We've been friends for about a year and a half. We became friend friends in the last few weeks of senior year but we still aren't close friends yk?

I'll admit I'm a very promiscuous person, I've slept with a some of my friends and many strangers, basically all my friends know this including her. I'll call her Carol since thats easier. Carol is well aware of my dating life, she'll joke about it sometimes and she's asked for the details about it before.

She also knows I'm bisexual, but I don't think she knew about my male preference before this.

Last night we were sending each other tiktoks and all that junk when she starts sending more couple-y videos. Idk what else to call them, but it was stuff like videos of two cats cuddling captioned "us?" and "your initial + your crushes initial." It was all so cheesy 😭 I didn't take it seriously so I just sent her that one drawing of uncle grampa after the creator learned the show was canceled.

She got really upset at that, started name calling me, just a whole lot of crap honestly. Carol then says some absolute bullshit about how "i have no right to reject her since I'm such a shallow man wh*re." Ngl that does piss me off so I tell her that I'm barely into women, let alone into her, and that she needs to get her tits out of a twist.

I shut off notifications from her and went to bed, and honestly I forgot about Carol until a different friend texted me asking about it all. I tell him about my side of things, and he tells me I fumbled the bag 💀 and if I was gonna say no I should've done it nicer.

Idc about the fumbling part but I was thinking maybe I could've handled it better or picked up on the bomb of a hint she was dropping ig

AITAH for rejecting my friend in a harsh way?

edit for added context:

1. this is how we joke, it's not uncommon for either of us to over exaggerate and joke about that kind of stuff (in reference to the pic I sent

2. there were no other hints before this, the random videos were the first time shes sent stuff like that to me. I wrongly assumed she was a part of a different inside joke with mutual friends who act lovey dovey towards me to purposefully get a reaction out of me. she clearly wasn't doing that bit

I honestly think marrige is completely unnecessary

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I support polyamory and im currently in a poly relationship

definition:

polyamory is dating multiple people at the same time with everyones concent and knowledge

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definitions in case you don't know what any of the title means

aromantic: I feel very little romantic attraction to other people

bisexual: I'm into men and woman

polyamorus: i date multiple people at the same time with everyone's consent and knowledge