u/Anxious-mind16

The backstory is that I'm living with my Aunt and cousin for the past three years... not exactly 3 years sometimes I got home for 2-3 months and 2 years ago... I was living in a PG and I failed my exam and I was hopeless and in depression and tried a s***ide attempt but the PG staff saved me.

But recently my Cousin got married and they clearly told me that I have to move out now and I wanted to move out too because it's a fair thing and now that I've started an internship, I can manage rent and stuff. I was busy at my cousin's(her son) marriage from the last 2 months. So didn't had much time to find a room and My cousin was the one who stopped me to find rooms. He said he had some contacts. Now my internship has started and I'm busy almost 12hrs a day and I told him multiple times in the last 2 week to look for a room.

My Aunt has been mocking me from the last month, even though I worked like an animal at my cousin's wedding handling almost everything. Tonight, our sister and brother-in-law invited us for dinner and it was 8 people and out of nowhere, she told everyone, "He said he'll cook food for himself, he doesn't even eat food at home", in a mocking tone...she doesn't even make food at home. At her house, she only cooks meal at noon. No breakfast no dinner. And most of the time she asks me for Chai when I'm leaving for office, what's the point in that.

She said, "From which floor you're gonna jump this time". Not the first time she joked about this. Man I was so pissed but had to stay silent and joked it off. I really wanted to stand up and go somewhere else from there. For the past 3 years I've worked my a** off for them. Never said No to any of their chores. Even if I was tired or sick I've tried my best to not be a burden. But this is what I get.

My cousin who's the sole earner, never really treated me like that. He treated me as his own. Even the internship I'm doing is because of his reference. But my Aunt is really getting on my nerve now. Even though I'm trying my best to move out, she's doing all this.

The backstory is that I'm living with my Aunt and cousin for the past three years... not exactly 3 years sometimes I got home for 2-3 months and 2 years ago... I was living in a PG and I failed my exam and I was hopeless and in depression and tried a s***ide attempt but the PG staff saved me.

But recently my Cousin got married and they clearly told me that I have to move out now and I wanted to move out too because it's a fair thing and now that I've started an internship, I can manage rent and stuff. I was busy at my cousin's(her son) marriage from the last 2 months. So didn't had much time to find a room and My cousin was the one who stopped me to find rooms. He said he had some contacts. Now my internship has started and I'm busy almost 12hrs a day and I told him multiple times in the last 2 week to look for a room.

My Aunt has been mocking me from the last month, even though I worked like an animal at my cousin's wedding handling almost everything. Tonight, our sister and brother-in-law invited us for dinner and it was 8 people and out of nowhere, she told everyone, "He said he'll cook food for himself, he doesn't even eat food at home", in a mocking tone...she doesn't even make food at home. At her house, she only cooks meal at noon. No breakfast no dinner. And most of the time she asks me for Chai when I'm leaving for office, what's the point in that.

She said, "From which floor you're gonna jump this time". Not the first time she joked about this. Man I was so pissed but had to stay silent and joked it off. I really wanted to stand up and go somewhere else from there. For the past 3 years I've worked my a** off for them. Never said No to any of their chores. Even if I was tired or sick I've tried my best to not be a burden. But this is what I get.

My cousin who's the sole earner, never really treated me like that. He treated me as his own. Even the internship I'm doing is because of his reference. But my Aunt is really getting on my nerve now. Even though I'm trying my best to move out, she's doing all this.

After years my life finally feels like normal.

Started internship this week, ik it's too early but I'm ready to do the work. Soon will rent a room (wanted to stay away from everyone for so long), currently living with relatives but I'll move out later this month.

In a long term relationship with a partner who has supported me throughout.

Finally away from my toxic home, I still get calls everyday about fights and arguments happening at home but I don't let them bother me anymore.

Been through alot these past years but now trying to get my life on track.

After years my life finally feels like normal.

Started internship this week, ik it's too early but I'm ready to do the work. Soon will rent a room (wanted to stay away from everyone for so long), currently living with relatives but I'll move out later this month.

In a long term relationship with a partner who has supported me throughout.

Finally away from my toxic home, I still get calls everyday about fights and arguments happening at home but I don't let them bother me anymore.

Been through alot these past years but now trying to get my life on track.

After years my life finally feels like normal.

Started internship this week, ik it's too early but I'm ready to do the work. Soon will rent a room (wanted to stay away from everyone for so long), currently living with relatives but I'll move out later this month.

In a long term relationship with a partner who has supported me throughout.

Finally away from my toxic home, I still get calls everyday about fights and arguments happening at home but I don't let them bother me anymore.

Been through alot these past years but now trying to get my life on track.

My cousin, whom I live with for the past 3.5yrs is getting married this week. We all have been doing wedding chores, shopping and everything for months now and today was the first event, that was the engagement.

We all had prepared some dance performances and I was the one who took the effort to create a playlist, cut the songs in the parts where all were supposed to dance and made a whole script for the host and the list from which the performances were about to happen.

The first performance happened smoothly but my Neice, who’s 3yrs old went on stage and came in between every performance, she came in the first one…I told my jiju to take her off the stage but he yelled and her mom was busy clicking photos and told me to play a song for her. i was like okay because i didn’t wanted to create a scene. Then other relative came, they told me to play their kid’s song which wasn’t even in the script.

I couldn’t say no and i played. After that everyone came and barged on me to play a song for their kid. And all the main performances were sidelined. Then there was this cousin who’s performance was supposed to happen at any cost because she had the best one but this jiju told me to play his song instead of hers and more time got wasted. after that i was like a f…kin fish market running all around me. then the bride side was getting late so we had to cut all the major performances.

My cousin started crying becz she practiced so much for her performance. then the same jija who told me to play his song instead of her abused me for not playing her song. I literally stood there and listened becz i didn’t wanted to create any scene… i did it for my cousi because i owe him alot. but i was so pissed… because he was one who put his kid and every other relatives started doing the same then he ignored my cousins performance then he kept telling everyone that I never wanted tha cousin to perform.

i was like wtf… i woke up whole night preparing for performance and i got all the blame from everyone. I was so angry that i didn’t even had a sip of water in the wedding hall. Mood ruined, Event ruined, this wedding i was so excited for…ruined.

My cousin, whom I live with for the past 3.5yrs is getting married this week. We all have been doing wedding chores, shopping and everything for months now and today was the first event, that was the engagement.

We all had prepared some dance performances and I was the one who took the effort to create a playlist, cut the songs in the parts where all were supposed to dance and made a whole script for the host and the list from which the performances were about to happen.

The first performance happened smoothly but my Neice, who’s 3yrs old went on stage and came in between every performance, she came in the first one…I told my jiju to take her off the stage but he yelled and her mom was busy clicking photos and told me to play a song for her. i was like okay because i didn’t wanted to create a scene. Then other relative came, they told me to play their kid’s song which wasn’t even in the script.

I couldn’t say no and i played. After that everyone came and barged on me to play a song for their kid. And all the main performances were sidelined. Then there was this cousin who’s performance was supposed to happen at any cost because she had the best one but this jiju told me to play his song instead of hers and more time got wasted. after that i was like a f…kin fish market running all around me. then the bride side was getting late so we had to cut all the major performances.

My cousin started crying becz she practiced so much for her performance. then the same jija who told me to play his song instead of her abused me for not playing her song. I literally stood there and listened becz i didn’t wanted to create any scene… i did it for my cousi because i owe him alot. but i was so pissed… because he was one who put his kid and every other relatives started doing the same then he ignored my cousins performance then he kept telling everyone that I never wanted tha cousin to perform.

i was like wtf… i woke up whole night preparing for performance and i got all the blame from everyone. I was so angry that i didn’t even had a sip of water in the wedding hall. Mood ruined, Event ruined, this wedding i was so excited for…ruined.