u/Electrical-Smell736

Hi,

I’m in a pickle and don’t want to be a forever 7. Is anyone around to help me out with derealize?

I play warlock and am trying to get a good build together but my biggest issue is making it through the jumping puzzle before I run out of time.

Build advice and a fireteam to help would be awesome

Heather the hysterical hench-wife here,

Hello you guys,

My husband, Harold, was attacked last night coming home from the iceburg lounge. He is currently in the ICU but it looks like he’ll make it through.
It seems like he was targeted by the 3 Comma gang. From what I heard some of his coworkers, this Comma gang has taken this city hostage and are obviously attacking those who oppose them.

Harold has been nothing but kind and generous to all of those within his community. I know his line of work comes with risks and he definitely has made enemies over his career, but he hasn’t been actively henching in years.
Why is he being punished for trying to keep the city safe? It’s scary to know that even he isn’t safe from these criminals.
Where will they go next? Will they go door to door hunting down jaywalkers?

If anyone has any information about this gang, that would be great. I gave up violence a decade ago but, I’m going give them a piece of my mind. No one hurts anyone in my family or ANY innocent families without repercussions.

Harold the helpful henchman here,

Due to recent events and the advent of many new vigilante squads, The henching union is creating a dedicated vigilante task force. Applications are open on our website and at all henching union headquarters.

You may be wondering “Harold, why is the henching union trying to stop vigilantes and protect the people”

Well, many henchman live here and have families in the area. I don’t feel safe taking my children to see the movies anymore in fear of an attack.

Yes, we are criminals but we have a code and it clearly states “All crime committed must be towards a power greater than the people.” Meaning: We do not harm innocent people unless given an unarguable reason. There are a few extremists that don’t follow the rules but I’m not trying to laugh myself to death so we leave him alone.

These ellipses and their gang of followers are a menace to our great city and a potential danger to families across the globe if this group expands.

I love seeing up and coming people within the hero/villain world, but you cannot beat up clowns and ice cream men without repercussions

“Just because you’re a bad guy, doesn’t me you have to be a bad guy”

Hey yall,

Number 1: I would like to take full responsibility on how my little lady is doing. I’ve been unemployed for almost a year and haven’t been able to get her into the vet outside of her initial check up.

I know that I’m a bad cat owner but I am doing my best given the circumstances.

The question: Is she too skinny?

She’s about a year old now and weights about 4lbs. She free feeds and has more than enough food. I’m worried that I fucked up good and that she’s malnourished because I’m poor.

She’s still very active and likes to play, but I’m scared that she’s suffering in silence.

Any help would be great

I (25 M) want to get better, be better, and take ownership of my life; but I’m a lazy POS that doesn’t want to put in the work.

I’ve been going to therapy/ psychiatrist over the last 6 years to manage my mental illness and to be better as a person. In those 6 years I have done nothing but devolve and self sabotage.

I smoke weed every day (on off days I smoke in 2-3 hour intervals after 5pm. I have an unconscious schedule that’s how bad it is), I can never see a project/ goal through, I can’t commit to one thing, I isolate myself out of shame, I play video games 24/7, and ignore the friends I have 80% of the time.

On top of all of this I am a genuinely miserable person to be around, which makes building a community/ social group. I don’t laugh at the appropriate times, my stories suck, I can’t talk to people I don’t know/ work with, I genuinely don’t have a sense of humor, and I suck at texting/ keeping up with people including my family.

As you can see, I know my issues and I know that these are things I can overcome, BUT I’ve spent the last 6 years avoiding myself and the work. When I do try to put in the work, I give up after a week or so. The only one that stuck was eating healthier which helped me lose weight (290-255). Outside that though I spend most of my time in a haze.

I had a lot of success in my career and then I had a mental breakdown and quit my very very good job. For as much success as I had I knew I didn’t deserve it. I never put effort into what I did it came naturally to me. The issue with that is I never made advancements and I know the lingo and can get around the basics of programming lights but I know for a fact I am a fraud. Even though I know that I still put out this ere of arrogance, superiority, and “knowitall-ism”.

Now I’m starting work as a landscaper. It’s not the manual labor that makes me sad, my previous jobs had been a TON of manual labor. The thing that makes me sad is that after 6 years of work I squandered everything and I don’t even care (outwardly) that I essentially gave up my life. That I’ve stopped caring about myself, my future, and who I am as a person. These are all true and now it makes me sad. When I was younger, not caring about my life was cool and “haha look at this smart kid just moving through the world without any worries” and now I’m a 25 year old guy with intelligence but nothing to show for it.

Sorry long tangent I thought context would help though.

I want to be better and I know I can. I’ve quit weed for months at a time (for a job), I used to workout (for a girl), I used to apply myself to life (for a grade). I’ve never actually seen the point of doing things for yourself and now I’m sitting here wondering why I don’t want to be better.

can I overcome this resistance to bettering myself? How did yall get over the feeling that taking care of yourself is useless? How did yall get over the feeling that even if you do all of this stuff you’re still the POS on the inside?

(25 M) My parents want me to move back home.

This past year I’ve been struggling but holding it down relatively well. I quit my previous job in November because I was dumb and had a mental breakdown. I struggle with Bipolar 2 and am usually depressed all the time so the crash outs are just about yearly.
From then on I’ve been working freelance within my industry barely making ends meet but holding it down. Currently I’m in a rough spot. The industry dried up over the summer and now I’m broke broke. I can cover everything but my rent and my lease ends in a month.

I had a bit of a crash out the other day and texted my parents about how sorry I am for failing them and that I’m sorry for being a disappointed. This spurred them asking/ demanding that I come home. “Home” is in a completely different state on the other side of the country. They moved immediately after I went to college so they’re not even in my true hometown anymore. Thats the big issue. They want me to move back in but I’m still going to have to pay all of my bills, but this time I’m still going to have to find a job in a city where I don’t have any connections VS having a freelance job and holding out until August, when the industry picks up again.

My friend is offering me a place to stay with no strings attached until I can get back on my feet and I genuinely believe that I can make it work if I stay in my city.

The only thing that semi-interests me is that if I move back in I can at least get an associates degree and move up to a bachelors. I want to do this and could probably do it in Texas as well , I’d have to take out a loan regardless and if I move to Florida, 1. I’m patient out of state tuition 2. Losing my therapist, friends, work connections, and a potential job in August.

I want to pull the “I’m an adult and I can figure this out on my own” card but I don’t want to burn the bridge when I truly need help.

If they lived in Texas then it would be an easy decision but they live in Florida, in an area where my industry basically doesn’t exist.

I’m conflicted and I want to make it work where I am right now. I think it would be detrimental to my mental health and my career if I moved back. I’ve told them this and they won’t listen.

Any advice? Should I stay or should I go?

(25 M) My parents want me to move back home.

This past year I’ve been struggling but holding it down relatively well. I quit my previous job in November because I was dumb and had a mental breakdown. I struggle with Bipolar 2 and am usually depressed all the time so the crash outs are just about yearly.
From then on I’ve been working freelance within my industry barely making ends meet but holding it down. Currently I’m in a rough spot. The industry dried up over the summer and now I’m broke broke. I can cover everything but my rent and my lease ends in a month.

I had a bit of a crash out the other day and texted my parents about how sorry I am for failing them and that I’m sorry for being a disappointed. This spurred them asking/ demanding that I come home. “Home” is in a completely different state on the other side of the country. They moved immediately after I went to college so they’re not even in my true hometown anymore. Thats the big issue.
They want me to move back in but I’m still going to have to pay all of my bills, but this time I’m still going to have to find a job in a city where I don’t have any connections VS having a freelance job and holding out until August, when the industry picks up again.

My friend is offering me a place to stay with no strings attached until I can get back on my feet and I genuinely believe that I can make it work if I stay in my city.

The only thing that semi-interests me is that if I move back in I can at least get an associates degree and move up to a bachelors. I want to do this and could probably do it in Texas as well , I’d have to take out a loan regardless and if I move to Florida, 1. I’m patient out of state tuition 2. Losing my therapist, friends, work connections, and a potential job in August.

I want to pull the “I’m an adult and I can figure this out on my own” card but I don’t want to burn the bridge when I truly need help.

If they lived in Texas then it would be an easy decision but they live in Florida, in an area where my industry basically doesn’t exist.

I’m conflicted and I want to make it work where I am right now. I think it would be detrimental to my mental health and my career if I moved back. I’ve told them this and they won’t listen.

Any advice? Should I stay or should I go?

[25 M] My parents want me to move back home.

This past year I’ve been struggling but holding it down relatively well. I quit my previous job in November because I was dumb and had a mental breakdown. I struggle with Bipolar 2 and am usually depressed all the time so the crash outs are just about yearly.
From then on I’ve been working freelance within my industry barely making ends meet but holding it down. Currently I’m in a rough spot. The industry dried up over the summer and now I’m broke broke. I can cover everything but my rent and my lease ends in a month.

I had a bit of a crash out the other day and texted my parents about how sorry I am for failing them and that I’m sorry for being a disappointed. This spurred them asking/ demanding that I come home. “Home” is in a completely different state on the other side of the country. They moved immediately after I went to college so they’re not even in my true hometown anymore. Thats the big issue. They want me to move back in but I’m still going to have to pay all of my bills, but this time I’m still going to have to find a job in a city where I don’t have any connections VS having a freelance job and holding out until August, when the industry picks up again.

My friend is offering me a place to stay with no strings attached until I can get back on my feet and I genuinely believe that I can make it work if I stay in my city.

The only thing that semi-interests me is that if I move back in I can at least get an associates degree and move up to a bachelors. I want to do this and could probably do it in Texas as well , I’d have to take out a loan regardless and if I move to Florida, 1. I’m patient out of state tuition 2. Losing my therapist, friends, work connections, and a potential job in August.

I want to pull the “I’m an adult and I can figure this out on my own” card but I don’t want to burn the bridge when I truly need help.

If they lived in Texas then it would be an easy decision but they live in Florida, in an area where my industry basically doesn’t exist.

I’m conflicted and I want to make it work where I am right now. I think it would be detrimental to my mental health and my career if I moved back. I’ve told them this and they won’t listen.

Any advice? Should I stay or should I go?

Hey yall,

My doctor wants to add Wellbutrin and sertraline to my meds. I’m currently on 300 mg of Lamotrigine and have been mentally stable outside of my base line depression and anxiety, which I’ve heard these meds will help with.

I’ve been in sertraline before and had an ok time but stopped it because I forgot about it tbh.

Do yall think I’m going to be fine or should I try to get a med other than sertraline?

Hey yall,

I (24m) am desperately looking for work. I currently work as an AV technician for live events, but the summer is dead meaning I don’t have a job until the fall. I’ve been thinking a lot about that lifestyle and I can’t do it anymore.

The issue I’m running into is that normal jobs (even the most basic entry level jobs) won’t hire me. A big reason is that I only have AV experience since it’s been my career since highschool, so I need to get more experience, but no one will hire me to get that experience. I send my resume and sometimes add a cover letter, and I try my best to come to every interview prepared. However, I either hear nothing back or get to the interview and I get to the final phase and then they chose someone else.

The most recent position I interviewed for was with a previous company. Since I knew my boss and the company, through the interview process, I was told “you have the job, I’m just doing this as a formality and I’ll get back to you later this week with an offer letter.” I banked my entire life on this job and even turned down a prospect because I thought I had the job (rookie mistake). Well turns out they’re liars and went with someone else. Now I’m screwed, been barely employed for the last 8 months, 3k in the hole, and about to get evicted with no prospects outside of moving across the country back to my family.

I don’t make rude comments, carry myself with professionalism, and try my best to put my best food forward during an interview; But I get the “your experience is great but doesn’t align with what we’re looking for” email every time.

I’m skilled with my hands, can understand and troubleshoot complex systems, and I have experience as a manager for a corporate AV company. That job includes customer service for high profile clients, managing time and teams to effectively and efficiently complete tasks, high attention to detail, and general admin paperwork like scheduling and job sheets.

I have experience, I’m a quick learner, and I’m a reliable person. I’m just down on my luck and am desperately looking for a job, any job at this point.