u/Maleficent_Bad1141

Tbh, she pisses me tf off. I love my grandma, me and my girlfriend help around the house, with money and chores, I always say “yes”.

The issue with her is
She refuses to understand there are things I can’t eat or trying to eat less. And that I have a menu.

Everytime she cooks some form of protein. It’s LOADED with vegetables, cooked with the meat or chicken.

Or I want rice, she makes it with peas and corn, NO.

I’m way too strict about my diet I know but it WORKS and my labs are perfect. And I want to keep it that way.

I told her a million times when she’s cooking, just leave me 2-3 blank pieces of whatever it is, beef, fish, chicken.

She got angry at me a couple of times saying like “bc of you I can’t cook or eat anything in this house” and that really hurt my feelings bc who tf gave you that idea ? Cook whatever tf you want for you and let me cook for me. But she doesn’t, she cooks the whole protein, and then gets angry at me for picking at it or just avoiding it all together.

What do I do ?

It’s coming to a point where I come back home and the chicken that me or my gf bought is turned into a potassium mess. It’s like she put all the worse things.
(Which taste amazing don’t get me wrong but I want to live)

And also she LOVES to put those salty condiments and spice mixes. Even tho I say again and again pleaseeeeee for the love of god enough with those processed JUNK condiments.

Please some advice ?

(Note: she’s young and perfectly lucid so it’s not like she forgets what I say or that I FORCE her to cook for me. Not at all anything like that)

I just had the realisation how sucks it is that if there’ll be a zombie apocalypse I won’t survive :(

Like.. obviously no dialysis.

Maybe I should invest in home dialysis and stock up on years of supplies in case of an apocalypse?
What yall think ?

A little random but for years now I’ve had this thought in my head about a small oversight in the show, I’m sure someone already brought this up here or somewhere else.

Remember when Negan and the group had their war and Negan had the idea to “lace” the arrows and bullets with walker blood to infect the group ? Makes sense right ? Their bad blood causing the infection that’ll kill you, also somewhat medically accurate.

But I couldn’t help but think, how for the entire time they were fighting and shooting and getting themselves dirty with walker blood and juices this never happened naturally? Like when they disguise themselves with walker blood to walk among a herd, isn’t it enough to have a scrape, cut, open wound, a lil into your mouth, to cause this ?
From a show perspective I get why, bc everyone would just be dead faster and it’ll be a hassle to write, so why write the Negan plan ? Couldn’t they think of something else ?

Maybe I’m just talking outta my ass and there’s an explanation for that in the lore or show.

Tell me what yall think. :)
That’s it thanks 🙏🏼

So there’s this cat that lives in our backyard and sleeps here mostly but also goes outside and to the neighbours, I feed her and give her water and clean her fur with animal friendly wipes.

I wash my hands everytime after I touch her bc I’m
A dialysis patient and more immunocompromised.

Today I grabbed her by neck to make her still and wipe her eye, she’s got something that makes her eye water, idk if infection or not. I had double layer also

But when I came back to the room to eat with my gf after a while I remembered I didn’t wash my hands.

Idk if I wiped them at all or anything.

So now I’m kind of freaking out.. idk what to do or if there’s anything to do or to be scared of..

Any google or ai search says that if I didn’t touch her poop or had a bite or scratch there’s almost no risk of anything.

Any advice ?

So her name is Shnitzel, she started to come around the house in the walkway and me and my girlfriend would always say “hello Shnitzel” and let her rub on our legs and such, bring tuna sometimes, water.

Last 3 days she’s been crying to get inside the backyard where the entrance to our room/unit is in my grandmas house.

I let her in and bought good quality cat food, water, and treats. I go out to pet her and give her attention a lot and also does my gf.

The thing is, at all times especially at night she wants to come in the room, at afternoons I think bc it’s summer and hot here she’s kinda lying down near the door where you can feel a breeze of the AC so I guess she’s hot and really likes the AC. Bc if I leave the door open she immediately rushes to go inside and kinda stops and look at me and I say no and like do a 👋 with my hand in the air, and she either goes in head only and then goes

Or goes inside to under the bed and then goes outside after I call her.

Seems like she’s kinda testing me or asking permission.
My guess is that she’s either not a stray at all (not likely since she’s like 90% of the time here)

Or she was a house cat that was abandoned or forgotten or idk what.

Now for the problem: I can’t let her in.
As much as it hurts me, I can’t let her in the house. I let her in the small backyard since I saw another cat trying to attack her and I ran after it with a broom to scare it away! (Don’t you dare touch my baby!) (I wouldn’t hurt the cat don’t worry)

But inside the room is just impossible for a lot of reason.

1. I am a dialysis patient who’s waiting for transplant. It’s too much of a health risk. After I put her I wash my hands to be safe but my immune system is weak af rn and after the surgery it’ll be an actual threat to my life
   If not handled correctly.

2. Our room is small. We have a shower, bed, work/ gaming table, sink, bathroom. All in the room. There’s like a few steps worth of free walking space.

3. For the health reasons I don’t want her to come to sleep in my bed and neither does my gf. As much as I’d love to cuddle with her into the night, I can’t.

And also where I’ll put her sandbox ? On my desk ? lol there’s just no space.

In the rest of the house with my grandma is also a big no no.

She doesn’t hate the cat all. She likes cats and think they’re cute but she wouldn’t let a cat live in her living room or kitchen.

My plan for now is to think on it for the next 6 days until I get my disability pay and have the money to get her to a vet for a general checkup and stuff.

And I do do that, I’d maybe think to kinda build or
Put a cardboard box with blankets under the tree I have in the yard and kinda teach her that this is her spaces, that could be nice I guess.

The only
Problem with that is to teach her that our room is a no no zone.

Now I notice, that in the time of my writing this she stopped meowing outside the door, perhaps went to sleep on my smoking chair 🪑 (finally)

If everytime and every night I go inside the room and leave her outside she’d meow it’ll break my heart.. it genuinely sounds like she’s saying “papaaaa” 😭

She’s adorable and I’m falling for her.

What do you guys think I should do ?

I have a Mexican girlfriend and she told me there was a channel that used to always play dragon ball on afternoons but it’s almost like Mexican have EXTRA love for Goku. So why is that ?

(I’m a vegeta fan btw)

רציתי לשאול איך זה עובד אם מישהו או מישהי יודעים על זה

חברה שלי ממקסיקו בישראל ללימודים. ואני מן הסתם רוצה שהיא תישאר כאן.
אם אנחנו ״מתחתנים״ ביוטה דרך הזום שלפי מה שהבנתי הרבה עושים את זה וזה עולה איזה 500 דולר

מה הלאה ? צריך להגיש את זה לגופים הרלוונטיים ? כזה ״אנחנו נשואים תנו לה ויזת עבודה ואז אזרחות״

או משהו אחר? אשמח לתשובות או לינקים לאיזשהו פורומים שיש בהם תשובות.

תודה רבה ויום מקסים לכולם !

I kinda have no excuses. I am 23 years old and I got sick and on dialysis for almost a year. I’ve tried to go back to work last couple weeks, but it’s a lot happened with me and I switched from my chest catheter to my fistula. And unfortunately I got a pretty nasty hematoma that kind of got infected and I was in and out of the hospital, and the doctor, and so I had to skip like three shifts and so I quit because I couldn’t take it. I couldn’t take the pressure. I’m dealing with a lot of anxiety on the day. I don’t know what or why I always feel like anxious and worried and out of breath. And like I’m going to pass out or die for basically no reason, when I’m home I feel great. I’m not diagnosed or anything, but I’ve think that’s kind of like agrophobia.. I get money from the government disability pay and it’s Pretty decent. I just want to do stuff. I’m looking now for a new job, something in an office so I can sit down as it is easier for me, I just really need therapy but I can’t get it my health care providers aren’t coming back to me on that for months and it beyond frustrating.