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(Male, in my mid 20’s) Being raised in a conservative household I wasn’t really taught how to process with tough emotional things. With everything, it’s just be strong and tough it out. and I went through a majority of my life doing this with anything. It’s to the point where it’s subconscious and second nature to move past things and ignore the hurt. My parents still reinforce this idea, to where I’ll get screamed at for being upset about it.

This was my first serious relationship, with us both having the expectation of marriage and starting a family together. It’s not black and white, there was a lot of wrong from both sides, and too many issues and previous hurt to continue the relationship. So there’s blame on my partner but also myself.

So the advice I always hear is “let yourself feel the pain and don’t rush to get over it”, but how? How do I lean into this pain without falling into complete self pity/feeling sorry for myself? How do I do it normally and allow myself feel what I need to feel without overdoing it and being able to do it healthily? How do I find/know the balance between feeling it and not feeling it?

(Male, in my mid 20’s) Being raised in a conservative household I wasn’t really taught how to process with tough emotional things. With everything, it’s just be strong and tough it out. and I went through a majority of my life doing this with anything. It’s to the point where it’s subconscious and second nature to move past things and ignore the hurt. My parents still reinforce this idea, to where I’ll get screamed at for being upset about it.

This was my first serious relationship, with us both having the expectation of marriage and starting a family together. It’s not black and white, there was a lot of wrong from both sides, and too many issues and previous hurt to continue the relationship. So there’s blame on my partner but also myself.

So the advice I always hear is “let yourself feel the pain and don’t rush to get over it”, but how? How do I lean into this pain without falling into complete self pity/feeling sorry for myself? How do I do it normally and allow myself feel what I need to feel without overdoing it and being able to do it healthily? How do I find/know the balance between feeling it and not feeling it?

So I tried blender and meshmixer to fill in my STL but it just breaks the model or makes it bad quality. PrusaSlicer is the only one that actually fills makes it solid. However, thats just for infill. I was wondering if theres a program or something that can fill it in like Prusa then be able to export it filled as an STL.

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