To people who left their partner due to parent’s pressure, caste and astrological reasons.
I am just numb right now and I want to vent out. So my partner of almost 15 years (yes since 7th std ) left me dut to astrological incompatibility and his parents disinterest. His parents were against due to caste, and some pandit ji said we would have fights and downhill relationship after marriage. So his mother didn't want me due to that. I have given my life and all my years to him.
To every reddior, who has been through the same issue and I am sure there are several, who couldn’t marry the person they wanted, how did life turn out? Do you love the person you married? Do you think about the one you wanted to spend your life with instead? Do you resent your parents or society for it? Would you go back and change anything?
Lastly, are you happy?