Helix piercing... HEEEEELP
So I've had a helix since November, and the swelling comes and goes, but the real issue is the earring.
They gave me one of the ones where the post wraps around the earring, and you have to press both together in the ear for it to stay (like a flat-back plunger thing?).
Here's the problem: I can't get it out. I've only been able to get it out once or twice successfully, but it always hurts and it's so painful that I start crying. Most of the time, I can't get it out of my ear. Period.
What the hell do I do? I can't live with this piercing anymore; I can't get it out without my ear bleeding, if at all, and it gets all swollen. Should i try to get it out again and replace it with a little hoop or something?
Please help me