u/Low-Team8524

Im 21f, my little brother is 15 and i have an older sister who is 25. Me and my brother have always had a rocky relationship. We get along well and laugh when we was younger, he was like my baby. Always with him. But as i got bit older, i got so annoyed by him. He always has a lot of energy and i dont. He was so annoying and misbehaved. My older sister hit him when he was misbehaving from a young age. He would also fight back but yk he was way younger than my sister and me. I used to get so annoyed that me and him would fight. My sister moved eventually so only us two together. Me and him continue arguing and him always annoying me. I think he has adhd or something. He also has big anger issues. When he gets mad, he gets REALLY mad. We have kicked each other and scratched. I mostly gets so annoyed and he is all in my face and wont listen so i have pushed him away. He has gotten into trouble with the police at 15, where he had to stay there for a night and he has tried some drugs.

This has been insanely tough for me and my family. Always worrying about him. He is a pretty spontaneous and energetic. When he annoyed me he would continue even when i said stop and kept going until i had to physically push him out my room and lock my door, he keeps pushing my door and kicking the door and then starts a fight. He has said that he remembers all the times where i hit him and same with my sister and that he wants to take revenge and has hit me even harder, he is taller and stronger than me now. He has said he wanted to kill me when we fought. He also said he has no empathy I genuinely got so scared that i had to go out the house, and this has happened multiple times.

We dont live together now, he lives with my dad and i live with my mom. I am scared that i have made him a violent person, that its my fault that he has anger issues. That i have pushed him down so much that he now is arrogant. That he felt so bad bc of me and my sister that he now is taking revenge. My parents used to fight a lot too but i dont think this is bc of them. I want the best for him and i hope he gets better with age. I always care abt what he is doing and his safety. But when i see old pictures of us or when i think about him i just cry and regret what i have done. I wish i showed more love, i wish i comforted him more bc i am his older sister but we just kept arguing. I cant go back in time and that hurts me. I dont think i will ever stop regretting this.

Im 20f and live in Norway! My cat is 7 years old, she is spayed. She has been itching her ears for some time and went to the vet and she had ear mites so we got medicine/ear drops prescribed. We wanted to clean her ears and she had to be sedated for them to do that. She wouldn’t let them near her ears bc its so uncomfortable. So had something in her right hear that we had a separate spray but that didn’t work bc its so uncomfortable looked like it hurt her so we didn’t continue with that. Now its been some time and the itching came back. I did contact the vet and they said we should get a 30 min appointment to look at it. I told my mom abt this and we couldn’t afford to do that. I hate seeing her in pain, usually more itching in evening/nights but everyday. Nothing has been done. Idk what to do now bc she itches so much and sometimes breath loud from her nose. I want to get it all checked out but its ofc expensive. Ahhhh i hate seeing her in pain, shaking her head hard, whimpering, itching and it has been like this long now. I asked my dad abt going to vet and he said nobody got money for that come on. I will ask my mom again to see what she says. It all will probably cost around 150 dollars or more. I feel so helpless :((((

Im a bisexual girl. I wish i could feel what it’s like to have sex with a girl, i bet it feels good. I would treat her so right too with the foreplay so its wet before putting it in 😭😭😭😭

Im 20f and my little brother is 15. Today he saw the scars on my arms, i did cut myself today and ik i should've hid them more. Well he saw it and i said i was just itching and scratched myself and got defensive. He kept on looking and seeing let me see the scratches. I moved away from him but he put on flash on my arms. He kept putting on the flash and looking while i said stop and i had to go to the toilet and i accidentally hit his phone so it fell. My dad heard this and just said stop to my brother and that i am not alright. Which idk what he means abt that. Not sure if he has seen my scars or if he is talking abt my epilepsy or something else. I just felt so violated. My heart sank. I said i scratched myself bc im itchy. After i went out of the toilet after a bit my brother asked why are u wearing a sweater now. I said bc i want to now, i have worn a sweater today before. He asked again and asked to see my arm but i kept on pushing him away. I am nervous abt tomorrow bc he will probably ask me again and again. I already argue a lot with him. He always annoys me. Every time when he comes to my room he says mean things and annoys me. This is something he will add on now. He is the main reason why i have been doing this , which is messed up to say iknow. But bc of arging, fighting and how he doesnt stop with the comments it makes me very overwhelmed, stressed, depressed and suicidal. Idk what to do now. I feel so vulnerable. He already calls me so mean things everyday and i am so tired of him coming to my face. This is a violation of my privacy.

Im 20f and my brother is 15. He has anger issues and possibly adhd but he doesn’t want to get it checked. He has been in trouble with the law last year bc he and his friends were told they would be given money to go snd shoot at this house and had weed in his bag. This was very hard for me and my family, we had to go through lots of meetings and talks with child services and etc. Everything involving that is gone now. One time after he took lsd on a school trip and the teacher had to call an ambulance. He has put a lot of stress on my family. My family lived together first but my parents were fighting so much we had to move, my mom moved and i went with my dad and brother. Then i moved to my mom bc i was so depressed living with them, was fighting a lot with them. I was so depressed and wanted to unalive myself. The contract for the place they live in went out to they moved in to us until they find another place and it’s been half a year now. I have been fighting with my brother, he always annoys me. Seems like he enjoys seeing me annoyed and mad. Has laughed at my face, calls me slurs, mean to my parents and me. I started cutting myself and wanting to unalive myself again. I am mostly with my brother since its summer vacation and my parents either work or are out with friends, but in general im more with him at home. Today i noticed he acted weird, falling, losing phone, speaking weird, extremely hungry and red eyes. I can tell he was high, probably edibles since he only was in his room and suddenly an hour later he was acting weird. I got really scared. He said he is just hungry and is acting normal, but I obviously know he is high. I hate that i have to deal with this alone. Seems like my parents doesn’t know how to deal with him so they just kinda do what he says. Sometimes i feel like the parent. I get scared of him when he is angry but i dont want to show it. He has threatened to kill me before but then said it was a joke and then mocked what i was saying. Irritating me every day, calling me chopped constantly and other mean things. Won’t leave me alone. When i saw him today my heart broke. Like this is not my brother anymore, i looked into his eyes and i didn’t see someone i knew. He changed so much. I feel bad for my family and him the most. I am tired of everything. We have been through some messed up things when we all lived together before. Idk what to do now. How can this be fixed. I feel scared. I don’t see my little brother anymore that used to be so sweet and laugh together. I am sobbing.

Im 20f and my brother is 15. He has anger issues and possibly adhd but he doesn’t want to get it checked. He has been in trouble with the law last year bc he and his friends were told they would be given money to go snd shoot at this house and had weed in his bag. This was very hard for me and my family, we had to go through lots of meetings and talks with child services and etc. Everything involving that is gone now. One time after he took lsd on a school trip and the teacher had to call an ambulance. He has put a lot of stress on my family. My family lived together first but my parents were fighting so much we had to move, my mom moved and i went with my dad and brother. Then i moved to my mom bc i was so depressed living with them, was fighting a lot with them. I was so depressed and wanted to unalive myself. The contract for the place they live in went out to they moved in to us until they find another place and it’s been half a year now. I have been fighting with my brother, he always annoys me. Seems like he enjoys seeing me annoyed and mad. Has laughed at my face, calls me slurs, mean to my parents and me. I started cutting myself and wanting to unalive myself again. I am mostly with my brother since its summer vacation and my parents either work or are out with friends, but in general im more with him at home. Today i noticed he acted weird, falling, losing phone, speaking weird, extremely hungry and red eyes. I can tell he was high, probably edibles since he only was in his room and suddenly an hour later he was acting weird. I got really scared. He said he is just hungry and is acting normal, but I obviously know he is high. I hate that i have to deal with this alone. Seems like my parents doesn’t know how to deal with him so they just kinda do what he says. Sometimes i feel like the parent. I get scared of him when he is angry but i dont want to show it. He has threatened to kill me before but then said it was a joke and then mocked what i was saying. Irritating me every day, calling me chopped constantly and other mean things. Won’t leave me alone. When i saw him today my heart broke. Like this is not my brother anymore, i looked into his eyes and i didn’t see someone i knew. He changed so much. I feel bad for my family and him the most. I am tired of everything. We have been through some messed up things when we all lived together before. Idk what to do now. How can this be fixed. I feel scared. I don’t see my little brother anymore that used to be so sweet and laugh together. I am sobbing.

Im 20f and my brother is 15. He has anger issues and possibly adhd but he doesn’t want to get it checked. He has been in trouble with the law last year bc he and his friends were told they would be given money to go snd shoot at this house and had weed in his bag. This was very hard for me and my family, we had to go through lots of meetings and talks with child services and etc. Everything involving that is gone now. One time after he took lsd on a school trip and the teacher had to call an ambulance. He has put a lot of stress on my family. My family lived together first but my parents were fighting so much we had to move, my mom moved and i went with my dad and brother. Then i moved to my mom bc i was so depressed living with them, was fighting a lot with them. I was so depressed and wanted to unalive myself. The contract for the place they live in went out to they moved in to us until they find another place and it’s been half a year now. I have been fighting with my brother, he always annoys me. Seems like he enjoys seeing me annoyed and mad. Has laughed at my face, calls me slurs, mean to my parents and me. I started cutting myself and wanting to unalive myself again. I am mostly with my brother since its summer vacation and my parents either work or are out with friends, but in general im more with him at home. Today i noticed he acted weird, falling, losing phone, speaking weird, extremely hungry and red eyes. I can tell he was high, probably edibles since he only was in his room and suddenly an hour later he was acting weird. I got really scared. He said he is just hungry and is acting normal, but I obviously know he is high. I hate that i have to deal with this alone. Seems like my parents doesn’t know how to deal with him so they just kinda do what he says. Sometimes i feel like the parent. I get scared of him when he is angry but i dont want to show it. He has threatened to kill me before but then said it was a joke and then mocked what i was saying. Irritating me every day, calling me chopped constantly and other mean things. Won’t leave me alone. When i saw him today my heart broke. Like this is not my brother anymore, i looked into his eyes and i didn’t see someone i knew. He changed so much. I feel bad for my family and him the most. I am tired of everything. We have been through some messed up things when we all lived together before. Idk what to do now. How can this be fixed. I feel scared. I don’t see my little brother anymore that used to be so sweet and laugh together. I am sobbing.

Im 20f and my brother is 15m. We argue a lot, he and my dad moved in where me and my mom live until they find a new place. Its been months now. My brother annoys me alot, he once said that he likes to ragebait me. He might have ADHD but then says he dont want to go to check it out bc he doesnt want to talk to them abt stuff.

So he said i dont care if i have ADHD now. We fight a lot and sometimes it gets physical. I get so mad that i dont know what to do. So i push him away from me. Not super hard put a little. Today he was being so mad bc my cat got outside and asked him to help find her but got mad and said he doesnt want to go out now. I said well then i dont want to go out either. Idk i was just mad that he didnt want to go outide too but i was ovb going to look for her anyways. But he shouted at me to go look so i grabbed his neck and face and like pushed it. He came to my room and then hit me, like my arm and leg. He then hit my closet so now its kinda broken.

We argue so much. I dont want to live with him. I keep asking my dad when they will move out but still havent found nowhere he says. I have been worse ever since they moved here. I cut myself again, my eyebags are darker, i got bigger, my face is different and i dont feel pretty. Feels like living like this has sucked the life out of me.

Im 20f and my brother is 14m. We have always been like fighting, he always annoys me. Everyday. He has laughed and smiled at my face before when i got mad at him so i went to my room and cried and cut myself. Thats usually what i do since i dont know how to handle this. This morning we were eating breakfast and he said give me the paper since his was messy and then said thanks my butler. I got so irritated my that and slapped his chest. Didnt mean to slap hard but just slapped him there. He got so angry and hit me back and said i am always the one to hit or kick him first. When he says so mean stuff things to me i kick him or just slap his arm or leg or something. But today after i hit him, he slapped my back so hard. So now im crying in my room and cutting myself. I dont know how to handle all the mean things he says to me. He loves to irritate me and he said that himself. I cant handle that every fucking day. So hit or push him away. Idk what to do abt this situation.

Im 20f and always argue with my brother 14m. My dad and brother moved in with me and my mom for some time until they find an apartment. We have been fighting alot. Even over the smallest things, he gets pissed off. Shouting, hitting and cussing. I think he might have ADHD or something bc this is not normal. I also get so angry with him when he is so mean and says the meanest things to me and my mom, like saying im a bitch, he will slap me, calling my mom poor and a pig. I have slapped him before, not on face but like back and arm bc i dont know what to do bc he wont listen. I regret slapping him but theres no way to take that back now. I have epilepsy also and he said, if u have a seizure i dont care. I got so sad after hearing that, basically saying he dont care if i die. He keeps annoying me and doesnt shut up. He says he cant control it. He said to me that he dont care how other people feel. I said dont u care abt how the other person might feel and he said no. Seems to have no compassion. Gets to the point when we fight that he actually scares me. Iknow he is only 14 but he has been to angry that he made me scared. Just needed to write this and put this out to the world instead of cutting myself right now bc thats what i usually do after we fight. I get so sad and angry that the only way to cope is to cut myself.