If you don't mind sharing, is that a blue collar or white collar job?
For me, it's about a year. In 2020, I worked two jobs both of them almost non-stop all year
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I think I finally learn something from ESTJs and (maybe ENTJs?)
So what I learned from them s that, create rule that will help you and your alibi, and create rule that will inconvenience your adversaries.
I've observed something interesting about the ENFJs in my life: unless the blackmail is explicit and laid out plainly, they seem completely unaffected by it.
Subtle leverage the kind that relies on someone connecting dots between implied consequences doesn't register with them. They just move through it as if nothing happened. My working theory is that this comes down to inferior Ti. They're not naturally inclined to deconstruct the underlying logic of what's being communicated, so the implicit threat never assembles itself in their mind.
To be clear: I'm not trying to blackmail anyone. I simply noticed that an ENFJ I know appeared completely unbothered by a situation that should have carried weight, and I worked backward from that observation to arrive at this framework.
Unless otherwise, the blackmail is straightforward and explained plainly to them. Blackmailing with subtel que is almost looks like impossible. I think it might be inferior Ti they weren't able to connect the dots, they just ride pass through the none obvious blackmale.
Just before anybody accusing me I learned this while I'm trying to blackmail someone that's not true, I just noticed the ENFJ I know Seems like unaffected by previous circumstances. So I start wondering why is this the cause, then I come to this conclusion after many iteration
I just want to hear about your story, how is life like with them? do you think they make an impact on your life? or you think you would be the same without them?
And another very important question: would you say your life is better than the average person’s? I know this is a weird question, but I’m curious because in my early life I struggled a lot. I’m still struggling, but I’m grateful to everyone in my life who has made me who I am today. The reason I’m asking is because I’ve always… how do I put this… felt like I’m behind compared to my peers, since I didn’t have a father figure growing up. Not too long ago, one of my friends said, “Go find a father figure for yourself.” I didn’t take it to heart, but I often wonder what my life would be like if I had one.
For me, hands down, it's ESFJ(just in case you can't see my flare, I am typed as INTP). I met one around 5 years ago, and he transformed my life my perspective, pretty much every aspect of it.
To make it clear what I'm saying: I tend to copy people whenever I think they're amazing. But most of the time, mimicking them doesn't bring me joy or make my life easier. For example, trying to be like the stereotypical ENFP, ENTJ (actually mimicking entj makes me paranoid), or INTJ I get burned out real quick. INFP a. Stereotypical make me lazy to put it lightly {and on other notes infps The one who taught me I can easily be manipulated, To name a few.
I've actually been trying to talk about this for the past few years. I just didn't have a concrete way to explain it.
People I cannot mimic ISTP, ISTJ, and INFJ to name a few
edit: first of all, I want to say thank you mods for approving my post. second, I need to clarify one thing to put it shortly. mimicking esfj have no side effects for me That's what I'm trying to say. because mimicking other type do benefits me temporarily makes me happy temporarily but not much long benefits that's what I'm trying to say
It seems like my dream to be good at mathematics going to say being a dream
I met a girl who is into hivemind a few months ago, but unfortunately I haven't been able to talk to her much because of circumstances.
If you ask me, if it aligns with my principles, I'm for it; if not, I'm against it. I completely understand this is a very selfish thing to say, but this is my experience so far and my understanding about it.