u/Existing-Border07

I know that my chances are low lalo na galing ako sa malayo pero ita-try ko lang kasi beke nemen hahahaha

About me:

- 22

- 5'3

- yapper

- laughs a lot (madaming natatawa pag tumatawa ako)

- normal BMI

- student

- empathetic

- low maintenance

- always willing to go the extra mile for the people I care

- I love staying active if I'm not busy in school

Downside lang siguro is I'm from Region 8, kaya ko nasabi na my chances are low.

I'd really appreciate it if you are:

- open to long-distance friendship/relationship

(Meron naman akong relatives from Metro so baka sooner or later mapadpad ako doon, who knows lang)

- considerate

- emotionally mature

- honest

And lastly

- wouldn't mind dating someone mid-size or plus-size

I just sincerely hope you're someone who doesn't judge women based on their size. I notice some men here still prefer smaller women, that's totally fineee. I worked hard to reach a normal BMI pero still, wag naman yung bigla mo nalang igho-ghost yung tao pagkatapos mong malaman na hindi payat or petite.

Yun langgggg, sorry napa rant bigla hahaha. Anw, if this caught your attention feel free to send a DM then let's take it from there🫶

Napa reach out ako sa long-time crush ko to congratulate him on graduating. Pero tbh, lately parang palagi ko siyang nai-isip at ayaw ko ng ganitong feeling lalo na ako yung nag re-reach out hahaha. Today I saw na may pinost siya na girl na kasama niya, I'm assuming it's his girlfriend or someone he likes. But anw, I wanna get over him na asap. Ayaw ko ng umasa🥲 Any tips or advice?

NBSB girly here

I met someone who is 10+ years older than me, di personal pero we started communicating and I like how mature he is and how he expressed his emotions, experiences, etc. Early 20's palang ako pero siya mid 30's na, I didn't mind our gap pero siya pala from the start nag mind na, di lang sinabi sa akin. Sobrang bothered siya to the point na nag sinungaling siya na may asawa siya para lang di ko siya magustohan, ako naman na-offend ako pero naisip ko good thing nalang yun at nakalayo ako bago pa may magsimula sa amin haha.

Do large age gaps really bother you men?

Yearner ako dito several months ago but that changed instantly, after several situationships, exchange of feelings, getting to know each other, lambingan, landian, etc. I can finally say I don't want it anymore.

Lahat ng nakilala or naka usap ko kung hindi madaming problema, nakaka pagod, sinungaling, inconsistent, may sabit. I've had enough haha. Merong lalake na kailangan ng therapist, may lalake naman na libog lang ang hanap, merong inconsistent, merong sinungaling, at merong may sabit pa HAHAHAHA.

I say ladies, save your energy for yourself and for the things that you love. Hindi worth it ubosin niyo energy niyo kakahintay ng reply, maging taga pakinig ng problema, maging side chick, mapagod kaka isip sa nararamdaman mo at ng taong kausap/ka-situationship/ka-relasyon mo, maging kalandian lang, at kung ano-ano pa. Hindi na pala ako nai-inggit sa may mga jowa HAHAHA, bahala kayo jan

I don't know if it is accurate to call it "trauma" but I feel it towards the people who've hurt me. Hindi naman ako sinaktan physically, pero emotionally and verbally, oo haha. I've been on medication for almost 2 years pero pag nakikita ko ang mga taong naka sakit sa akin, or pag nakiki communicate ako sa kanila, I feel anxious and hindi ako mapakali. Tipong ayaw tumigil ang malakas na tibok ng puso ko tapos ang hirap ko maka hinga. Many times din nagka s* thoughts dahil dun kasi minsan ang feeling ko mas okay pa masagasaan ng truck kaysa sa marinig yung mga sinasabi nila kasi napaka sakit. Napa isip ako na baka totoo lang din naman ang sinasabi nila tungkol sa akin pero ang sakit-sakit pa rin kasi ini-invalidate feelings ko and there's no room for me to explain myself or even think kung tama pa ba or hindi ang sinasabi nila.

Anw, sorry for the long rant haha. Nandito na naman ako sa i wanna d*e phase ko dahil sa anxiety ko, and sana nga may maka sagasa nalang na truck sa akin haha

Lord patawad at salamat sa pag salba sa akin bago pa ako maging kabit HAHAHA. Sorry po kung sino man ang asawa ng naka usap ko, sana po mapag bigyan niyo asawa niyo sa gusto niya para hindi mapunta sa iba. Girls be careful talaga ah, wag mafa-fall agad at wag kayong gagaya sa akin na tatanga-tanga at madaling ma-attach

Lumabas lahat ng mura ko as a Waray🥲 May asawa nganiiiii