u/Brilliant_Shift2023

25f

33 m

TL;DR I told my husband we don’t have sex or kiss or anything like that and he doesn’t want to have a conversation or acknowledge it so I think I will be leaving the marriage.

I have told my husband on multiple occasions I want to have sex more. We used to have sex all the time then we had a baby and I’ve been having emotional problems. Everything was still good in the beginning, then one day I just isolated myself from him stopped trying to have sex (he has ed and it was just making it impossible) we don’t kiss anymore we don’t cuddle we don’t do anything like that. He would always say I was sexy or compliments but When I stopped initiating sex there was no sex. I brought it up to him again tonight and he got upset and said we do have sex (no, we barely ever have sex) I said we don’t kiss ,we don’t do anything like that and he said I don’t try to kiss him or be intimate with him. We’ve been married for over a year and I think that’s the last time I’m bringing this up to him. I feel like after bringing it up multiple times with no change or concern from him that I deserve to have a relationship with emotional connection and physical. And I told him I will look for someone else. I might be wrong but I’ve tried to talk about it, he won’t. I can’t take it anymore.

On April 26 I had unprotected sex and I might have been ovulating. I got a Plan B on April 27. Yesterday on May 12 i’ve been having some cramping and I’ve had some brown and dark red blood.ive also been super nauseous when I don’t eat or sometimes whenever I do or for no reason . I took a pregnancy test yesterday that was negative and I took one a week before that also negative. My periods after giving birth have been around five days and they were February 13 , march 11, April 12. I don’t know if I’m having some weird hormones and I’m about to start my period or if I’m pregnant and it’s just not showing up yet.

On April 26 I had unprotected sex and I might have been ovulating. I got a Plan B on April 27. Yesterday on May 12 i’ve been having some cramping and I’ve had some brown and dark red blood.ive also been super nauseous when I don’t eat or sometimes whenever I do or for no reason . I took a pregnancy test yesterday that was negative and I took one a week before that also negative. My periods after giving birth have been around five days and they were February 13 , march 11, April 12. I don’t know if I’m having some weird hormones and I’m about to start my period or if I’m pregnant and it’s just not showing up yet.

Around 3 weeks ago I took a plan b and may have been ovulating. A couple days ago (which is a few days before my period I was having cramps and now I’m having brown discharge. I thought it was my fake tan but I put a Q tip inside and it was on it. I’m having light cramps but I haven’t had the brown blood before my period in a long time. Now I’m worried. I used to have all kinds of problems with bv and yeast and ureaplasma once. During my pregnancy and having my baby 5 months ago, I have had none of those. Is this normal could it be my period coming or some weird hormonal reaction from the plan b?

Around 3 weeks ago I took a plan b and may have been ovulating. A couple days ago (which is a few days before my period I was having cramps and now I’m having brown discharge. I thought it was my fake tan but I put a Q tip inside and it was on it. I’m having light cramps but I haven’t had the brown blood before my period in a long time. Now I’m worried. I used to have all kinds of problems with bv and yeast and ureaplasma once. During my pregnancy and having my baby 5 months ago, I have had none of those. Is this normal could it be my period coming or some weird hormonal reaction from the plan b?

25 f

5 mo pp

130 lb

Around 3 weeks ago I took a plan b and may have been ovulating. A couple days ago (which is a few days before my period I was having cramps and now I’m having brown discharge. I thought it was my fake tan but I put a Q tip inside and it was on it. I’m having light cramps but I haven’t had the brown blood before my period in a long time. Now I’m worried. I’m having some itchiness and cramping. I used to have all kinds of problems with bv and yeast and ureaplasma once. During my pregnancy and having my baby 5 months ago, I have had none of those which was a miracle for me. Is this normal? Could it be my period coming or some weird hormonal reaction from the plan b?

Also I did take two pregnancy tests both a couple days ago and they said negative,

When my husband (31M) and I (25f) first got together sexually it seemed ok. But after a couple times he couldn’t get hard or stay hard and idk if he was attracted to me or if he was just put under pressure bc of all the things I wanted to do/have done sexually. He would get super frustrated when he couldn’t get or stay hard. He got on cialis and it worked and everything seemed good then he couldn’t take it bc he never got a refill and he seemed to do ok for a while. Then every now and then it would happen again and now a year later it’s always happening like he will watch me masturbate, we makeout, he eats me out and he’s literally soft the entire time. Before we have sex and doing all I just mentioned he has to jerk his dick to get it hard and sometimes it stays hard sometimes it doesn’t. I’ve literally sucked his d*ck soft/ hard multiple times. I can’t ever cum because he’s never fully hard. When he’s asleep he’s hard when he wakes up he’s hard. But when it’s time to have sex this happens. It’s really annoying I’ve never been with anyone like this so I just feel like he’s just not turned on idk. He used to do hard drugs for years and fully quit everything but nicotine and I just don’t know how much more I can take he gets mad and jealous when I try to use my toys bc he just can’t do the job. Idk how to help him I’ve been here for him (probably not the best I could) but I’ve tried is there anyone who can relate to his side and is actually turned on like he says but can’t get up when it’s time? What can be done?? He’s always stressed tf out but he won’t take regular psych meds and they literally made his penis shrivel up and he said he couldn’t feel it on one the dr prescribed so anything natural to try? I feel bad for him I don’t want him to feel the way he does about this I just wanna hopefully find someway to help.

I had a hard delivery with shoulder dystocia and vacuum and a tear (not even a degree) At 6 weeks postpartum I noticed a lump covering my opening, freaked out. 2 doctors said it wasn’t a prolapse. One said it was normal postpartum changes the other vaginal laxity. So I got into pelvic floor physical therapy and I didn’t like the lady because she wouldn’t look or do anything. She would just feel the outside, so I felt like that was going nowhere. I am not shy about my body I need someone to look and feel and see what’s really going on. Anyway it got a little better but I’m 5 1/2 months pp and I still have a lumpy loose vagina. I want surgery idk what’s going on. It’s loose and soft and I can see all different lumps when I look while going pee. I can barely o during sex bc I can’t feel it in most positions and I barely wanna do anything bc I feel like it will make it worse. Has anyone dealt with anything like this? I’m completely just distraught, disgusted, and done with this.

At 6 weeks postpartum I noticed a lump covering my opening, freaked out. 2 doctors said it wasn’t a prolapse. One said it was normal postpartum changes the other vaginal laxity. So I got into pelvic floor physical therapy and I didn’t like the lady because she wouldn’t look or do anything. She would just feel the outside, so I felt like that was going nowhere. I am not shy about my body I need someone to look and feel and see what’s really going on. Anyway it got a little better but I’m 5 1/2 months pp and I still have a lumpy loose vagina. I want surgery idk what’s going on. It’s loose and soft and I can see all different lumps when I look while going pee. I can barely o during sex bc I can’t feel it in most positions and I barely wanna do anything bc I feel like it will make it worse. Has anyone dealt with anything like this? I’m completely just distraught, disgusted, and done with this.

So I was rocking my 5 month old baby and he did not want to go to sleep. I got cold so I got up to get a blanket and I was holding him around the butt and I was putting the blanket around my shoulder. then he flops straight back out of my arms, and I couldn’t catch him in time and he laid flat in the air while I was holding him around the butt. I looked at his face and he made a face that he will make when he’s laying down and he wants to try and sit up like an ugh face and then he made an uhh sound like he tried to pull himself up a little bit. I feel so bad and I feel like I just held him there and stared in his face, but I don’t know. I was literally in shock. It happened so fast we both just looked at each other like wtf? Has anyone else ever had this happen? I called his doctor, but they said just keep an eye on him which I absolutely hate because I already have anxiety and feeling like I have to watch him every second even closer than I already do gives me more anxiety. Just adding that he was still in my arms when he fell back. He did not hit anything or fall on the ground. I was holding him and he fell back into the air.