I am wearing new septum jewellery for the first time after getting it pierced and I feel really bonita! Jewellery is the shelly clicker by Tremun ✨ it’s so shiny😍
I got myself an opal top for my vertical philtrum too, so it would match perfectly
I just bought a new dress and I feel fabulous ✨ and I would really like to wear it casually and to work. If I never transitioned, I could just wear it fine and nobody would bat an eye, but now people read me as a guy (I am pretty feminine, but they still see me as a man)
How do you all do it? Honestly I am just scared of my colleagues thinking I am weird and also men in general
Hey ihr Lieben!
Ursprünglich wollte ich aus diesem wunderschönen Garn einen Chaos Cardigan häkeln. Ich wollte ganz viele verschiedene Grannysquares häkeln und sie anschließend diagonal zu einem Cardigan zusammensetzen.
Ich glaube, ich habe irgendwann aufgehört, daran zu arbeiten, weil ich keinen richtigen Plan hatte, wie ich mit den unterschiedlichen Größen der Quadrate umgehen sollte. Es wurde ziemlich schnell kompliziert. In der Theorie klang es einfach, in der Realität war es das allerdings nicht.
Drei Jahre später nehme ich das Projekt nun wieder in Angriff, aber stattdessen werde ich daraus einen Poncho machen. Das Muster ist viel einfacher und verzeiht auch kleine Unregelmäßigkeiten. Der Plan ist, die Quadrate zunächst zu vier großen Quadraten in der Größe des Quadrats auf dem zweiten Bild zusammenzusetzen und diese anschließend zu einem Poncho zu verbinden. Das Ganze auf diese Weise aufzuteilen, macht die Arbeit viel übersichtlicher. Es gibt einen klareren Weg.
Zum Schluss möchte ich den Rand noch mit einer süßen PomPom Border verzieren!
Dieses Projekt hat mir bisher so viele tolle neue Stitches beigebracht. Ich glaube, mein Liebster ist die Popcorn Stitch. Der gibt so viel Struktur!
Leider hat sich mein Farbgeschmack in den drei Jahren ziemlich verändert und diese Farbpalette ist mir mittlerweile zu blau. Ich hoffe trotzdem, dass mir mein fertiger Poncho gefallen wird.
Ich hatte heute auf der Arbeit ein emotional anstrengendes Gespräch über vegane Ernährung und die andere Person meinte, dass es ja alles so hochverarbeitet sei blah blah blah ihr kennt den bumms.
Ich hab nur irgendwie gar keine veganen Freunde mit denen man mal ein bisschen Lästerschwester sein könnte und würde das voll gerne ändern. Wisst ihr wo man vegane Freunde findet? Ich bin 25 und komme von südlich der Elbe, Raum Hamburg:)
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Moin! Ich möchte als Teil meiner Transition eine Sterilisation machen lassen. Ich habe bereits eine Mastektomie durchführen lassen und die auch von der Krankenkasse bezahlt bekommen. Hat jemand schon mal die Erfahrung gemacht, eine reine Sterilisation über die Krankenkasse zu beantragen und dann darüber machen zu können? Kann ich das einfach genauso beantragen wie die Mastek?
Viele machen ja direkt eine Hysto oder so, aber mir geht es rein darum, keine Kind in mir austragen zu müssen und dazu brauche ich keine komplette hysto. Das würde ich meinem Körper einfach ersparen wollen, weil die OP ja schon krasser für den Körper ist.
A few years ago 3 different piercers told me I don’t have the anatomy. Turns out my sweetspot is just super small, so I finally got the piercing. It was the easiest piercing ever, pain was like 0.5/10
Hey, I am not really sure if I belong here, I just found this subreddit, because I was looking for a place to get advice. I went no contact with my parents after Christmas last year. I said I needed some space, because honestly I was sick and tired of my mother setting all the rules and I didn’t wanna live up to her standards anymore. I wanted some peace of mind to make my life the way I wanted it, not the way it had to be. I didn’t go to her birthday in February and I know it hurt her, but I especially didn’t wanna play my part anymore and be the good kid fulfilling her expectations and her entitlement.
Well a few weeks ago I agreed to meet up with my parents and it was a hurtful conversation for me. I tried to be calm and not make any accusations or be rude or anything. I tried to explain calmly why I needed space and what I was hoping to go for in the future. I feel like my mother went into full victim mode, but I was not even expecting anything from her. Before the talk I made a promise to myself that I didn’t have to manage her emotions and I didn’t owe my parents anything. I kept it, but it was very hard. I feel like I wanna recover from the talk a little longer.
I said that I would reach out to them at the end of the month because they wanted to grab a coffee with me. They made it seem like we would meet up from now on every few weeks, which I am not ready for. I hope I‘ll eventually get to a point where I am no longer triggered by her behaviour and she can no longer push any buttons. But I am not at that point.
So the problem is, it’s the end of the month and I promised to reach out. I don’t wanna meet them right now, but I don’t know how to communicate that. Should I just set a date for a few months in advance? Should I tell them I need more time and disappoint them again? Should I stay silent and not reach out at all?
Moin! Ich hab grade meine neuen Inliner bekommen und leider ist an denen keine Bremse angebracht. Ist auch nicht so schlimm, ich kann auch ohne Bremse halten, aber ich denke ich hätte gerne eine. Kann jemand eine Empfehlen, die ich noch nachträglich anbauen kann? Bisher hatte ich nur Inliner, die bereits eine Bremse angebracht hatten. Hier ein Link zu meinen Inlinern: https://www.decathlon.de/p/inline-skates-inliner-damen-herren-3-rollen-freeskate-hardboot-mf-s-900/335134/c183c183c382m8654643
Hello folks, I am looking to upgrade my jewellery and I am looking for a titanium piece to go with my 10g / 2.5mm gauge curved barbell. Bodartforms sadly doesn’t ship to germany. I could order through my piercer, but I kinda wanted to order myself if possible. But so far I didn’t see much jewellery for larger gauge. Do you have any recommendations? Or is ordering through my studio the only option?
Initially I told them I wanted some time for myself and that I don’t wanna come over for my mothers birthday. Christmas was the last time I had seen them. My father called me after the holidays and asked what had happened on Christmas eve that I wanted to leave so fast. I had told him that I didn’t wanna talk about it, because I knew that my mother was sitting right next to him.
This is something that happens a lot. My mother will tell my father everything she thinks and feels and my father will just soak it up and tell her that she is right and it will all be okay soon. It’s like she speaks to me through him. She brainwashes him so he is no longer a person but a clone to her.
Anyway, I was talking to them today for the first time since Christmas. I wanted to tell them why I needed time and what kind of relationship I want with them in the future. Essentially I want to be able to casually ask them how they are and get a coffee with them of something. The mood was not good from the beginning. My mother was quiet and my father did all the talking, which was okay, because he is able to listen without judgment and allegations.
When I explained myself and we kinda talked about what happened the last few months my mother was quiet all the time and I pointed it out by asking if she wanted to say something about her situation. She followed up by playing the victim. Of course. She said that she is obviously the bad one and she can’t understand how I could take such an extensive break because she is really feeling awful about it and she cannot see our relationship going anywhere if I need breaks like that. She cannot change.
She also said I should just get a grip and i was too soft. And I responded by telling her that I am just learning how to set boundaries and I am becoming stronger when I take breaks like that and set some boundaries.
The talk was about an hour long and she never listened, because she was busy being the victim. And every time I tried to calmly explain what I want and what I need she kinda flipped it by saying I wasn’t listening to her needs and that’s the reason why she handled things like she did. So she blamed everything on me.
I just feel like going no contact again, because I don’t feel like she would ever listen without blaming me for what has happened to me. I don’t feel like she would ever stop judging me for who I am. I can never escape being the black sheep.
The saddest part is, that I would loose my father to her, because he takes her side. He was never really there anyway but we got a little closer over the last years. Today I felt like he was not really here, only the version of him tainted by her. Thank you for reading and sorry if I sound strange, English is not my native language.
TL;DR my mother plays the victim, blames me for everything she did to me and my father is somehow used as a reflection of her
My piercing is exactly one month old
They have implant grade titanium captive bead rings in them
Not downsized
For aftercare I let water from the shower run over the piercings for a couple minutes in the morning and evening. After that I spray saline solution and pat the excess moisture off
Events: I had the problem that the beads fell off so I went to a different piercing shop (due to my piercer being too far away) to get them fixed. The piercer tried to bend my ring and the ring snapped and pulled my piercing really much, so it bled a lot and I know one of the piercings is pissed because of that, but the other one was not affected.
What can I do to make the bumps be better? I have to walk around when I work and it’s so painful because I cannot close my legs. I feel like I developed some malposition of my body due to walking funny and my feet and knees and back hurt because of it