This person thinks I’m genuinely stupid

Hello all this is a bit of a rant post lolll. I am a front desk worker at a smaller hotel and I have been here a year now but I’m still the newest employee. Anyways we have these guests who have stayed long term and I mean I think they first checked in shortly after I started here. Anyways they ended up a couple of days behind on payments and because they have been here so long, management decided to give them some leniency for a couple of days. Well a couple of days turned into a week behind on payments to us. So I’m working this weekend and was told that they needed to pay by Thursday morning before checkout time…. This woman called me and claimed she was stuck in traffic and would show up a bit later then expected she told me she would be in by noon to pay the full balance. Next thing you know it’s 6:30 PM my shift is ending and she claimed she was STILL stuck in traffic. I’m not stupid lady you weren’t in traffic for over six hours and I especially know this because my partner takes the same highway home she claimed to be stuck on and it was completely clear. Anyways management gave them till Friday. Friday rolls around and now she’s claiming she was in a car accident during that “traffic” and is in the hospital. My manager literally offered to drive to the hospital and pick up the cash she supposedly had but she panicked and said NO so they gave her till today. She promised to pay the full balance this morning before checkout time. Of course lo and behold checkout time comes and goes and she still hasn’t paid. I get the managers can do whatever they’d like as it’s his property and money but omfg it was exhausting chasing this woman around for money for three days straight. Thank god I am off the next couple of days 🤣🤣

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 days ago

Does this question ever bother anyone else??

Maybe I’ve just heard it to many times that it makes me mental now but it bothers me when people ask “am I in a quiet room?” or “do I have quiet neighbours?” I always tell them of course nobody SHOULD be super loud in their hotel rooms out of respect. But this one guy I just checked in asked me that and when I said “well I’d hope they are quiet that is the goal!” And he gave me attitude and was all “well I need you to guarantee that I’m in a good spot” ….. do you think I’m sat outside the other guests doors all day listening to see how loud they are?? Anyways that’s my vent of the day

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 2 months ago

Another venting moment

Hey all I literally posted yesterday and deleted my post because I didn’t think it could get worse than yesterday….i was wrong haha. I left work last night thinking today would be better but immediately as I walked in my coworker and I were told people were fighting in the halls. I guess there was a noise complaint and instead of coming to us this person knocked on his neighbours door and proceeded to sucker punch him in the face when he opened the door so that’s soooo fun. And then I’ve been getting soooo many complaints that our breakfast attendant has been rude and I have been trying to tell management that she is not a right fit for this job but do you think they bother to listen?? Now we have at least a half dozen complaints on her from yesterday and today alone. People are showing up early again expecting to be put into their rooms 4 hours before check in time and I found out one of the housekeepers is probably not changing every checkout rooms sheets… help meeee

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 2 months ago

Just need a little venting moment

Hey all I just need a little venting moment here. It has been super rough time at the hotel these past few weeks. We are severely short staffed when it comes to housekeeping to the point half the rooms aren’t being done before check in time. Today has also been super tough because I’ve had over half the folks with reservations come in super early today and they have this expectation to be let in the rooms and get mad with me when I tell them the rooms aren’t done even when it is before check in and they never called to say they would be early. I just wish people didn’t think we are superhuman or if they could at least give me the decency to call and let me know they’re on their way instead of showing up multiple hours early and expecting a miracle. Anyways thanks for listening yall

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 2 months ago

Dexcom g7 patches

Hello all! As the title says I am looking for recommendations for some Dexcom g7 patches in Canada! I’d prefer ones with designs but any really work! I ordered some from pimp my diabetes last time and found that as soon as I got sweaty they were falling off almost instantly! Any recommendations for some that will hopefully stick the whole ten days??

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 2 months ago

Best Dexcom g7 patches?

Hello all! As the title says I am looking for recommendations for some Dexcom g7 patches in Canada! I’d prefer ones with designs but any really work! I ordered some from pimp my diabetes last time and found that as soon as I got sweaty they were falling off almost instantly! Any recommendations for some that will hopefully stick the whole ten days??

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 2 months ago

Weird and discoloured nails. Help I’m scared!!

Hello . Had nail polish on for a couple of weeks and removed it today with a regular nail polish remover and my nails underneath had turned purple and red ish. Some spots burn a bit and they are almost like dents in my nails. I have never seen this before and it’s on all of my nails on both hands. What is happening?

u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago

Discoloured nails. Help I’m scared

Hello 21 female 170lbs. Had nail polish on for a couple of weeks and removed it today with a regular nail polish remover and my nails underneath had turned purple and red ish. Some spots burn a bit and they are almost like dents in my nails. I have never seen this before and it’s on all of my nails on both hands. What is happening?

u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago

Any advice I’m pretty scared

Hello 21 female 170lbs. Had nail polish on for a couple of weeks and removed it today with a regular nail polish remover and my nails underneath had turned purple and red ish. Some spots burn a bit and they are almost like dents in my nails. I have never seen this before and it’s on all of my nails on both hands. What is happening?

u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago

Not entirely sure what to flag! Any recommendations please

Hello! I would like to start with the fact I am not looking for any particular book or author but books that you guys think would be a good read in this particular situation. Im going to start with a bit of a story. Grew up pretty close to my mom and most of the time it was perfect although as I grew up she would comment on my body but never to an extreme just a comment here and there. Back a couple of years now she ended up having a psychotic episode or mental breakdown of some kind and watching her through those weeks was genuinely the most traumatic thing I’d witnessed. During this time she treated me horrifically and I ended up going through narcissistic abuse with her and mental abuse. She is a manipulative woman now and we have been no contact for years now. I apologize for what feels like a bit of a trauma dump but I was curious if anyone knows any books that show other people going through similar things like this between mother and daughter. Fiction or non fiction! I’ve read Jennette McCurdys I’m glad my mom died and I found parts of her story very relatable but haven’t found anything else like it. Thanks in advance

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago

Hi all I’m new here and need help with finding a book

Hello! I would like to start with the fact I am not looking for any particular book or author but books that you guys think would be a good read in this particular situation. Im going to start with a bit of a story. Grew up pretty close to my mom and most of the time it was perfect although as I grew up she would comment on my body but never to an extreme just a comment here and there. Back a couple of years now she ended up having a psychotic episode or mental breakdown of some kind and watching her through those weeks was genuinely the most traumatic thing I’d witnessed. During this time she treated me horrifically and I ended up going through narcissistic abuse with her and mental abuse. She is a manipulative woman now and we have been no contact for years now. I apologize for what feels like a bit of a trauma dump but I was curious if anyone knows any books that show other people going through similar things like this between mother and daughter. Fiction or non fiction! I’ve read Jennette McCurdys I’m glad my mom died and I found parts of her story very relatable but haven’t found anything else like it. Thanks in advance

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago

Why would God make me gay if it’s such an awful thing

Hello I am 21. I was raised in the church my whole life until I left the faith around four or five years ago. I am a bisexual girl and have known I have been since I was probably five or six years old when I would get crushes on girls and boys and be terrified because of what the Bible says. People try to push the point that I learned this gayness from the world but I was raised in an extremely Christian house where they made points to let it be known that gay=bad and I was also homeschooled my whole life so it’s not like it was something that was fed to me. In fact I was fed the opposite. So recently I felt a calling towards my Bible again and decided to go read it and I was shocked at how awful being gay is made out to be. Why would god make be bisexual if its such a horribly wrong thing? Asked in another subreddit and it got removed. Thanks in advance!

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago
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Why would God make me gay if it’s such an awful thing

Hello I am 21. I was raised in the church my whole life until I left the faith around four or five years ago. I am a bisexual girl and have known I have been since I was probably five or six years old when I would get crushes on girls and boys and be terrified because of what the Bible says. People try to push the point that I learned this gayness from the world but I was raised in an extremely Christian house where they made points to let it be known that gay=bad and I was also homeschooled my whole life so it’s not like it was something that was fed to me. In fact I was fed the opposite. So recently I felt a calling towards my Bible again and decided to go read it and I was shocked at how awful being gay is made out to be. Why would god make be bisexual if its such a horribly wrong thing?

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 4 months ago

21F who is a type one diabetic of almost 20 years. Also a survivor of a narcissistic parent. AMA

Hey yall I’m bored out of my mind right now so I thought I’d try this out! Like I mentioned above I am 21 and was diagnosed with type one diabetes at 13 months old! In the last two years I have also fled a narcissistic mother. Ask away! No questions are out of bounds!

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago
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(19)and living with my toxic mom (first two) vs (21) and living in an apartment together with my partner

At the time living with my mom I don’t think I recognized her toxicity. I’m not sure if you guys can see the difference or not but I feel like you can see it in my eyes that I am happier and feel safe.

u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago

New here!

Hello I kinda stumbled across this subreddit during a search into some religions! I was raised Christian and have been away from the faith and calling myself an atheist for years now but deep down I feel a calling to something but I just really don’t know what and just kind of seeing what’s out there! What can you guys tell me about pantheism? Any advice or facts? Thanks in advance!!

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago

Uniforms?

Hello all I work at a Wyndham hotel and I have a question for you guys. I started last July and they were not enforcing uniforms at all and just to dress formally while at work which is what me and other staff have done. Recently we received awful feeling/looking long sleeve uniforms and as a diabetic I am going to overheat in that all summer and I know it too. Anyways the issue comes in with the assistant manager saying her and the owner don’t have to wear uniforms because they dress “formally”. The owner I understand… but if all other staff are being forced into wearing uniforms shouldn’t she (the assistant manager) as well? Maybe I am the issue but this doesn’t seem fair, it’s almost as if they’re picking and choosing. Does anyone else have this issue? Thanks in advance!

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago

Hello all I am 21 years old and was raised in a Christian home. I left the faith probably around 16 or so years old just as I watched so much horrible stuff happen I struggled to believe a “loving” god would allow such things. I then switched to more spiritualism I suppose you’d call it where I use tarot cards and wear crystals but I don’t worship anyone or follow/set myself into any set religion. Lately I’ve felt a slight calling towards reading my Bible again but I don’t think it’s because I feel I belong to Christianity. Especially as a bisexual girl who does not hold back, as someone who is in a relationship and having premarital sex, being a 420 smoker etc and have absolutely no want to change these things about myself. I feel like I have this want to belong to a group of people, I think it’s mainly to bring myself peace as I am having a tougher time again in life currently. Does anyone have any laid back kind of spiritual religions I suppose that they’d recommend I look into? Any advice or anything really is welcome. Thanks in advance

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago
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Hello all as I said in the title I am an ex Christian. I am 21F and was raised Christian. I left the faith at around 16 years old and lately I just keep wanting to read the Bible. I’m a bisexual girl who is a big 420 smoker and all that stuff now and I’ve used crystals but the issue is I have no desire to change or stop these things. but like I said I’ve been having this feeling to read my Bible But I need your help with some things I’d like to look for in the Bible.

1.) Where does God say to follow new rules and disregard in a sense what the Old Testaments rules are?

2.) Where can I find verses on where it is talked about homosexuality?

3.) Where can I read about what it takes to be saved/get into heaven? (Asking as someone who doesn’t want to follow something that is hateful towards who I am)

Thank you all in advance and any other passages and verses are welcome!

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago

Hey all! I just wanted to say thanks in advance for any answers I get here! I am 21F and for many years my mom controlled every aspect of my diabetes and I had nothing to do with it. I’ve gone no contact with my mom 1.5 years ago now and really let myself go in that time and am hoping to lower my a1c and keep myself in range more. My last a1c (6 or so months ago) was 10 and I am currently waiting on new results but won’t have them till the end of the month. I’ve heard if you lower your a1c or get your blood sugar in range to quickly that you can cause more complications in your eyes and whatnot. My question to you guys is how do I go about lowering my a1c quickly but not too quickly? Is there a correct timeline? And also just any tips as a whole are welcome to lower this! Thank you!

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u/Background-Ad-9083 — 5 months ago