram page about me and starting doing ads for skin care brands/ clothing brands and later on when i gain followers i will start my own brand related to my studies. So i will also use this account as a marketing strategy. However i have many concerns as i dont want this to backfire at me in the dunya or akhira

1- i dont want to show my face or reveal personal information about me like the city i live in, the university i go to, show my house as i am scared from evil eye or i dont want people to envy me. I read some of the comments on other people’s reels and it just shows that some people out there are ungrateful and wish the worst for others.

2- i dont want to put music on any video as this will increase my say’at until the day of judgement. But this also will lower my views and interactions on my videos

3- i am scared i might fall into a big sin like taking off the hijab later on or wear something that might not please allah in the long run. I have seen way too many people recently online and real life taking off their hijab and it scares me to be one of them one day even though i always take steps to improve my hijab and i am at a good level rn. Like even if i took it off i know i wont be comfortable and will put it back on but still, i am scared.

4- i dont want to get cursed in the comments or get mean hurtful messages in the dms or comments. I know everyone online gets them. Even though i will plan to close my dms but still, i dont want anyone cursing me or harass me, it will hurt me. Like i already get cursed at reddit for asking the simplest questions and it annoys me.

The purpose from this account is to increase my income and later on use it as a marketing tool for my brand

What do you think about this? Please be respectful

As the title says, also is there a way i can stop desiring having a partner, this feeling is eating me slowly every day.
Can i make duaa asking allah to remove this desire from my heart or is it haram? Genuinely asking

As the title says, also is there a way i can stop desiring having a partner, this feeling is eating me slowly every day.
Can i make duaa askibg allah to remove this desire from my heart or is it haram? Genuinely asking

As the question says

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I recently was blessed with a certain amount of money after a hardship. So i decided to give out sadaqa with the intention of thanking allah swt on my blessing.
The question how much should i give out? Where? And are the non profit organizations are worth it or not? My problem is they dont tell you what exactly they did with your money. I wanna feel like i made someone happy or have some sort of evidence that the money i gave out was in the right pacd

‏في ترند على ال TikTok طالعtype A bride و type b bri. اللي هو type A بتجهز حاجات كثير في الفرح وحاجات بتبقى منفصلة ليها وبتعمل الفستان عندي ديزاينر أو بتفصل الفستان ويبقى في 7000 خطوة للفرح بتاعها وكل حاجة بتبقى جايبها من حد متخصص. و بقعد سنه تعمل تجهيزات الفرح و كتب الكتاب
و في type b الي هي بتجيب الفستان من شي ان او من اي اتيليه في نزوله واحده و بتخلي صاحبتها او اختها تجيب البوكيه و مش مهم باقيت الحاجات الي بتبقى customized زي المرايه و المج و هي الي بتعمل الميكياج لنفسها و اليوم بيعدي بستر ربنا.
انا لسه متجوزتش بس شايفه نفسي type b جدا. اصل ليه البهرجة دي كلها و انا معظم الحاجات هستخدمها مره واحده. ناويه اعمل فرح انشالله بس مش ههتم بأضق التفاصيل اوي كده. المهم اكون اخترت الشخص المناسب و الاجهزه الكهربائيه في البيت عشان تسهل عليا حياتي بس.
السوال بقى هل في حد بيفكر زي ولا انا هيفتني كتير لو مكلفتش؟
Note: النقاش للبنات

So I had an air MacBook M2 2021 dec, it lived for a year then it broke down couple times, I went to Apple Care and all they did premenatly delete everything from my device. It barely survived two more years and completely gave up this Feb and haven't had laptop since then.
Now I want to purchase a laptop but hesitant to purchase from Apple again.
What do you think about the new MacBook neo? I don't want to purchase the air MacBook M5 cuz its a little expensive for me but I still want your reviews.
I would like to get a MacBook because I am used to the setup but I want a guarantee that it will survive with me at least 5 years and not give me hard time. I thought about getting non MacBook laptop, Do you recommend Microsoft or chromebook? Which ones?
My budget is around 1300$ max

Edit: every one is asking how did manage to break down my laptop… idk like what in the world i can do?? I use it every day for like 10+ hours. I dont leave the battery to die. Yes, i do heavy work load since i am a uni student. I always make sure that the software is updated because one of apple customer service told me to. The screen isnt broken. It just one day showed me the options with gear after i bought it for a year then apple deleted permanently everything. Then two years later while i was taking a zoom class, i turned off on its own and never turned on back despite going to apple.
Everybody is saying i need to learn how to take care of it as if i use it as a tennis racket. All i do every day is working on my personal desk or its in my bag.

So I had an air MacBook M2 2021 dec, it lived for a year then it broke down couple times, I went to Apple Care and all they did premenatly delete everything from my device. It barely survived two more years and completely gave up this Feb and haven't had laptop since then.
Now I want to purchase a laptop but hesitant to purchase from Apple again.
What do you think about the new MacBook neo? I don't want to purchase the air MacBook M5 cuz its a little expensive for me but I still want your reviews.
I would like to get a MacBook because I am used to the setup but I want a guarantee that it will survive with me at least 5 years and not give me hard time. I thought about getting non MacBook laptop, Do you recommend Microsoft or chromebook? Which ones?
My budget is around 1300$ max

As the title says, every now and then I say to myself to wait until you get married, and your husband will tell you nice words and cuddle you, especially since I am in the age of marriage but I'm bored from waiting until that man comes and knock at my door. And I ask myself, is there a way to satisfy myself except that I wait for my naseeb? Especially since my family is either always arguing with me or burdening me with chores. And i dont get from them affection

The pressures of life and my hormones make me feel more desperate for affection than when I was younger and every year I grow i feel more desperate. I started pampering myself and buy anything I want that makes me happy especially the things i want to buy in my husband’s house and use it now like a cute plate and a cup or change my room decor. Even if it is expensive, i will save for it. But I also want to be hugged and hear nice words. I have never had a boyfriend or talked to a man, but I see my friends who are happy with their boyfriends or husbands. And i am definitely happy for them and wish the best for them.

And after I vented, I want advice, how can I be patient with myself or satisfy myself because that I might not get married at all. Its All naseeb

As the title says, every now and then I say to myself to wait until you get married, and your husband will tell you nice words and cuddle you, especially since I am in the age of marriage but I'm bored from waiting until that man comes and knock at my door. And I ask myself, is there a way to satisfy myself except that I wait for my naseeb? Especially since my family is either always arguing with me or burdening me with chores. And i dont get from them affection

The pressures of life and my hormones make me feel more desperate for affection than when I was younger and every year I grow i feel more desperate. I started pampering myself and buy anything I want that makes me happy especially the things i want to buy in my husband’s house and use it now like a cute plate and a cup or change my room decor. Even if it is expensive, i will save for it. But I also want to be hugged and hear nice words. I have never had a boyfriend or talked to a man, but I see my friends who are happy with their boyfriends or husbands. And i am definitely happy for them and wish the best for them.

And after I vented, I want advice, how can I be patient with myself or satisfy myself because that I might not get married at all. Its All naseeb

زي نا العنوان بيقول، انا كل شوية بقول لنفسي استنى لحد لما تتجوزي و جوزك هيسمعك كلام حلو و يطبطب عليكي و يدلعك اخر دلع خصوصاً اني في سن جواز لكن انا زهقت. و بسال نفسي هو مفيش اي طريقه احتوي بيها نفسي غير اني استنى نصيبي؟ خصوصاً ان اهلي يا اما بيتخانقو معايا يا اما مشغولين و مابشوفهمش.
ضغوطات الحياه و هرموناتي محسساني بالفقدان ده اكتر من لما كنت اصغر و كل سنة بتعدي عليا اصعب من الي قابليها. انا قولت لنفسي إعملي القوقعة بتاعتك و اشتري اي حاجة نفسي فيها في جهازي و استخدمها دلوقتي زي طبق و كوباية شكلهم رقيق او ديكور لاوضتي. حتى لو وحدة وحده عشان المصاريف. بس برضو نفسي اتحضن و اسمع كلام حلو. انا عمري ما صحبت ولا كلمت ولد بس بشوف صحابي بيبقو طيرين بصحابهم او اجوازتهم. يارب اوعدنا
و بعد ما فضفضت انا عايزة نصايح ازاي اقدر اصبر نفسي أو احتوي نفسي عشان احتمال متجوزش خالص. بس عايزة نصايح بجد محترمة و خصوصا من البنات الي مرت بنفس الشعور.

Note: انا قافلة الشات عشان الناس الي مش سالكة

I am just writing this post to let out some heaviness i have been carrying lately since I can’t vent out to anyone.
My parents have opened a store recently with a huge debt from the bank and it has been taking a toll on us the house. I am a 21F with three younger siblings than me who require care. My parents are outside all day and return home at night just before we sleep by two hours. With that being said, all the house chores are on me the moment i wake up until i sleep. I feel burnt out from the same routine and constantly running around the house doing chores and cooking.

Whats worse is the business isn’t really profiting and barely and i mean barely covers its own expenses which means my dad’s salary goes into it monthly and not the house. We come from a very low -middle class family and i am tired from living on budget. My parents took all my savings since that business started and told me not to take anymore shifts from my work and work at the store so I listened but its not working anymore… i need income to survive which they dont understand. I need a new laptop cuz my laptop broke down. Its been 4 months. And they took my car cuz my dad’s car has broken down and now my car has broken down and they are trying to look for a new car which we cant afford at the moment.

Now, all i can do is take sub shifts from my co workers when they allow me. And even that little money that i earn, they take it from me cuz they need it to pay bills with. I feel suffocated… I know its all rizk from allah and i am not objecting what allah has written for me.
I even tried applying for other jobs but the job market is terrible and even connections are hard to find. I dont know what to do anymore, i cant support myself or my family. I am still grateful for the other blessings that Allah has given me and i remind myself and my siblings every day. I read surah Al Baqara to give me resilience and stay sane. But i really wanted to let out some steam so i wrote that post.