u/BluebeingMortal001

(In regards to a post I won't tag).

You'll stone me.

Do you hear men who budget for umalaya wakicomplain about it? Do you hear how people talk of their preferences? Niggas are all over calling anyone who mentions wanting someone financially stable a gold digger in the name of "to grow pamoja." Sikatai, but why do you make it seem kama kutotaka broke man ni shida ama some big deal? Let girls be.

They are playing the victim huku and acting as the jury in some cases.

​They are suckers for richer men, as if they don't call other men "boss" or "mheshimiwa" ndo washikiwe mzinga, etc. puh. I know right, get off the high horse jomba, mzee whatever. Get your shit together or go get it fucked, mkundu iko sawa it's also a hole isn't it?

​Mshinde hapa acting all high and mighty. Get off the high horse.

If there is something my mom loved drilling in our heads it's that. I would say experience shapes someone. Her friends are married too and fairly have their own networth, yet they say too if a man cannot provide leave him. To some extent I agree and get them.

A man who refuses to pay rent, school fees for his children, buy shopping etc.A man who simply exists in the house as the man of the house refuses to do the bare minimum yet kwingine he finances another womans lifestyle is a vile snake.

Deadbeats wasipigiwe makofi.

EDIT: To clarify for those throwing stones at the messenger:

​It's not about the money, it's about a father who refuses to provide for his kids. Did I say a broke man shouldn't date? No. Any man can marry; I just made a point using the specifics of this exact situation.

​Calling someone a gold digger for asking a man to cater to his own children's basic needs is absurd.Why should he not cater for it when present in their lives. It's okay the woman is providing but should she carry it all just because she can.

I emphasized that 'experience shapes someone,' meaning her. From dating a man who was not financially well to him being stable and leaving her. Her reasoning he refused to have other women before because he couldn't afford them. We have all seen a lot of these stories, and while it's not the same for everyone, this is just one reality not everyones.

Ann Marie∽Act right. Come here daddy yk I cannot stay mad at you when I be talking crazy lemme face my Att.

You know how to fix my attitude you know just what I need.

damn.

Dexta.

The first time I spoke to this nigga, I literally wet my panties. I was rambling and being a total yapper, then mid-yap he told me, "Hey good girl, you know what, baby? I want you to be that vocal when I put it in you." Tell me how it feels, okay? I swallowed, and he told me, "Say 'yes, papi'."

​Bro, bro, ata ingekuwa wewe, you would fold just like I did. It was entirely in how he said it,I was grinning like a Cheshire cat, my voice went down instantly, and I switched modes right then. Mh. ​People who know how to talk to you and handle you right just completely control me. Like this other time, a guy grabbed me by my neck... boy, if he wanted to toss me around and fuck me, I was completely ready.

​There’s just so much someone can do to have you spreading like a pair of dividers trying to find the perfect angle during a geometry exam.

I wish you stayed and had conversations like this with me. I just got off a phone call 4 hours later and I loved every bit of it.

My brain couldn’t help but say I wish we had this, me and you. I hate that you left and didn’t experience me in this version.

I’m not bitter just a bit heartbroken that my favorite dancer exicted the stage too early. I’m happy though that I get to be undignified and dance beautifully with my friends.

I’m happy that I got the short dance even when my heart relented and asked for a longer version, I can only listen to my heart beat.

I think I liked you a tad bit too much. I wish you called back like you said on Sunday. I was mushy when you picked up my call. Those few seconds made me love the small girl in me.

It’s almost 1am. I’m tempted at times to call you and pretend it was a drunk call. I liked you why did you have to act that way. I wish we stayed friends for it worked with other people, I think it would work with you too.

I remember the first time I met him. We hit it off immediately. I used to swear, "mimi kupikia mwanaume haiwezi," but I did it. I fucking did it.

He made the stew, and I was on chapo duty because he mentioned they were his favorite. Mind you, he didn't even have a proper pan, so it was an absolute struggle. He ate them anyway though! 😂 (Even though they were slightly undercooked).

Over time, I've met a number of men who love chapatis, but trust me, I am officially retired from kitchen duty.

Looking back, the whole thing was completely mundane. Don't romanticize it. Later on, I learned the hard way that you just don't go to a guy's house for a first date. I was a naive teenager.

What’s the simplest, lowest-effort first date you’ve ever gone to, or rather, that came to you?"

They texted everything reminds me of you amenitumia picha ya potholes. 😂

There's a lot to derive from it.

This guy told me he is feeling shitty because he is spilling details about the woman he has. He said that maybe if he loved her he wouldn't talk about her to me. I said Idk because I talk to my friends about some dets, although I've heard a few guys say they don't.

I've interacted with a couple of niggas overtime, one of the most asked question is this.

They start with don't overthink or I have a question. What do you think of OF ? Have you thought of trying ?

No I haven't for context it's not because it's a transactional relationship. It's the creative poses etc.

Kuna watu with failed OF careers.

Swali ni moja have you thought about it ?

My cqs is low. I had gained Karma, but my post are being filtered a lot after I recovered my account. How does one increase their cqs ? I've being trying for the past week.

Najua haiwahusu but it’s time to mass produce some tits photo shoot for my roster.

I'll tell you what sometimes I feel like mamaa bear, big momma and I wanna feed them but anr is a bit risky with me being up and down everywhere.

​Hypothetically, Would you take it if she offered, can you suck if she had the milk? I'm just curious.

I want you to understand that I'm not talking about strangers I’m talking about prey you’ve been hunting.

I love it when he finally folds and starts sending his d to me without us even talking,telling me it misses me. It's fun and entertaining. I think that's the thrill of being young for a minute. They know I love it; the game is hot. Finding a new one, picking him out, and adding him to the cart is fun too.

It isn't always about getting it. Sometimes okay not sometimes, I love teasing and flirting.

My subconscious hates you more than I do.I had a dream while taking a nap. I have always pictured you as a lovely man, but today I had the worst nightmare where you humiliated me. I can't fathom it. My brain has finally built a fortress against romanticizing the idea of you. That was brutal. My entire being is telling me, 'Lady, nothing about you is sweet,move on.'

The moments we spent together were good but I wasn't meant to stretch it. I've tapped out. I was a fool, I was delusional fuck I feel like crying remembering the last text I sent you. I wish I resisted harder but what’s done is done now I have to erase your existence completely.

Thank you for the few days you had me feeling like the best thing that happened to you. Thank you for the few days that you alllowed me to exist as myself completely before you. I won't forget you. I hope I fall in love deliriously with the next guy and he reciprocates it. I'm tired of having to hold back and think about your pov.

I want to Thank you but it would be weird for you haven't texted back in a few days. God I hate to see you texting back. I hate you because no man hurts me like you do especially with the keys in my hands. This is what I was talking about you coming back each time I decide to let go of you. I hate your timings for they destroy me more than anything else. I don't block people but I want to block you for you are not good for me.

I had a dream while taking a nap. I have always pictured him as a lovely man, but today I had the worst nightmare where he humiliated me. I can't fathom it. My brain has finally built a fortress against romanticizing the idea of him. That was brutal. My entire being is telling me, 'Lady, nothing about him is sweet,move on.'"

I officially tap out Completely. The thoughts have been revoked.