u/ArachnidLeftt

I hate getting attached and obsessed

I keep working, trying my best to have some self respect but something in me tells me I’ll never find anyone like them. I text them, I apologize and then regret when I’m probably getting gaslighted. I hate myself for doing this to me. I need to fix my noggin

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u/ArachnidLeftt — 5 days ago

Am I an option for him? He can’t move on from his ex

He told me he was being used as a”revenge” by his ex and she cheated on him. I met him on the same day and he said he was loyal towards her. Surprisingly he started acting weird within a few days like he was blushing. Telling me things about future, connection etc. How could someone move on that quickly? Also, I just asked him if he’s still attached to her cuz he told me he can’t imagine being with anyone else other than her in bed. (I’m sorry to the lang). Doesn’t this mean he’s still attached and I’m being used so he could move on? He told me how he feels a connection between us but still talks about how much he loved his ex but she didn’t understand him. 1 day he was gaslighting saying everyone left me, if you leave, I’ll die. When I asked if he’s still attached, he said no, just a broken man who’s trying to heal but is this normal? Idk If I’m misunderstanding and I refuse to be an option.

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u/ArachnidLeftt — 6 days ago

He is obsessed with ex, I want him to be obsessed with me

He is trying to move on but I can tell he is obsessed with her. He still attached to her and I hate that. How can I manifest him to love me and imagine me instead of her. It’s so upsetting like she hurt him badly yet he can’t forget lol. Maybe I should detach from him and not care at all.

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u/ArachnidLeftt — 6 days ago

Thought met my soulmate but need confirmation from universe

I met someone, thought he was the only and finally met him after giving up on everything but now he’s acting weird. I have OCD, so I can’t tell if I’m the one misunderstanding or am I right? How can I ask the universe for a clarification?

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u/ArachnidLeftt — 8 days ago

I wanted him to have a crush and be clingy but I’m the one

I was manifesting him to have a crush on me and be clingy, healthy obsessed like care, check but I’m the one who admires him and can’t stop thinking about. Lol😭 What am I doing wrong? How can I make him fall in love? I want him to admire me. Affirmations, subs, share anything that’ll be helpful.

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u/ArachnidLeftt — 8 days ago

He prob doesn’t find me attractive and I feel ugly

He didn’t compliment me and the next day he was talking about how he goes for personality instead of looks. I got bullied and I was trying to step out of my comfort zone and feel confident but I started to feel down again. Im using affirmations but I feel ugly. I hate ft. My self esteem is so low, I don’t want to be depressed.

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u/ArachnidLeftt — 9 days ago