▲ 55 r/trans

Is it ok to just try HRT if I’m not sure?

I’m 16, I’ve been out as trans to my friends for about a month, both my parents know now as of recently, so everyone I care about knows me for who I am. I think I’d like to start HRT, but I guess I’m not 100% sure. My best friend advised me to wait until I’m 18 to make sure I’m sure, but I know it’ll turn out better if I start sooner. Am I able to try doing it and maybe see how I feel?

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 day ago

Cis people ask, trans people answer😁

I’m trans mtf, and I’d like to answer as many people’s questions as possible

u/Destroyer2022 — 4 days ago
▲ 190 r/A24

Just watched “I Saw the Tv Glow”

I see what everyone meant when saying it’s a trans allegory. It was amazing, I think there was a lot of blue pink and white in the first half of the movie, and I really liked the part where Owen is wearing a dress, and despite being embarrassed, he’s happy. I thought it was kinda funny how Mr Melancholy not only erased all of the memories from his nemesis, but also gave her a new life and dysphoria for some reason. That was so evil for no reason lmao. Amazing movie

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u/Destroyer2022 — 4 days ago
▲ 27 r/trans

Just watched “I Saw the Tv Glow”

I see what everyone meant when saying it’s a trans allegory. It was amazing, I think there was a lot of blue pink and white in the first half of the movie, and I really liked the part where Owen is wearing a dress, and despite being embarrassed, he’s happy. I thought it was kinda funny how Mr Melancholy not only erased all of the memories from his nemesis, but also gave her a new life and dysphoria for some reason. That was so evil for no reason lmao. Amazing movie

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u/Destroyer2022 — 5 days ago
▲ 25 r/trans

How do I explain being trans to my little brothers?

I plan on coming out to my mom soon (already told my dad, he is very supportive), but idk how to tell my brothers. My dad said they won’t understand unless I find a way to explain, and suggested not telling them unless it’s important to me, and it is. I want them to call me by my actual name instead of what they know me as, but idk how to help them understand what it means. They are 9 and 11 years old btw. The 11 year old thinks in a very black and white way, but the younger one is more nuanced. Supportive town in general so I don’t think they could already have a negative opinion on trans people. Any advice on how to do this?

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u/Destroyer2022 — 12 days ago
▲ 6 r/trans

Is it normal for dysphoria to not be constant?

A couple days ago, I felt horrible and desperate to feel more feminine. I ended up somewhat impulsively cutting a shirt into an off the shoulder one because I really wanted something feminine to wear. However today, I was getting changed and I didn’t feel bad about my chest even though I normally do. I think I want tits, but sometimes I just don’t have that feeling, and other times it’s crushing. Is that normal?

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u/Destroyer2022 — 14 days ago
▲ 7 r/trans

Help with makeup please

My girlfriend just helped me try on makeup for the first time, and I really liked how I looked with it on. I wanna try it on my own, but I don't know what I'm doing, and I can't be with her every time because I'm 16 and don't live with her. I know this is kinda asking for a lot, but I need someone to tell me everything about makeup so I can know what I'm doing. Can someone help me? :)

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u/Destroyer2022 — 17 days ago

Question about hair

I really want to try growing out my hair, but it naturally sticks straight up in a 6inch tall Mohawk every morning. Will gravity take over at some point once it’s long enough?

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u/Destroyer2022 — 25 days ago
▲ 18 r/trans

Is it normal to feel like I’m faking it?

I’ve really put endless amounts of thought into whether or not I’m trans, and after deciding I am, I told my friends. I feel better now, but now I feel fake. I don’t really feel dysphoric as much now (I think), I just feel it when thinking about my name (both og and chosen) and thinking about what others think of me being trans. I do still have chest dysphoria, but idk what to about that, and I’m not sure it’s real somehow. Idk, I’m really confused.

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u/Destroyer2022 — 30 days ago

Accidental dysphoria from my friend lol

He was jokingly pretending (on call) that he doesn’t know me, and he was like “How are you Skye in my contacts, and why do you sound like a guy-Oh! Damn! Sorry!” Lmao, at least it really proves he sees me as a girl, even if it triggered a little dysphoria :)

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 118 r/trans

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

This is my first pride month as a girl, I’m happy to be a part of this community :D

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 171 r/lgbt

Is this pfp a good idea?

I’ve just come out gas trans and lesbian to most of my friends, and I was going to put this pfp on my tiktok, but my bsf and my dad both told me I should stop telling people I’m trans. My dad is worried I’ll get bullied and that people will treat me differently, and my bsf said that he only told like 5 people when he came out as trans, and I’m overdoing it by telling so many people. Should I not use this pic to stop others from finding out?

Edit: I’m in high school btw, I’m 16

u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 18 r/egg_irl

egg irl

Turns out I like lesbians on tv so much because I’m a girl! So I’m lesbian now :P

u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 80 r/trans

I think I figured out why I like seeing lesbians in media

I just figured out I’m a girl lol, which means I’m lesbian

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago

How would I actually start to transition?

I haven’t even told my parents yet, but my plan is to tell them, ask to transition, but idk what comes next. Should I tell my normal doctor, or is there someone specific? 16 MtF btw in America

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 110 r/egg_irl

egg😔irl

So I (16 MtF) just came out to a few friends after realizing I’m trans (I was genderfluid, but not anymore). I had planned on asking my parents (assuming they’re supportive) if I can transition some time after I tell them. However, my friend (also trans) told me that I should wait until I’m at least 18 just to make sure that I’m sure. I feel like I’m 100% sure that I want tits, but I’m like 90% sure I’m a girl, which is why I’m a demigirl. I think I want to transition, but he’s my best friend and I trust him, so idk what to do.

u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/trans

It’s like the mirror is lying

I only realized recently, but it’s always been like this. Whenever I see what I look like, I always have a small initial reaction of “Oh yeah, that’s what I look like”, and I guess I just thought that was normal until I used a snap filter on myself

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/trans

I just used a filter on myself :3

I just used a Snapchat filter on myself to see what I might look like as a girl, and what it showed me just felt so right. I can’t explain why, it just look more like me than I do

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago
▲ 94 r/lgbt

Some people just won’t change

I decided to argue that being trans is completely fine on r/conservativeyouth and no one had anything rational to say. I presented actual data to several comments, data saying that nearly everyone who transitions is happier, and the only ones who aren’t regret because of getting ostracized. They said that yes, the data shows they’re happier, but that doesn’t matter because they shouldn’t do that in the first place. Wtf I hate that. They treat their opinions as facts and ignore anything that contradicts their view. I haven’t seen a single rational argument against being trans (because there isn’t one).
This was a bit of a vent, sorry

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u/Destroyer2022 — 1 month ago