u/CancelThis2077

Long story short, I've (40/m) just started dating this gal and she is going to stay at my place for tonight. I have to admit I haven't had sex that much (last time was 3 years ago) due to my social anxiety. Should I try to get one off sometime before then, because I might orgasm too soon? I'm just getting aroused thinking about it now.

Am standing around on Market St in Ballard with another witness and an old guy who rear-ended another car. It's been about 90 min. and SPD still isn't here. I tried pulling up the SPD dashboard map to get an ETA, but nothing at all. And the old guy is threatening to take off and go home.

As someone who hit up the Phinney Ridge cafe on a regular basis, I am so excited!

40/m here, have always been dating-challenged almost all of my entire life, save for like 2-3 I've gotten deep with. The first time I've lost my virginity was to a gal I met on a social group in FB. She'd see the posts I made on the group, and she seemed very amused by them. Then one night, I met her one of our meetups. We talked for a bit, then a couple of drinks later, we started making out. Soon we were heading back to my place. The last significant relationship I had was 3 years ago. We met through good old-fashioned OLD via Hinge. She seemed to really like my humor, and then we kissed and held hands by the 2nd date. Alas, that only lasted for like 3 months. Other than that, I've been striking out all other times. I'd go on 1-3 dates with a person, and they ghost me or say they are not into me. I don't know how I managed to attract those very select few. It's a mystery to me.

40/m here. I work in corporate accounting & finance of a large dairy company, and I have to be at the office 3 days a week. On my last one on one with my boss, she complained how much I've been away from my desk, and how that reflects poorly on me when people notice and comment on that. I will say I do take a lot of bathroom breaks when I drink coffee and I have a small bladder. But I also like to step away from my desk, because my ADHD ass doesn't like sitting for long periods of times, and if I don't leave my desk I'll go stir-crazy. She re-iterated that I only have 30 minutes for lunch, and 15-min. for breaks. I've been here for 3 years, and it's never been an issue that she brought up until now, and honestly I feel ticked off.

I (40/M) have recently decided I don't want to stay in my current job anymore and throwing myself back in to the job hunt since 3 years ago. I've been working as a payroll admin, but now want to go back into accounting. I've tried hitting up Indeed, but I haven't gotten anything. Where are people looking for jobs now, especially in Seattle. Or is Indeed still my best shot?