I just don't know what to say anymore.. I've tried and nothing works, no matter what I do or say it's all the same, it's like I instantly repel women the moment I speak. Acting positive and expressive just feels so fake it's like I have to be something I'm not all the time.
Please let me know if I should make any adjustments, I'll be getting my scorpling in about 3 weeks or so. I know humidity shows up as low on the hygrometer right now but I'm working on it. Thanks!
I feel like I fumble every interaction I have with women and as a result I get ghosted and rejected all the time. I act really awkward and sort of try too hard and all that does is not being taken seriously as a result.
A more recent example I met someone at a reptile expo and I even got her socials. I felt like we had quite a lot in common we were both artists, "geeks' and obviously into exotic animals, she even seemed to take interest initially but admittedly I got a little shy towards the end when she asked if she can see my art, but I've showed her some of my work anyway.
And as expected she was hardly replying over text over the next few days and pretty much vanished when I asked her to grab a cup of coffee together.
I feel like there's something big I'm missing when it comes to establishing attraction and I'm just clueless about it. I've asked friends who are far more skilled at dating what's the deal and they just seem to "know" instinctively what to say to women.
Has anyone else experienced investing emotionally in someone far too early on and having strong feelings to not receiving a reply back ASAP? I feel like my intensity makes others back off easily and this anxious attachment style is likely the source of my failure in romance. Does this have any correlation whatsoever to ADHD?