u/AwkardOiledBalls1984

My(29M) fiancee (25F) compares herself with my exes

Hi everyone,

I am engaged with my lovely fiancee, we both had relationships before, both of us shared our past with each other. I accepted her past and she accepted mine.

Recently I was talking with her she took ss of the DPs of my exes and started full comparison session with her girl bff.

And jokingly started asking why am I lowering my standards and accepting her. And started to degrade herself jokingly

I reassure her everyday all day and love her but I find this behaviour of her weird, i mean she will be my wife in near future and I choose her all day every day but this comparing thing feels weird.

I rarely ask her about her exes but she keeps on comparing herself with my exes.

How to reassure her more?

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u/AwkardOiledBalls1984 — 8 days ago