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I’ve been seeing 444 for the last two years.. everywhere but literally in the last months I’m seeing all the number combos 333 11:11 555 etc.. I’ve had the worst year so far from the best one last year. I lost my partner in a break up this year and just really on edge. Like the edge … haha I laugh but I came out of the hospital 3 months ago and I swear I manifested a life I never wanted. I have this gorgeous woman that I’ve never really talk to. You is completely obsessed with me and wants to have my kid. Not only that, I never really talked with her more than quick pleasantries. She’s a lovely absolutely gorgeous woman, but my mind and world are rocked. Than, I started seeing them.. what does it all mean? I’m waiting for the universe to reveal itself to me.

I’ve been seeing 444 for the last two years.. everywhere but literally in the last months I’m seeing all the number combos 333 11:11 555 etc.. I’ve had the worst year so far from the best one last year. I lost my partner in a break up this year and just really on edge. Like the edge … haha I laugh but I came out of the hospital 3 months ago and I swear I manifested a life I never wanted. I have this gorgeous woman that I’ve never really talk to. You is completely obsessed with me and wants to have my kid. Not only that, I never really talked with her more than quick pleasantries. She’s a lovely absolutely gorgeous woman, but my mind and world are rocked. Than, I started seeing them.. what does it all mean? I’m waiting for the universe to reveal itself to me.

If you were dating a single mother who remained friends with one or more of her exes, how did you approach that dynamic? Did you consider it normal as long as there were clear boundaries, or did it create complications in the relationship?

I dated a woman whom I madly loved—madly. Regardless of everything that happened, she left me under circumstances that I felt I had no control over. It was like watching my home burn down while being completely unable to do anything to save it.
I still love her.
I’m a Taurus, and we dated for a little over a year. We rarely argued—maybe only a handful of times—but she could be very controlling in ways I don’t think she even realized. For example, all of her friends loved camping, but she would only camp with them if they came to her campsite at her favorite park. Or she would sometimes use her daughter as a way to structure things or make decisions, almost like gaslighting, although I don’t believe it was intentional. If she was stressed or overwhelmed, I would sometimes start doing the dishes to help, and somehow even that would make things worse.
Regardless, I loved her. That will probably be the common theme throughout this entire story, because I really did love her.
The issues we had were partly connected to my depression, but there was much more context to it.
I wasn’t comfortable with one of her male friends. He was a DJ who would mostly call her to talk about who he had slept with that week. He had slept with married women and seemed to make a point of telling everyone about it. I eventually found out that he and my ex had slept together one night, and afterward, he ghosted her.
What I could never understand was why she chased him down afterward and tried to rekindle their friendship. I couldn’t understand how she could walk away from someone who had treated her so poorly, yet struggle to walk away from him.
That became the deal breaker for me.
I told her, “It’s completely your choice. You can choose to remain friends with him, but if you do, I can’t continue being in this relationship.”
That wasn’t me trying to control her. I was telling her what I was and wasn’t willing to accept in a relationship. She chose us.
We agreed on no contact and moved forward with our lives.
The only thing she was unwilling to do was delete him from social media. She didn’t think it was a big deal, so I let it go. But deep down, I knew that leaving that door open meant there was always a possibility he could eventually walk through it.
And for another nine months, everything continued.
Then came that fateful day.
His name popped up under “People You May Know.” I clicked on his profile, and while looking through it, I noticed that she had liked one of his comments.
I spiraled.
Looking back, I can acknowledge that I did. I had depression, and she would often attribute my reactions to it. But there was also a history behind why this particular situation affected me so deeply.
She decided we needed to take a structured break. She reassured me that after three months, we would come back to the relationship and reassess where we were. The idea was for both of us to work on ourselves during that time.
I remember telling her that I thought it would be better if we worked on things together. She felt that taking a step back would be beneficial—that we needed to step away from the proverbial campfire, let things cool down, work on ourselves, and then come back when things were calmer.
But something in my gut told me that three months might mean she wouldn’t come back.
I told her that fear.
She reassured me that everything was going to be okay.
Three months later, she broke up with me.
She did it on the first date we had after the break, sitting in her car.
I asked her to at least come inside my place and do it somewhere I felt comfortable. She refused, saying, “I’m not comfortable.”
And all I could think was: But what about me?
That’s where I am now.
I miss her.
And, honestly, I think I already know the answer to the question of whether she will ever feel guilty or reach out again. But part of me still wonders.
I treated her and her daughter with nothing but love and respect. Yes, I struggled with depression. Yes, there were times when I spiraled. But I also feel that many of those moments came from unresolved issues in our relationship—issues I felt she wasn’t willing or able to work through with me.
I loved this woman more than I can properly explain.
So I guess my question is:
Do Aries ever miss the good guys?

As for me I’m in therapy now and on medication. I almost took my life after. Mostly cause of past issues. She’s unaware of any of this and I haven’t told anyone. It was hard to lose her but even harder to lose her daughter. I loved them so so much and the sun and sky’s warmth and breeze have felt ever so duller since. I know never live for someone else, but it doesn’t make it easier when you lose those you love regardless.

I'm going to try a 7-day experiment inspired by Dr. Masaru Emoto's ideas about water and intention.

I bought a small speaker that sits in a bottle/glass and plays audio directly into the water. My plan is to play positive affirmations to the same bottle of water continuously for 7 days, then drink it afterward.

I know Dr. Emoto's work is controversial and isn't widely accepted by mainstream science, but I'm curious to try it as a personal mindfulness experiment. At the very least, spending a week focusing on positive thoughts can't hurt.

Would anyone be interested in trying this alongside me? We could all use the same affirmations for 7 days and compare our experiences afterward. No expectations—just genuine curiosity to see how it feels.

Anyone interested?

Quite curious for those who are in the process or have successfully or those starting. If you have " THE TALK" which is once your back together you talk about what went wrong or how you approach going forward?

Do you haver the talk? have you had the talk and is it worth having the talk? Be interested to know everyones thoughts

Quite curious for those who are in the process or have successfully or those starting. If you have " THE TALK" which is once your back together you talk about what went wrong or how you approach going forward?

Do you haver the talk? have you had the talk and is it worth having the talk? Be interested to know everyones thoughts

Hope to hear some good stories

So not sure on what to say..
All I know is I need to get out there and dating apps are the worst.
I'm pretty easygoing. I work with kids, so I spend most of my days being goofy, joking around, and trying not to lose at Uno to an 8-year-old. 😄

I'm getting back on my feet after a breakup, so just focusing on myself, staying active, and figuring life out one day at a time. Nothing too dramatic.

I'm easy to talk to though. Nice to grab a coffee sometime and go for a walk along the Stittsville Trail—low pressure, good conversation, lots of (stop look at that bird!!) and if one of us trips over a root, at least it'll make for a funny story.

Does it work? I’m a Taurus. Some context she broke things off because I was suicidal in my life once and suffer from depression from being mistreated my whole life.

It’s a person

It’s Friday and I want to celebrate 🎉 your efforts. Make this a place where gathered energy and thought aids in applauding your efforts but affirms your on the path. Like and affirm by posting something fun below as motivation to someone in the same place as you. You all got this and happy Friday!

Got you? good. I noticed in this forum and in general most the SP posts are female's trying to manifest their partner back. Nothing wrong with it, but want more comfort and a place where we can kick it and manifest. Let's get this reddit going just as bust as any.

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All seriousness I want to see some more men in here or make male only forum. It’s nice to see similar situations for males.

A month ago, my relationship ended.

Overall, I've actually been doing pretty well. I've been focusing on myself, staying busy, and trying different things to help me move forward. I've tried affirmations, visualization, and a few manifestation techniques. Some days are easier than others, but generally I've been making progress.

The one thing I'm really struggling with isn't even my ex.

It's her daughter.

Nobody ever tells you how hard it is to lose a child who wasn't technically yours. When you're part of a kid's life for long enough, they become part of your life too. Then one day they're just... gone.

Today I was walking past Chapters and saw a father helping his daughter put stickers in a book. A few minutes later, a mom walked by with her little boy and I heard him say, "Thank you, Mommy," after she bought him an ice cream.

And I completely lost it.

I had to walk away because I burst into tears.

I expected to miss my ex. I expected heartbreak. What I didn't expect was how much I'd miss the little moments, the routines, the laughter, and the feeling of being important to a child.

For those of you who have gone through a breakup where there was a child involved, how did you get through it? Does this part ever get easier?

Because honestly, this has been the hardest part of the entire breakup for me.

I've been experimenting with the whisper technique lately and had a question that I can't seem to find an answer to.

Sometimes, even though I love my ex deeply and think about her often, I actually have a hard time picturing her face clearly. I almost have to close my eyes and repeat her name a few times, and strangely, each time I say it, the image becomes a little sharper.

What's odd is that every now and then—usually right as I'm falling asleep or just waking up—her image becomes crystal clear. It's hard to explain, but it's like seeing a reflection in perfectly still water. Meanwhile, most other people I know, I almost need to look at a photo first before I can picture them properly.

This morning I had a dream where she was lying in bed, and I could see her incredibly clearly. Since I remembered hearing about the whisper technique, I decided to use the opportunity. In the dream, I walked over and whispered:

"Come back to me. You love him, and it's safe to come back."

I'm curious if anyone else experiences this. Why can someone's image be difficult to visualize most of the time, but then become so vivid in those in-between sleep states? Is there a manifestation explanation for this, or is there something psychological happening with the way the brain accesses memories during dreams and the moments around sleep?

Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences.

So a little context here I’m a Taurus . she is an Aeries I’m wondering how to approach her. Her and I sadly____, we loved eachother deeply and I’m hoping oneday try again but what works. When an Aries breaks up with somebody, do they ever regret it or wish to be with that person again and real hard hating question how would wanna approach to win an Aries back? If there was an approach this is the whole premise of why I wrote here. Any help would be greatly and deeply appreciated.