u/Fuzzy_Potato333

Literally just want to post some fashion stuff, the most SIMPLE THING ever, and somehow I'm banned from several fashion subs. For even what? I don't know. How does this even happen. It's so annoying. Can anyone give me any other websites I can use to get fashion advice then? This place sucks and it's impossible to post in any community

Please and thanks

And how do you feel about it? A lot of you have problems with your partners finding you being razorfree disgusting but I have the opposite problem. And I actually kinda like it.

He is cool with all my body hair but particularly has a fetish for armpit hair now. He said before we met, he never had an opinion on hairy armpits, as he just never even really thought of it. When I first told him I wanted to grow it out full length as an experiment, he was open to it and not sure how he'd react. Well it turned out he loved it and now he is obsessed with my hairy armpits. Every time I shave them he gets sad and misses them. I really don't mind him having this fetish, as I'd rather he like it than NOT like it. I'm still a little shy about going out with hairy pits and that's the only reason I even still shave them sometimes but he is like the only person who makes me feel like, "HELL yeah - fuck everybody else!" and actually makes me feel hot with it. I know either way I shouldn't depend on a man's validation for how I feel about myself but it does make me feel good that he loves it. This gives me hope that we can rewire these mens' brains to not be disgusted by female body hair, one man at a time 😂😂

All I wanted was to make a SIMPLE post asking for advice because my sister is in a rocky situation with her marriage and I wanted to know people's opinions and what they think she should do. And apparently my post was removed for "not asking for advice" even though I literally said verbatim "I think she should leave her husband, what do you think?" ????? Is that me NOT asking for advice??? So annoying, Jesus H Christ I just want help

For context, my sister (we'll call her Melissa) moved across the country to be with this guy, Greg, as he's in the military and moves around. She uprooted her career, her housing, her friends, family, her entire life, for this guy. He is pretty much all she has in the state she lives in, as there's no family that lives there. She came home to visit for two weeks and they had arranged plans for him to pick her up from the airport after the trip.

Before she gets on the plane, they're texting each other, and Greg says he's got plans with his friends. She got really upset because she felt like he was prioritizing his friends over her and she was an inconvenience to him or something. He can play with his friends anytime, but the ONE day he knows she NEEDS him to pick her up, he has plans??? And why wouldn't your partner want to pick you up, wouldn't a normal partner be stoked to see you after being away for a while??? After this, then he says he's "too tired" to pick her up so he'll just call her an Uber. They got into an argument and she was very obviously not happy. She ended up texting their roommate, Ryan, asking if he could pick her up instead, to which he agreed. There are other problems in their relationship but this incident absolutely sent my sister over the edge so much, she was texting me and our mom, telling us she wants to divorce Greg. She was absolutely livid and feeling very sad, like he didn't love her or care about her.

Then several hours into the flight, Ryan informs Melissa that Greg was just joking and that Greg is coming to pick her up. We all think it wasn't a joke and Greg was just covering his ass to the roommate when Ryan asked Greg why he's not getting her. If it was just a joke, why didn't Greg tell her that himself? Why did my sister have to find out through the roommate? I don't think it was a joke but even if it was, that's just as bad, if not WORSE, because you knowingly put your spouse through emotional distress for your personal entertainment. She has already expressed to him before in the past that she feels like he chooses his friends over her, so he would know this would hurt her.

When he picked her up, they were very quiet and awkward with each other, neither of them were happy. They pretty much just stonewalled each other and barely spoke the entire rest of the day and the day after. He made no effort to apologize or explain himself to her. She ended up being the one to break the ice and start the conversation with him. She heard him out and is giving him another chance.

Was this situation not that big of a deal? Am I taking this out of proportion? I honestly think she should leave him. What do you guys think?

If so, what was it like?

I dated one and it was hell. For a group of people who are so desperate for a woman, they certainly seem to be impossible to satisfy. Their desires are literally impossible. He did not like that I was not young enough for him because at 17 I was too old, apparently.

Let me hear your horror stories.

How do you know if you love someone? What is love?

I doubt if I actually love my partner and my feelings are just attachment and codependency. Especially when people have told me I'm codependent. What's the difference between codependence and love, I mean, what do they look like? Can you love someone and be codependent on them at the same time? I feel emotionally numb pretty much all the time towards everyone in my life, like I don't FEEL "love" for them. I may like them or care about them but I wonder if that's about as deep as it goes.

I also don't feel love FROM anyone in my life no matter what they do for me. I constantly doubt their love for me, but that could be projection from me and my possible lack of love towards anyone.

Why are there acronyms for literally EVERYTHING? I don't understand what people are saying half the time because they're too lazy to say a few extra words. What's the point of communication if you don't even use words?

Saw someone use "STBX" and that was the breaking point for me.

That's it. That's the post

That's what someone I know said about me behind my back. I can't tell if this is malicious or not. I'm not diagnosed with autism, I just suspect I may have it. I felt offended by this statement, like it was meant as an insult, and the way it was said sneakily behind my back. My friend told me and the person who said that was upset they snitched on her, so that makes me think it was intended as an insult. It's disheartening how hard I try and make a conscious effort to appear normal just to get constantly torn down for being too shy, quiet, awkward, and weird. I didn't know what flair to use but maybe it fits because idk how to respond to this.

I have been underweight my entire life, including the time I was with him. Then when I split up with my pedo bf I suddenly gained over 40 pounds. This could be seen as a good thing, because I was happier and thus eating more, but also kind of a bad thing because it wasn't just because I was happier, it was also because I was trying to overcorrect how my body looked before and what kind of men it attracted. I felt insecure of how flat I was and being compared to children. I wanted to get bigger to appeal less to pedophiles. I have leveled out and lost about 15 lbs since my peak but I was about 140 at my heaviest. I hear grooming victims or rape victims will sometimes purposely gain a lot of weight to lose their appeal. For me it was just to look less flat and stop attracting those creepy pedophile men. It's really messed up how they affect how you see yourself for so long and can make you want to change your entire appearance. Apart from my weight I have just changed myself a good amount to sorta run away from what I used to look like and to protect myself or something.

My dad gives me cash for my birthdays because he's a guy and I guess doesn't really know what to buy for me. For some reason this pisses off my stepmom. He actually tells me, "Dont let her know," "She won't be happy about this", etc. It's HIS money so what is the problem? Is it weird my dad still gifts me for my birthday as an adult? I mean my bio mom celebrates my birthday too and gets me stuff too so I don't think it's that weird, I also get them stuff for their birthdays. She really thinks every birthday my dad doesn't get me anything - because if she knew, it would cause problems between them. Is that weird?

I notice that whenever I talk about my bad experiences with men, ie being groomed as a young kid, being catcalled as a child, my literal pedophile ex who traumatized me, I notice men get more angry at ME for talking about it rather than being mad at those men for being pedophiles. If you ever call out bad men's behavior or have a discussion about misogyny, they get more upset at you and perceive it as a personal attack. A while ago I was simply speculating that a huge underlying cause of misogyny could be stemming from deep seated womb envy and somehow men got really upset at me and thought that meant I was attacking all men and then started attacking me. I literally was talking about misogyny, not ALL MEN, but somehow in their minds it's like THEY believe all men are misogynists so if you call out misogyny you ARE technically hating on all men. They get EXTREMELY emotional and feel very personally attacked the second you start talking about misogyny.

At first the tooth would only hurt when I'd drink something cold or eat something hot, and then it started to get more frequent. The pain started to happen randomly even when I hadn't eaten or drank anything. It would come in waves and last several minutes and hurt so bad, and I'd just wait for it to pass. Last night I had the worst pain of my life, and it was a constant, throbbing pain for hours. Had a hard time falling asleep. Ibuprofen didn't help. The pain didn't come in waves this time, it just stayed. I had no relief. They did not see any cavities or anything in the dental X-ray when I saw them a few days ago. I woke up this morning and my tooth doesn't hurt anymore but it's still throbbing, and my entire left side of my top lip is numb. The lip is also swollen and projecting forward from my teeth, like I look like I have a Simpson's mouth 😂😂. What is this???

After I simply disagreed with a video where someone said "misandry caused misogyny". The men in the comments replied to me saying way worse things and their accounts are fine but I'm still afraid my account is going to be deleted because they have been reporting me for "hate speech". What does it take for your account to be taken down? Also I literally see pro Nazi stuff and blatantly racist stuff on Insta all the time that nothing gets done about, so maybe I'll be okay??

Sorry if this is the wrong sub, this is just the only relevant insta sub I could find. Tried posting in the other but my post was deleted, I guess for being "political"

I had three of my wisdom teeth removed in November. Two of the areas hurt really bad on the right side, bottom and top, every now and again, on the right side. The pain is not constant but occasional. It does not seem to be triggered by temperatures or chewing, it just comes out of nowhere. It is some of the worst pain in my life. It feels like I just had my wisdom teeth removed a few days ago. This pain only started for me about a month ago. It radiates through all my teeth on the top right and bottom right, and into my jaw and ear. My entire right side of my face hurts. Anyone else?? I thought I dealt with the surgery well and healed pretty well and then this hit me out of nowhere. I'm going to the dentist this week.