u/CatAndBoots

Looking for poems written by women who are dead that can be used in a wedding ceremony (so uplifting and about love). I've tried googling around but the two categories don't seem to cross very often as I can typically find wedding poems written by men or alive women, or love poems written by dead women that are typically NOT uplifting. I'd like it to be by someone dead because then I dont have to worry about them coming out and doing something awful and having that with me forever, and I typically just prefer things written by women.

A year ago I started to read what I call "Girls Going Through It" books. I didnt want a quirky, not-like-other-girls main character. I just wanted your average woman, written by a woman, going through something. I've since started reading and collecting books in this category and my list as of now is:

• The Bell Jar, Sylvia Plath

• My Year of Rest and Relaxation, Otessa Moshfegh

• I Who Have Never Known Men, Jacqueline Harpman

• Just Emilia, Jennifer Oko

• Orlando, Virginia Woolf and/or Orlanda, Jacqueline Harpman

• Mrs Dalloway, Virginia Woolf

• Westward Women, Alice Martin

• The Correspondent, Virginia Evans

• On the Calculation of Volume, Solvej Balle

• The Natural Way of Things, Charlotte Wood

• There Lives a Young Girl In Me Who Will Not Die, Tove Ditlevsen (poetry)

• Patient, Female, Julie Schumacher (short stories)

What am I missing?

I get massages fairly regularly and I've recently been seeing someone who uses pretty intense pressure and loves to work out muscle knots. In some points this pressure is almost a sharp feeling, and it makes me feel uneasy almost similar to being tickled? And a slight bit of nausea, and then it goes away after about 5-10 seconds after she leaves the spot. Is this just too much pressure? The pressure is good elsewhere, just in some spots it happens, like I noticed it around the back side of my arm around my arm pit area. I also have fibromyalgia if that makes a difference.

Looking to host my moms 70th birthday party at a restaurant in the area for about 30 guests, but where guests can pay for their own food. Willing to drive up to 30 minutes outside WPB. Ideally enough space for everyone to walk around and chat with each other. Thanks!

My dad was turned into soil through Earth Funeral. He was NOT cremated so they arent ashes. I am trying to figure out if there is a company I can donate the soil to to be scattered in the redwoods or used for planting? I don't live nearby so it's difficult for me to do it myself. It seems like many of the tree planting organizations only take monetary donations. Any help is appreciated!

My companys IT sent out a fake phishing email where you needed to supposedly click the link to get a ticket for a free single chocolate chip cookie. My coworker clicked the link. Dude could've had a data breach for a little sweet treat