u/EllieElmoe

Heads up: No, I dont respond to dms. No, I dont want to be told "youre too young to date, go back to math class!"

Please only give detailed and thoughtful answers.

I am 17, female. I think its time for me to start dating seriously. What are some things you'd recommend, do's and don't If you will, to dating? When looking for a serious relationship, what are some things that need to be said up front? What are some red flags that you should always pay attention to? How can you tell when someone is about to waste your time? How to approach meeting people? I'm personally the type that prefers to stay at home (introverted) so how do I approach the possibility of having to talk to multiple people at once, though id prefer to not talk to anyone at all?

Question to the married: Where did you meet your partner? What was some of your deal breakers? How did you refine your standards?

Suggestions are accepted. Please be thoughtful and kind in your responses.

tldr: what are dos and donts of finding a good relationship that one must always follow?

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Heads up: No, I dont respond to dms. No, I dont want to be told "youre too young to date, go back to math class!"

Please only give detailed and thoughtful answers.

I am 17, female. I think its time for me to start dating seriously. What are some things you'd recommend, do's and don't If you will, to dating? When looking for a serious relationship, what are some things that need to be said up front? What are some red flags that you should always pay attention to? How can you tell when someone is about to waste your time? How to approach meeting people? I'm personally the type that prefers to stay at home (introverted) so how do I approach the possibility of having to talk to multiple people at once, though id prefer to not talk to anyone at all?

Question to the married: Where did you meet your partner? What was some of your deal breakers? How did you refine your standards?

Suggestions are accepted. Please be thoughtful and kind in your responses.

Hi, I need a friend. I am going through some things that are very rough for me, and I dont think i can handle this. Since I only ever have one friend at a time, I always end up putting too much emotional weight on them and they end up not wanting to be my friend anymore. It's a vicious cycle I'm eager to break.

I like metal, TON, Malice Mizer, and i play the bass. I'm female. I've been trying to get closer to God and pray more often, so it'd be nice to meet someone who is also trying to improve their relationship with God or already has a good one.

I like flowers, and nature, and I love animals. I'm a nerd when it comes to human behaviour, body language, and i enjoy people watching. I'm reserved, funny when I want to be and I am very artistic. I enjoy drawing and singing.

edit: Karma needs to be over 200. I may be hurting but im not stupid lmfao.

I'll start.

favorite earth sign: tied between capricorn and taurus. taurus for friendship, capricorn for lovers.

favorite air sign: Aquarius

favorite fire sign: Aries

favorite water sign: scorpio

least favorites: cancer, aries, (though, tbh, i really like fire signs mainly.) gemini, Virgo (i cannot stand Virgo.)

what about you guys?