u/Apprehensive_Hair391

Facing a predicament with my escape plan

I am 17, turning 18 next may and I am planning to escape to college, in my state adopted children get their college tuition covered but I plan to use financial aid for dorm and books and stuff, and I'll be working part time, I'll be able to apply for fasfa this October with my parents tax information but once I leave I won't be able to reapply, how do I solve this issue?

I am 17, turning 18 next may and I am planning to escape to college, in my state adopted children get their college tuition covered but I plan to use financial aid for dorm and books and stuff, and I'll be working part time, I'll be able to apply for fasfa this October with my parents tax information but once I leave I won't be able to reapply, how do I solve this issue?

I don't know if this is the right sub for this, if it isn't please direct me to a better sub for this question, but my mother put me through an appointment with this place today for the first time and I'm supposed to start therapy next week. Is there anything I should watch out for with this place, this is my first therapy experience in a long time and I don't know much about this place. Is it any good?

TLDR: my mom is an asshole

My (17) mother has been abusing me ever since I was young, but ever since I've gotten to my teenage years the abuse has become more mental than physical, maybe because I tower over her in height and weight and she's afraid I might fight back. I don't know why but she seems to have this compulsive need to verbally attack me and knock me down no matter what. I'll give a few examples:

1. I've struggled with my weight for a long time now, especially since my prominent mental illness gives me the urge to binge, but instead of trying to be supportive and help me, she constantly body shames me instead of making an effort to help me, she drags me to burger king today (which I hate) gets mad when I order a burger, and then when I only ate half and wanted to save the rest for later, she makes me sit there and eat the whole thing. Like she genuinely makes no sense sometimes, do you want me to eat or not?

2. I have ADHD and autism, so lets just say my brain's processing speed and short term memory storage isn't very high, so my mom will get mad at me and make backhanded comments when I forget to do some small chores or I'm not moving fast enough for her liking, she often tells me I will never make it in the real world and I will end up living like a (n word)(she is also very racist btw). She constantly calls me lazy because the house isn't constantly spotless (I have a nine year old sister so obviously this is very unrealistic), even though I am basically her free live in maid and babysitter, she genuinely believes if I am not up and constantly cleaning I am being lazy, even if I'm doing something productive like homework. She also tends to talk about my "laziness" to people that come over, even when it's a total stranger, she does this right in front of my face and it's mortifying, especially when I'm sitting there cleaning while she's doing all that.

3. I struggle with SH in relation to my mental health issues, and when my mom found out she screamed in my face for about an hour demanding that I tell her why, (I had to tell her because of my weight because obviously I wasn't going to tell her it was because of her constant abuse) I had a panic attack in the kitchen and she was more concerned that it was late and she had work in the morning, and then proceeded to vent to me about all of her problems for thirty minutes.

Uhh sorry for the venting session lol

TLDR: my mom is an asshole

My (17) mother has been abusing me ever since I was young, but ever since I've gotten to my teenage years the abuse has become more mental than physical, maybe because I tower over her in height and weight and she's afraid I might fight back. I don't know why but she seems to have this compulsive need to verbally attack me and knock me down no matter what. I'll give a few examples:

1. I've struggled with my weight for a long time now, especially since my prominent mental illness gives me the urge to binge, but instead of trying to be supportive and help me, she constantly body shames me instead of making an effort to help me, she drags me to burger king today (which I hate) gets mad when I order a burger, and then when I only ate half and wanted to save the rest for later, she makes me sit there and eat the whole thing. Like she genuinely makes no sense sometimes, do you want me to eat or not?

2. I have ADHD and autism, so lets just say my brain's processing speed and short term memory storage isn't very high, so my mom will get mad at me and make backhanded comments when I forget to do some small chores or I'm not moving fast enough for her liking, she often tells me I will never make it in the real world and I will end up living like a (n word)(she is also very racist btw). She constantly calls me lazy because the house isn't constantly spotless (I have a nine year old sister so obviously this is very unrealistic), even though I am basically her free live in maid and babysitter, she genuinely believes if I am not up and constantly cleaning I am being lazy, even if I'm doing something productive like homework. She also tends to talk about my "laziness" to people that come over, even when it's a total stranger, she does this right in front of my face and it's mortifying, especially when I'm sitting there cleaning while she's doing all that.

3. I struggle with SH in relation to my mental health issues, and when my mom found out she screamed in my face for about an hour demanding that I tell her why, (I had to tell her because of my weight because obviously I wasn't going to tell her it was because of her constant abuse) I had a panic attack in the kitchen and she was more concerned that it was late and she had work in the morning, and then proceeded to vent to me about all of her problems for thirty minutes.

Uhh sorry for the venting session lol

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Ok this one is gonna be a long one so sorry for all the words: (TW: SH mentioned!!)

I am a 17 year old non binary person who is currently dealing with an abusive mother. She has done it to me since childhood and my original plan was to just leave on my 18th birthday but I'm afraid of leaving my 8 year old sister behind (even though she's my mother's favorite) and I'm afraid she'll try and track me down. So I am wondering if there is another way I could maybe get her locked up or have her lose her custody.

The problem I have is getting proof, her abuse has become more mental than physical within the past few years, she has body shamed me, told me I'll never make it, and gas generally made me feel worthless. It has really damaged my psyche, I have struggled with various mental health problems because of it. The one thing I feel like I might be able to get her for is medical neglect, I haven't been to a doctor since eighth grade and I can't even remember the last time I went to the dentist. And I have been struggling with self harm for about a year now and she completely knows about it, it was a bad night for me when she found out and id rather not get into it. But she knows and has not attempted to seek out mental health care for me at all. If you guys are wondering about my dad my mom basically has him brainwashed.

I really need help with this or I'm going to go crazy, one of my biggest fears is that she uses my mental health to try and write off any reports as crazy delusions. The last time I tried to call CPS on her when I was 11 didn't go well, they showed up to the house and she had them gone by telling them I was a pathological liar and a thief that couldn't be trusted.

Ok this one is gonna be a long one so sorry for all the words: (TW: SH mentioned!!)

I am a 17 year old non binary person who is currently dealing with an abusive mother. She has done it to me since childhood and my original plan was to just leave on my 18th birthday but I'm afraid of leaving my 8 year old sister behind (even though she's my mother's favorite) and I'm afraid she'll try and track me down. So I am wondering if there is another way I could maybe get her locked up or have her lose her custody.

The problem I have is getting proof, her abuse has become more mental than physical within the past few years, she has body shamed me, told me I'll never make it, and gas generally made me feel worthless. It has really damaged my psyche, I have struggled with various mental health problems because of it. The one thing I feel like I might be able to get her for is medical neglect, I haven't been to a doctor since eighth grade and I can't even remember the last time I went to the dentist. And I have been struggling with self harm for about a year now and she completely knows about it, it was a bad night for me when she found out and id rather not get into it. But she knows and has not attempted to seek out mental health care for me at all. If you guys are wondering about my dad my mom basically has him brainwashed.

I really need help with this or I'm going to go crazy, one of my biggest fears is that she uses my mental health to try and write off any reports as crazy delusions. The last time I tried to call CPS on her when I was 11 didn't go well, they showed up to the house and she had them gone by telling them I was a pathological liar and a thief that couldn't be trusted.

I genuinely don't know if this is the right subreddit for this, and if it isn't please point me to the correct one. I (17 gender fluid, pansexual) have a girlfriend (17 F ) who is questioning whether or not she is on the asexual spectrum, she has always been very sex repulsed and says the entire idea of it seems disgusting to her. I don't really know how to support her, as I am a very flirty person in general and am afraid of making her uncomfortable. Again I don't know if I'm in the right sub for this but some advice would be nice.

Months of staying clean down the drain, i feel so fucking weak, I couldn't even last a few months without taking a blade to my skin, I just wanna stop breathing for a minute, I need to feel my head pounding from it

https://reddit.com/link/1soh8az/video/szwx1dm25uvg1/player

So I was doing factory work and I just found this