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Lets say you are in an arranged marriage market , and you belong to middle class , or just around upper middle class or even upper class. Like you live in 10 marla or one kanal house in a decent area. You have a yaris or corrolla at home , went to good school in pakistan and got a degree.

The guy is 5 feet 11 , has head full of hair , never smoked , has a healthy body , but the guy is in his mid 30s

Lets say you came to know via social media or you assumed he has a strong physique from his looks , or some how the guy told you in a non awkward way that he can bench press 100 kilos for reps , this statistic puts him in the top 2 or 3 percent of men alone.

Would his physical strength attract you ?

Looks wise the guy is decent , has a well defined physique looks wise in clothes , broad shoulders. Income wise is also good/normal ( maybe 3 lakh in pakistan , but if he moves to middle east he has much higher earning potential ) , has 10 marla parents house and city or yaris car.

Would you consider him for a rishta in the arranged market ?

Lets say you are in an arranged marriage market , and you belong to middle class , or just around upper middle class or even upper class. Like you live in 10 marla or one kanal house in a decent area. You have a yaris or corrolla at home , went to good school in pakistan and got a degree.

The guy is 5 feet 11 , has head full of hair , never smoked , has a healthy body , but the guy is in his mid 30s

Lets say you came to know via social media or you assumed he has a strong physique from his looks , or some how the guy told you in a non awkward way that he can bench press 100 kilos for reps , this statistic puts him in the top 2 or 3 percent of men alone.

Would his physical strength attract you ?

Looks wise the guy is decent , has a well defined physique looks wise in clothes , broad shoulders. Income wise is also good/normal ( maybe 3 lakh in pakistan , but if he moves to middle east he has much higher earning potential ) , has 10 marla parents house and city or yaris car.

Would you consider him for a rishta in the arranged market ?

Lets say you are in an arranged marriage market , and you belong to middle class , or just around upper middle class or even upper class. Like you live in 10 marla or one kanal house in a decent area. You have a yaris or corrolla at home , went to good school in pakistan and got a degree.

The guy is 5 feet 11 , has head full of hair , never smoked , has a healthy body , but the guy is in his mid 30s

Lets say you came to know via social media or you assumed he has a strong physique from his looks , or some how the guy told you in a non awkward way that he can bench press 100 kilos for reps , this statistic puts him in the top 2 or 3 percent of men alone.

Would his physical strength attract you ?

Looks wise the guy is decent , has a well defined physique looks wise in clothes , broad shoulders. Income wise is also good/normal ( maybe 3 lakh in pakistan , but if he moves to middle east he has much higher earning potential ) , has 10 marla parents house and city or yaris car.

Would you consider him for a rishta in the arranged market ?

Would you move to the west if given the chance ?

The gcc is very isolating unless you know arabic which can help the arab expats blend into community , or if you make a decent income atleast 20000 riyals per month and above. Better to have atleast 40000 riyals per month inclusive of all benefits. Or if you are already a millionaire, then gcc is very good.

In this aspect , gcc is very good for us muslims and for our children. As you will be able to save a good amount of money and send your children to good schools.

Otherwise the gcc is just depressing for us earning 7000 5000 riyals per month.

The lack of citizenship creates big hurdles in the gcc.

Are careers typically related to the cfa qualification be halal ? I want to understand this before pursuing the qualification.

There is a change in syllabus , is the new syllabus better for feb 27 ? Or should i just focus on nov 26 ,?

I am yet to start my preparation.

I am thinking that the new syllabus is better from a learning perspective in terms of knowledge? Or am i just wrong?

For those who quit porn

For those who have quit porn

I don’t want to get into any relationship now , so for the next few years i will not be having any sex , i am also not into short term hookups , i also cannot afford to start a relationship now , also i am also not mentally ready.

When i use to watch porn , yes sexual urges would be satisfied by ejaculating , so i use to watch once a day mostly every day , and yes i would also be wasting a lot of time,

Now that i have stopped , i only have more urges , stronger erections which is a negative for me now and just frustration , like i would get urges randomly throughout the day and just feel pissed.

Like quitting porn the benefits i read ? I domt have any of it , like no increased confidence, no mental clarity , i am not pursuing a sex life anyway ,

My life has been difficult growing up , and i just want to be able to earn a decent living before looking to get into any relationship ,

So its not just about money , i have had several other problems in life that are jot even related to money , just the circumstances i couldn’t control while growing up , like i was just born into some crap shithole, it could have been much better had my parents made better choices for me growing up ,
Like i went to the wrong school , grew up in a wrong country. Even if went to the right school in this wrong country , life would have been so much better. Also when i was a teenager , my family prevented me from leaving this wrong country , as i was the youngest , and all my siblings prevented me from. Also i was not a citizen in this wrong country i grew up in , which made life even more difficult in getting entry level jobs.

For someone from my background , what other benefits does no fap even bring ? considering my situation ?

For those that attended bsc accounting or finance at university, how difficult are were their thesis compared to acca obu ?

I started acca after o levels directly , however in many posts i have seen them asking for a levels result card , however i have not done any a levels.

Does it create any issue ?

What is the role Pakistan played ? Did they directly help ?

I want to ask those who worked in lahore pwc , is it a good opportunity if i get to work in their business advisory section ( i think it is upper b group ? Or maybe lower b ? , i think it is upper b group)

So i will not be doing any external audits or any taxes at al.

My focus of work will be their business advisory services , and their internal audits.

Is this experience good or useful?

I am male in my late 20s , 5 feet 11 , decent looking.

I am so scared of marriage. I never thought of marriage , and never actively looked for a partner.

Only once a girl contacted me , i fell in love with her and her words, she was a colleague. She was a bit elder than me.

First year i kept things professional, but she kept saying she liked me indirectly and then said towards the end of the first year that she never liked anyone before,

i always thought she was a single woman coz of how she talked to me.

Only after one year when i told her i like her back, she said she had her nikkah broken (and no marriage ) , i asked her again if she did marriage ? She said no. Her nikkah was broken after 6 months. So at this time i blamed myself for not asking her directly in the first year when i already knew indirectly that she was interested in me.

Also during this time she said to me , not to ask her why her nikkah broke , i was just sad in a way and just stared at her face

Now finally after two years of more talking , she breaks the news to me that she did marriage and stayed at the guys house for few days and went back to her parents and then her marriage also ended within 6 months.

Also during this while , she kept saying she wanted to tell me something at random times , this question worried me , and i just asked her what , and she would just say nothing and move on to another topic.

She is in her early 30s now , about three years total i had spoken to her…. Now i feel shitty about myself for wanting to leave her , her being older and finding it even more difficult to find a suitable proposal for herself.

She messages me a lot and i kept saying to her how she lied to me.

I left school at the age of 16 ( so i always had outdoor sunshine)

After that i stayed indoors for nearly two years ( i was an evening candidate for a levels ) , so zero sun exposure i guess , i even had very low vitamin d when i checked that time , took some tablets i was prescribed and never bothered checking with doctor again, and until today 10 years later as well , i have not checked.

But when i was around 17 , i started developing horrible acne on my scalp to the point of burning pain, the only thing that cured me temporarily anti biotics , so for 10 years i took anti biotics on and off.

I started taking 10000 ius plus k2 of vitamin d3 everyday , pus magnesium glyconate plus zinc for a few months , ( i dont remember if this helped or not ? , probably did )

Also during this time i started having three or 4 eggs for breakfast everyday. ( i stopped having cheese completely which was something that i had everyday before , I remember having cheese one day , and my scalp exploded the next day )

So i stopped having cheese , had three or four eggs everyday , and my supplements , - these three things was something i did , and i stopped having anti biotics after 10 years.

Also i still eat yoghurt almost everyday like always.

So i really sure that one of these things or all of them , has really healed my scalp.

I feel grateful a lot