u/FriendshipWithTheSun

I’ve always been good about not misgendering singers, but…

I’ve always been good about not misgendering singers, but…

… this one got me. I can usually tell without seeing the person if it’s a male singing high or a female singing low, but Lydia Kitto with Jungle had me completely fooled. Her tone sounds exactly like a man singing in falsetto to me (especially on the album version), so it broke my brain seeing a live performance. Still, if I close my eyes, I hear a guy singing in falsetto, lol. She has a unique tone for sure.

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u/FriendshipWithTheSun — 4 days ago

I was diagnosed with Asperger’s back in my 20s, but now, 20 years later, I got fully evaluated again since so much more is known about neurodivergence. The reconfirmation of ASD wasn’t a surprise, but my NP felt strongly that I should be tested for ADHD. I did a proctored test on a computer, and I failed with flying colors. I am still not sure what to think of it as I never once suspected that I have ADHD, but here we are. Add me to Club AuDHD, lol.

I guess that now I need to educate myself more on this specific combo. Any AuDHD folks on here have suggestions for resources to learn more? What makes us different from people with ASD? They seem like conflicting conditions.

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u/FriendshipWithTheSun — 17 days ago
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I was diagnosed with Asperger’s back in my 20s, but now, 20 years later, I got fully evaluated again since so much more is known about neurodivergence. The reconfirmation of ASD wasn’t a surprise, but my NP felt strongly that I should be tested for ADHD. I did a proctored test on a computer, and I failed with flying colors. I am still not sure what to think of it as I never once suspected that I have ADHD, but here we are. Add me to Club AuDHD, lol.

I guess that now I need to educate myself more on this specific combo. Any AuDHD folks on here have suggestions for resources to learn more? What makes us different from people with ASD? They seem like conflicting conditions.

Edit: forgot to add that I’m a guy. Apparently it’s not as common for us? I noticed that the AuDHD Women sub is significantly busier than the others.

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u/FriendshipWithTheSun — 17 days ago

Only about three months old, and starting to fill in. I am really enjoying getting back into this hobby after too many years away.

u/FriendshipWithTheSun — 23 days ago

Bought a single Assassin Snail (Hannibal) to help keep the Ramshorns and Malaysian Trumpet Snails in check (but not eradicated) in my planted community tank. The thing is, Hannibal seems to be afraid of other snails, lol. He winces when they touch his face and heads the opposite direction. Baby Ramshorns literally ride on him around the tank. I haven’t seen an empty shell since I added him. How do I get his goofy ass to do his job?

u/FriendshipWithTheSun — 26 days ago