u/Glitch_The_Floof

So I got my septum pierced in December with no issues.

My only problem is that whenever I have jewelry in, my nose is runny as hell. But if I take the jewelry out, it stops running. I'm assuming this is normal but it's annoying

I met someone recently who doesn't like being refered to by you or your (For example, I accidentally said thank you but they didn't like that cuz it has you in it) but I don't know how to not use you/your if I'm talking to that person 🥲

My boyfriend sent me a thing on Instagram and it was cute, but it just threw me off a bit.

It said "The 'a' in your name stands for adorable"

But my name is Ike. I don't have an A in my name. But guess what starts with an A? My dead name. Was he purposely dead naming me? Probably not. But I don't have an A in my name. Why would he send me that?

I messaged him back, saying I don't have an A in my name, and he didn't respond. He just kept sending me reels. I just don't understand why he sent me that if the name I use doesn't have an A in it, but my dead name does.

I have an S23 (Samsung) and for some reason, the charging is really messed up.

Sometimes it won't charge past a certain point, usually around 80, but I woke up this morning and it was stuck at 51, despite being plugged in all night. Usually if I restart it when this happens, it'll gain about 10-20 percent battery but not fully charged.

Also, sometimes it will go from 50-30 percent to 0 out of nowhere and die.

If anyone has any ideas how to fix it, lmk

I have an S23 (Samsung) and for some reason, the charging is really messed up.

Sometimes it won't charge past a certain point, usually around 80, but I woke up this morning and it was stuck at 51, despite being plugged in all night. Usually if I restart it when this happens, it'll gain about 10-20 percent battery but not fully charged.

Also, sometimes it will go from 50-30 percent to 0 out of nowhere and die.

If anyone has any ideas how to fix it, lmk

I just wanna share this I guess? Idk why I do it, really. I guess cuz saying I use they/them pronouns feels safer than saying I use he/him.

Usually in my school's theatre program, when we start a show everyone introduces themselves with their name and pronouns. I always say my last name (which is the name I go by at school) and they/them or any pronouns. I don't know why I'm okay with people "knowing" I'm nonbinary, but I'm not okay with letting them know I'm a trans man. It just feels safer.

So I was at the dentist the other day cuz I was getting a few cavities filled and shit. Anyways, they were drilling out one of the cavities and it suddenly felt really painful so I raised my hand to get them to stop. They did stop, but I started sobbing because it hurt so bad.

So anyways, I was struggling to breathe because I was crying so hard. One of the dentists was trying to get me to calm down and take deep breaths while the other one kept fucking working, not saying anything. He wasn't drilling or anything but I just wanted to sit up so I could breathe and take a break, but he just kept doing shit while I couldn't breathe.

Anyways, eventually I did sit up and calm down and the rest of the appointment went fine, but it just felt insanely unprofessional. I'm supposed to go back in a week-ish to get another cavity filled but I don't wanna go back to him.

My boyfriend is coming over tomorrow and we plan on watching Guys and Dolls, because I've watched it a few times and the songs were stuck in my head. Anyways, I like singing with the songs but I don't wanna be annoying if I sing along with it.

Edit: It's his first time watching it, but he usually doesn't mind when I sing, although I don't think I have while watching a movie before so idk-

I've told my mom I'm trans before. Twice now. The first time she was more supportive and said she'd take me to a therapist because I guess she wanted to make sure I was of sound mind and it wasn't just because I hate myself? Idk. Anyways, the second time I told her, she basically said "You don't act like a boy. Boys don't paint their nails and wear makeup." I miss painting my nails and wearing eyeliner, but now I also hate doing it because it makes me feel like Im faking it.

The weird thing is that I also hide the masculine things I do. I've been hiding that I've been working out and that I'm using masculine deodorant. It's weird that I feel the need to hide it, because if she knew, maybe she'd believe me when I say I'm trans.

I just want to be her son.

I want to crochet a flag but I'm not sure if I have enough yarn, so I'm trying to use as little as possible. Would it use less yarn to do 3 rows of double crochet or 2 rows of treble?

So, this is probably a bad idea and I probably won't do it, but I'm thinking about telling my mom I'm trans again. I've told her twice now. This last time she said I was mentally ill, I don't act like a trans man, and that I just was acting trans to fit in. I didn't really argue because I was crying too hard.

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I want to tell her again. I want to try to make her understand that she's wrong. I want her to understand how much it fucking hurts and how I'd kill to be her son. I want her to understand what it's like for me, but it's hard.

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Last time we talked about it, I "detransitioned" for about 2 weeks and I stopped talking to my friends. I felt like I really was lying and that I was worthless. I don't want that to happen again, but I want to talk to her. I'm just stuck and I don't know what to do.

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