u/ComeAbout

I did search and I did not see this particular question.

I’m a friendly, laid back trans woman that mostly passes but you can tell. I just want a cheesesteak in a bar/pub setting where I would be not hassled. That’s likely most places, but it’s still scary for me. I’m traveling, don’t know the area, and don’t know if I should go out in “boy mode” to avoid the hassle.

FWIW, I’m an honorably retired, combat injured veteran with seven deployments. I can hold my own, I just don’t want any trouble.