Hi all! 21 Crosstrek here. Super hot summer we got in the north east. My Crosstrek started to drip water on my driver side floor. Not sure where to check if the line is clogged?
Hi everyone,
I was very curious about the life expectancy for someone with stage 4 liver cancer.
My father 4 years ago went to the ER with pain. Ended up being a cancer tumor in his colon. Many surgeries later and 3 months in the hospital, they removed it, along with most of his colon.
After getting out he was diagnosed with stage 4 metastasize liver cancer from the original colon cancer.
My father went through almost 5 years of chemo. Unfortunately a few months ago another cancer tumor was found in his leg bone which required emergency surgery. His body could not really tolerate the surgery and especially the recovery. He passed a few months after that surgery.
From the very beginning with the colon and then the liver cancer, doctors really never told us , "he has x amount of time to live". Or told us how bad the cancer was. He went almost 5 years of chemo for every result to say the cancer did not get any bigger.
I have been so distraught from his passing. Then I think how he went through 4 years of the liver chemo and I know it was painful for him but he never complained. It's hard to find any sort of info on how long people normally live with it.
Hi everyone,
Recently I (m) had the fantasy and desire for my wife to either lick my asshole or finger/rub my asshole. I know most people will say to just ask her but I get nervous somehow.
I get this desire because she loves to lay on the edge of the bed with her head hanging off the bed while I face fuck her. I normally use a vibrator , or rub her pussy or kind of bend over her and eat her out. Sometimes she will pause from being face fucked while I'm rubbing her reaching her o, that I'm more standing over her face with my asshole wide open for her to either lick, or play with her fingers in the heat of the moment. Not really sure if she would be into it though. I do try to get my asshole closer and closer each time to test the waters on if she would be interested.
Anything I could do or say in the moment to suggest it?
Hi everyone,
Recently I (m) had the fantasy and desire for my wife to either lick my asshole or finger/rub my asshole. I know most people will say to just ask her but I get nervous somehow.
I get this desire because she loves to lay on the edge of the bed with her head hanging off the bed while I face fuck her. I normally use a vibrator , or rub her pussy or kind of bend over her and eat her out. Sometimes she will pause from being face fucked while I'm rubbing her reaching her o, that I'm more standing over her face with my asshole wide open for her to either lick, or play with her fingers in the heat of the moment. Not really sure if she would be into it though. I do try to get my asshole closer and closer each time to test the waters on if she would be interested.
Anything I could do or say in the moment to suggest it?
Hi everyone. I come to this subreddit to try and understand kidney disease/failing/death.
My father about 4 years ago went to the ER because he could not go to the bathroom. Ends up a large cancer tumor was in his colon. Surgery to remove it, along with most of his colon and spleen. It was a scary situation and he spent over a month in the hospital. He was in rough shape and had to live with a bag forever now. His and our lives changed.
After the hospital the colon cancer got to his liver. The plan was to do chemo. 3 years of chemo for my bad. Good and bad days.
A few months ago he had major pain in his leg. It got so bad to a point he couldn't not work. Fee scans later it showed another large tumor on his femur bone. They stopped his chemo to fast track a surgery to remove it. It was a large surgery to remove the mass, plates and screws went into his leg. Recovering from this surgery was going to be very tough. He was recovering for about 2 months and he started to get major pain and sickly. It got to a point his recovery was very bad he was sleeping a large amount of the day and felt very ill. Went to the hospital for him and he was very dehydrated and all his numbers were very low. Went into the ICU. 2 days later in the ICU and he's on blood pressure IV drips and felt amazing. He was talking to us all like nothing happened, ate 4 meals on day 2 in the ICU.
Day 3 comes by and doctors tell us his kidneys are failing. The blood pressure medicine couldn't fix it. He was awake, but couldn't really understand anything and had that famous death stare. The end of day 3 and 4 he was so out of it and was not on any pain meds, he started to say his pain was a 10/10 from anything, touching, poking with IVs, ect. Other than that he still couldn't understand or answer too much, everything was either not answered or very delayed with a simple yes or no answer.
Day 5 he couldn't stay awake at all and was sleeping 20+ hours. He would wake up but would not know who was in the room or anything.
Day 6 they asked us if we wanted to stop all medicine and just make him comfortable as there was nothing that could be done with his kidneys failing. We stopped all medicine besides pain meds.
His blood pressure dropped so low the monitors could not read it no longer. The morning of day 7 he passed away.
A lot of doctors and nurses told us dying from kidney failure is peaceful. In fact, it was for him, the last 2 days he never woke up, passed away while sleeping.
What I don't understand and want to know more is why he was suddenly in so much pain, just touching him was painful.
My personal take on him was he was always in somewhat pain, doing the leg surgery to remove the bone cancer, his body couldn't handle it. His kidneys were failing every since then and there was no recovering from it
Hi everyone. I come to this subreddit to try and understand kidney disease/failing/death.
My father about 4 years ago went to the ER because he could not go to the bathroom. Ends up a large cancer tumor was in his colon. Surgery to remove it, along with most of his colon and spleen. It was a scary situation and he spent over a month in the hospital. He was in rough shape and had to live with a bag forever now. His and our lives changed.
After the hospital the colon cancer got to his liver. The plan was to do chemo. 3 years of chemo for my bad. Good and bad days.
A few months ago he had major pain in his leg. It got so bad to a point he couldn't not work. Fee scans later it showed another large tumor on his femur bone. They stopped his chemo to fast track a surgery to remove it. It was a large surgery to remove the mass, plates and screws went into his leg. Recovering from this surgery was going to be very tough. He was recovering for about 2 months and he started to get major pain and sickly. It got to a point his recovery was very bad he was sleeping a large amount of the day and felt very ill. Went to the hospital for him and he was very dehydrated and all his numbers were very low. Went into the ICU. 2 days later in the ICU and he's on blood pressure IV drips and felt amazing. He was talking to us all like nothing happened, ate 4 meals on day 2 in the ICU.
Day 3 comes by and doctors tell us his kidneys are failing. The blood pressure medicine couldn't fix it. He was awake, but couldn't really understand anything and had that famous death stare. The end of day 3 and 4 he was so out of it and was not on any pain meds, he started to say his pain was a 10/10 from anything, touching, poking with IVs, ect. Other than that he still couldn't understand or answer too much, everything was either not answered or very delayed with a simple yes or no answer.
Day 5 he couldn't stay awake at all and was sleeping 20+ hours. He would wake up but would not know who was in the room or anything.
Day 6 they asked us if we wanted to stop all medicine and just make him comfortable as there was nothing that could be done with his kidneys failing. We stopped all medicine besides pain meds.
His blood pressure dropped so low the monitors could not read it no longer. The morning of day 7 he passed away.
A lot of doctors and nurses told us dying from kidney failure is peaceful. In fact, it was for him, the last 2 days he never woke up, passed away while sleeping.
What I don't understand and want to know more is why he was suddenly in so much pain, just touching him was painful.
My personal take on him was he was always in somewhat pain, doing the leg surgery to remove the bone cancer, his body couldn't handle it. His kidneys were failing every since then and there was no recovering from it
Hi all,
My father had a ton of medical issues 4 years back that changed his and our life.
Colon cancer that they had to remove his colon, spleen. Lived with a bag until the end.
Fast forward 4 years and actively going to chemo for 3 years since it spread to his liver. He had to get another surgery to remove another cancer mass on his leg, which the pain got so badly he couldn't walk.
2 months after that surgery he was not doing well recovering at home, sleeping 20+ hours and hardly doing anything, he looked very very ill.
Went to the hospital where they put him in the ICU. 2 days in and he looked and sounded amazing. He had 2 big meals on day 2 of ICU. Day 3 changed completely . He couldn't stay awake, when he was he would say how much pain and weak he was. He couldn't lift his arms and couldn't text he kept saying. Doctors told us his kidneys are failing, it was only a matter of time. Whatever cancer he had took over his body and put him in so much pain.
He would wake up randomly and not really be alert, no idea what was going on and couldn't really respond or comprehend anything anymore. He was completely gone. I went from having a normal covo about his 2 big meals to him being incoherent. Day 3 he was able to kind of say very very slowly and delayed that he can't drink anything to take meds.
4 days later he . He hasn't really been awake since day 2 and if he was, he just had that blank death stare. Couldn't have any serious talks with him at all. Just tell him we are going to have them give you pain meds, ect. He couldn't respond too much.
Day 5 he would ask for water with his fingers, with a dipping motion. We used a sponge in a water cup to place in his mouth. At the end of day 5 they told us to not leave as it would be soon.
At the end of day 5 is where my questions are. He was sleeping 24/7 and loaded with pain meds. He was super animated, flaying his arms in the air in his sleep and actually was mumbling stuff. Couldn't really understand what it was. We didn't one point hear and understand him as he was reaching out and he said to pull him up as he reached out, which we did.
He was so animated they asked if we wanted to him any anti anxiety medicine to give him less anxiety as he passes, which we said yes. Once he had that he never really moved again.
10 hours went by and he passed peacefully with us all in the room.
I did a ton of reading from books like "gone from my sight" and others like that booklet to help understand the process near the end, especially with reaching. I know there is science behind it with the brain getting less oxygen, but at the same time I like to believe it's them reaching to be passed.
Does anyone have any insight or past experience with this? I'd love to hear
Hi all,
My father had a ton of medical issues 4 years back that changed his and our life.
Colon cancer that they had to remove his colon, spleen. Lived with a bag until the end.
Fast forward 4 years and actively going to chemo for 3 years since it spread to his liver. He had to get another surgery to remove another cancer mass on his leg, which the pain got so badly he couldn't walk.
2 months after that surgery he was not doing well recovering at home, sleeping 20+ hours and hardly doing anything, he looked very very ill.
Went to the hospital where they put him in the ICU. 2 days in and he looked and sounded amazing. He had 2 big meals on day 2 of ICU. Day 3 changed completely . He couldn't stay awake, when he was he would say how much pain and weak he was. He couldn't lift his arms and couldn't text he kept saying. Doctors told us his kidneys are failing, it was only a matter of time. Whatever cancer he had took over his body and put him in so much pain.
He would wake up randomly and not really be alert, no idea what was going on and couldn't really respond or comprehend anything anymore. He was completely gone. I went from having a normal covo about his 2 big meals to him being incoherent. Day 3 he was able to kind of say very very slowly and delayed that he can't drink anything to take meds.
4 days later he . He hasn't really been awake since day 2 and if he was, he just had that blank death stare. Couldn't have any serious talks with him at all. Just tell him we are going to have them give you pain meds, ect. He couldn't respond too much.
Day 5 he would ask for water with his fingers, with a dipping motion. We used a sponge in a water cup to place in his mouth. At the end of day 5 they told us to not leave as it would be soon.
At the end of day 5 is where my questions are. He was sleeping 24/7 and loaded with pain meds. He was super animated, flaying his arms in the air in his sleep and actually was mumbling stuff. Couldn't really understand what it was. We didn't one point hear and understand him as he was reaching out and he said to pull him up as he reached out, which we did.
He was so animated they asked if we wanted to him any anti anxiety medicine to give him less anxiety as he passes, which we said yes. Once he had that he never really moved again.
10 hours went by and he passed peacefully with us all in the room.
I did a ton of reading from books like "gone from my sight" and others like that booklet to help understand the process near the end, especially with reaching. I know there is science behind it with the brain getting less oxygen, but at the same time I like to believe it's them reaching to be passed.
Does anyone have any insight or past experience with this? I'd love to hear
Hi everyone,
Fairly new home owner. Recently had a storm make my 4 original basement windows fail and have the basement flood.
Had to get my contractor emergency remove water and replace the windows. Due to the nature of how the old windows were installed, my contractor had to do a lot extra to fix and place new windows in. The price pretty much doubled. I have a very good contractor and trust his judgement and pricing. He has done work on my entire house.
Anyway, he told me to file under insurance for this issue to maybe get some money back. I filed a claim, had all my invoices from him. An adjuster came by mid window replacement to review and take photos of it all.
2 weeks go by and my new windows are in. Insurance gets back to me saying how the windows are old and the damage is wear and tear and will not cover anything. My wife and I are extremely disappointed and taken back as this is our 1st house and thought this would be covered since when we bought the house, the insurance company came by to inspect our house before insurancing us. Told us one thing we needed to get installed for the house before they could insure us. So we got it and we got our policy. They never mentioned anything about our windows being old or anything.
We never had any leaks in the basement from these windows until this one storm. I tried to ask them to reconsider since we never had any issues and blah blah.
It's extremely discouraging and we are at a loss of words on what we could do, if anything at all.
Hi all!
I have a schlage encode smart lock on my front door.
I lost the actual physical key for the lock. Is there anyway to get a replacement key?
Hi everyone,
For YEARS I have been wanting a peloton. I finally saved enough to buy a used bike+. Came with all the extras, matt, shoes, weights, bands.
Got 2 months free and had to pay the $95 activation fee.
My screen was so laggy, hard to touch in spots and scroll.
Ends up my screen has so many dead spots. Was told I need to buy a new $650 screen! UGH.
I am at a LOSS of words.
Hi all! I partake in smoking/taking an edible maybe once a month.
A friend recently gave me a thc drink called nowadays. It's a tall can that has 10thc per can.
It says delta thc on them. I've never had a thc drink before. These actually work?
Selling 2 tix to nyc 7/31 2pm. Row k.
70mm
Selling 2 tix to nyc 7/31 2pm. Row k.
Selling 2 tix to nyc 7/31 2pm. Row k.
Selling 2 tix to nyc 7/31 2pm. Row k, dead center.
Selling 2 tix to nyc 7/31 2pm. Row k, dead center
Selling 2 tickets to 7/22 6pm and 7/31 2pm
Both at Lincoln square iMax 70mm
Selling 2 tickets to 7/22 6pm and 7/31 2pm
Both at Lincoln square iMax 70mm
Selling 2 tickets to 7/22 6pm and 7/31 2pm
Both at Lincoln square iMax 70mm