u/Fierce_planet

Guys,im just making this post to find people in similar situations and share out experiences for self comfort,its not to hurt or targeted towards anyone.

I am a 'M/25' having problem with my girlfriend 'F/25'.

So guys I saw this girl in my first year of college and I instantly felt only to marry her,its a Personal feeling so it cant be widely accepted answer to everyone,I told her that I loved her after a month or so when I buit up the courage,and I got rejected instantly lol,I didn't try other kinds of approach because I didn't want to build this on a lie and I waited for her everyday morning,after noon and evening alone in college, just to see her,I never used to approach her,just from a distance,in all the years we interacted maybe like 10 times very briefly,but I used to msg her frequently asking her to talk,im no way a nice person and I will not Potray it that way because I got detained in my 2nd year of college for backlogs and poor attendance and she knows everything and the college went by never getting a proper answer,I moved on thinking its life and discontinued college, I found a job 6 months later and am working rn cuz its india lol and she went to US for Masters,I thought it was over but thought to just wish her happy birthday one last time on her birthday and ask if she would like to marry me which I never said to her directly,so I didn't contact her even once the year later,she came to india after her 1st year there for a month or 2 to india,I absolutely didn't knew she was here,It was a Saturday and me and 2 of my friends went out for a second show movie and after we came back we were very thirsty and there was no water, so went out at 4AM in the morning to find some water,and for so long we could only find a single place,and when we were checking out ,she was there with her 2 friends drinking coffee, we both saw each other and didn't talk we waited for a few mins outside mataining a bit distance,they came out after a few mins and saw us and stayed for like 15 mins in their car and left from in front of us,I couldn't bring the courage to talk to her,and I immediately went home and put her a message that I want to marry her and its the first time in all these years she hasn't blocked me immediately,after a few days after sending a few more messages she replied saying dont talk to me and blocked me off,and ive created a new account after that and she has never blocked me till now after that,im sending her my daily vlogs like from when I wake up what I do to from when I sleep,I dont get any responses from the other side tho,she just makes her following followers numbers on insta profile go up and down accordingly to my messages and she changes Spotify recently played artists and comes online once on telegram while she sleeps,but never talks,and she also makes her close friends accounts open sometimes so I can follow them and they have some pictures of her in her Profile, but recently I stopped talking to her cuz she was sleeping daily like 1-3 hrs daily,thats what i made up from her last seen on telegram,so I said I won't talk to her until she sleeps and a almost 15 days passed and she made one of her friends Profile open,this was already open but I didn't follow her then and it had a post of a group of their friends going out in inter and indicating she had a boyfriend then,so I didn't mind it for like until now and after a few days I got mad and messaged him and his account is also changing following and followers numbers very accordingly everyday, im disgusted,I told her I understand you still have his account with you and this is how you are,then im leaving and I didn't even contact her for 15-20 days and after that I get a message from that guys account and she and I think other people were also having the account atm,and after a year she talked to me through there,they were calling me poor fellow,sales boy,ugly ,no degree,yake care of your parents all kinds of things and I handled it appropriately,and between all this she's asking me if I have eaten from that account, I felt very small not because of the words but the side she took,and I tried to explain to her its not healthy and its the one kind of thing she cant have and I forgave her and after 2 hrs of talk I thought this was over and it was not a hour in and she did it again from that guys account,then I unfollowed her,deleted everything of her and keeping my last self respect which is left ,I dropped this bs guys,Thank you very much for your Patience guys🙏,Great time to you!!!

Guys,im just making this post to find people in similar situations and share out experiences for self comfort,its not to hurt or targeted towards anyone.

So guys I saw this girl in my first year of college and I instantly felt only to marry her,its a Personal feeling so it cant be widely accepted answer to everyone,I told her that I loved her after a month or so when I buit up the courage,and I got rejected instantly lol,I didn't try other kinds of approach because I didn't want to build this on a lie and I waited for her everyday morning,after noon and evening alone in college, just to see her,I never used to approach her,just from a distance,in all the years we interacted maybe like 10 times very briefly,but I used to msg her frequently asking her to talk,im no way a nice person and I will not Potray it that way because I got detained in my 2nd year of college for backlogs and poor attendance and she knows everything and the college went by never getting a proper answer,I moved on thinking its life and discontinued college, I found a job 6 months later and am working rn cuz its india lol and she went to US for Masters,I thought it was over but thought to just wish her happy birthday one last time on her birthday and ask if she would like to marry me which I never said to her directly,so I didn't contact her even once the year later,she came to india after her 1st year there for a month or 2 to india,I absolutely didn't knew she was here,It was a Saturday and me and 2 of my friends went out for a second show movie and after we came back we were very thirsty and there was no water, so went out at 4AM in the morning to find some water,and for so long we could only find a single place,and when we were checking out ,she was there with her 2 friends drinking coffee, we both saw each other and didn't talk we waited for a few mins outside mataining a bit distance,they came out after a few mins and saw us and stayed for like 15 mins in their car and left from in front of us,I couldn't bring the courage to talk to her,and I immediately went home and put her a message that I want to marry her and its the first time in all these years she hasn't blocked me immediately,after a few days after sending a few more messages she replied saying dont talk to me and blocked me off,and ive created a new account after that and she has never blocked me till now after that,im sending her my daily vlogs like from when I wake up what I do to from when I sleep,I dont get any responses from the other side tho,she just makes her following followers numbers on insta profile go up and down accordingly to my messages and she changes Spotify recently played artists and comes online once on telegram while she sleeps,but never talks,and she also makes her close friends accounts open sometimes so I can follow them and they have some pictures of her in her Profile, but recently I stopped talking to her cuz she was sleeping daily like 1-3 hrs daily,thats what i made up from her last seen on telegram,so I said I won't talk to her until she sleeps and a almost 15 days passed and she made one of her friends Profile open,this was already open but I didn't follow her then and it had a post of a group of their friends going out in inter and indicating she had a boyfriend then,so I didn't mind it for like until now and after a few days I got mad and messaged him and his account is also changing following and followers numbers very accordingly everyday, im disgusted,I told her I understand you still have his account with you and this is how you are,then im leaving and I didn't even contact her for 15-20 days and after that I get a message from that guys account and she and I think other people were also having the account atm,and after a year she talked to me through there,they were calling me poor fellow,sales boy,ugly ,no degree,yake care of your parents all kinds of things and I handled it appropriately,and between all this she's asking me if I have eaten from that account, I felt very small not because of the words but the side she took,and I tried to explain to her its not healthy and its the one kind of thing she cant have and I forgave her and after 2 hrs of talk I thought this was over and it was not a hour in and she did it again from that guys account,then I unfollowed her,deleted everything of her and keeping my last self respect which is left ,I dropped this bs guys,Thank you very much for your Patience guys🙏,Great time to you!!!